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i am going to my cousins wedding and i need some clothes websites that have cute dresses (link)
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i want to get a digital camera. Im 14 and I dont need it for taking pics. of the world or anything like that. Just of my friends, vacations etc. What number of mega pixels should i get? Anyone have a good digital camera they really like? let me know. thanks! (link)
i have a very nice camera. its 6 mexa pixels but they should have at least 4. so if your looking , look for 4 or more mexa pixels. good luck


alright hey my brother is getting married and he did not want a big big wedding i don't know why but he did not...so after the wedding like the next weekend they are have a cookout with like EVERYONE they know!! adn everyone says their going to wear like a skirt or a dress or something fancy or something and there is going to be an inground swimming pool to. and i was woundering dose anyone know what i should wear?? (link)
if you have one wear a white skirt with any color tanktop. wear a cute pair of flip flops and some jewlery. i would reccomend bringing your swimming suit instead of wearing it.


I like this guy named Ben. He knows i like him b/c of my little brother. Well i volunteer with him alot. so all year i am going to be seeing him. i want to ask him out but i don't know what to do. by the way... i'm not one of those girls who waits for the guys to ask them out. too old fashioned for me. (link)
well if u dont know what to say you can say something like:
I really like u. i was wondering if maybe you like me too?

*if he says he does.. just go ahead and ask him!*



I liked this guy in the 5th grade... I was the first girl to like him in our school. (He was new then) I got over it even though I still liked him. He didnt even know me. In the 6th grade we were hanging out alot because we had a friend that both us hung out with. After two months of hanging out and talking, he asked me out. I said yes. We were going out for 2 months. During that time I got my first kiss. And I was just so happy. Well after two months I broke up with him because I got a note from a girl who was like stay away from my boyfriend. (No one knew about our relationship) And I was threatened and everything I was so heartbroken. I broke up with him and we moved on. Even though I still liked him. Then in the 7th grade he asked me out again. I said yes but he made me promise that I wouldnt tell anyone because he was going to surprise everyone on Friday and tell them, in a special way. Well I told my best friend and the next day during lunch she told like his whole table. A guy that sat with him said he is going to break up with you and I believed him. I couldnt have my heart broken I have a reputation as a tough girl. So I broke up with him again. My heart was broken but I still loved him. About 2 months later, I was sleeping over a friends house and someone was staying at his. We were on the phone from 8pm until 2:15am. My friend fell asleep and so did his so from 1:30am until 2:15 we spent talking and saying I love you and and all this sweet stuff. But he never asked me out again. We stayed like that for a long time. We still are close but no more sweet stuff. I miss him and I read his profile online and reminded me so much of how I feel and how much time we spent togehter it was almost like he was writing it for me. I am still in love and I was before I read it but now that I read it I fell. I fell so fast that after I finished the last word I hit the ground. I love him so much. What do you think I should do? Should I tell him or leave it bee?
PLEASE TELL ME!!! NEED HELP! ANY THING! (link)
tell him .. if he doesnt feel the same way. give it time. but seriously ,tell him. maybe he didnt ask u out because he doesnt know how YOU feel. good luck and hope i helped


i am just wondering why people put lemon juice in there hair. i am not bein mean but i just wanna know what it does
thanks (link)
for people with darker hair, they put lemon juice streaks in their hair & lay in the sun. it gives you highlights.. fast and simple

hope i helped


Hey guys.. My little cousin is turning 16 in January and we really want to help her throw a party, or throw one for her. For my 16th birthday my twin & i just had like a big cookout in out backyard because its in June and its nice. But for January we dont know what to do. Ideas or birthday party stories would be great.

Thanks everyone,
LoveMonkey728 (link)
I know how it must feel. My bday is in february and my dad couldnt think of ne thing either. what we did for mine : my dad flew me and 10 friends out to california (he came too of course) and we rented a house and we had a BBQ there and we went swimming. it was fri-tues. but of course it was REALLY expensive.

sorry .. thats all i could think of..



Okay, so a year and half ago or so, my stupid friend and I prank called this guy. And I know him for teasing people about things that happened loooong amounts of time ago. I don't care if he does it, but I'm going to see him at this party this weekend and that would be the first time I'm seeing him in like a year. I know he's gonna make a big deal out of it or at least mention it. Any comebacks or anything I could say to embarrass him and make him shut up? Sorry, dumb question. (link)
if he says something like ' Well .. if it isnt miss-i-prank-call-people-because-i-think-its-funny. '
you should say something like ' Well .. if it isnt MISS-i-think-making-fun-of-people-is-cool-but-its-really-not-because-im-a-gay-faggot-and-nothing-i-do-is-ever-cool! '

Haha. or if he says something else..
say:
aw shut the fuck up! go cry at home to ur mommy. but dont worry (his name), its cool if you do it! NOT!

but if thats too immature cuz of the whole mommy thing you could say something like..

your just a dumbass who thinks everyone likes you but no one does. i wont be surprised if you
grow up like michael jackson!

haha thats good =P hope i helped & good luck


everyones saying you bleed wen you have sex


...please explain this to me & is it weird for him? my b/f is not a virgin and i am (link)
you might bleed because you hymen ( aka cherry )is being popped. but it doesnt happen to every girl. this happens when u have sex and thats where the bloods coming from. hope i helped


I seriously need some help.. last night my little sister (10) must have gotten a hold of some scissors because my hair is completely chopped... the night before last I colored her hair green (shes a bleach blonde) and I guess she did that to get me back.... WHAT DO I DO?!?!! my hair is so short and uneven... it was down by my lower back...any help would be appriciated! (link)
wow lol go to a hair salon .. they can help u. the same thing happened to my friend ;) it grows back faster then you'll realize. good luck


This is kind of embarrassing, but I'm concerned that I'm not normal. What is the usual number of bowel movements a person should have per week?
Ag, Thank you! (link)
No more then 4! If its more then 4, u should go to the doctors. hope i helped


What is the best energy drink to buy besides red bull? Does starbucks double shot give you alot of energy? (link)
Amp & crunk. good luck


I'm 16 and going to be a junior in high school next fall. I go to a vocational school so I have shop every other week, all day long. I've just started having a crush on my friend who is in my shop. I like him so much, it's crazy. He likes me too. We talk on the phone a lot and I really want a relationship with him but I'm afraid that in the end our relationship won'w work out and we wont talk anymore. I would never ever want that to happen because hes such a great friend. I really have no idea what to do. Please help me out. Thanks in advance. (link)
Just do it. Tell him you still want to be friends though. But if he doesnt want to be friends after u break up .. he wasnt a good friend in the first place. Good luck


ok i ended up dumping him because he treated me so badly but something inside of me wants him back and i know its not right! how do i keep my mind off of him and move on? thanx for ur help* (link)
Get a new boyfriend. Or if not.. spend more time with more boys / friends. Keep yourself busy! Good Luck


is proactive really good for acne? i mean.. i dont get REAL bad acne but when i get pimples they get real red ..so do you think proactive is right for me and how much is it? where can i get it (link)
I use it. Its great. Im not sure how much it is.. but you can get it online. hope i helped and good luck


I ounce went out with this girl, but then she dumped me. I still like this girl but i dont know if she even likes me the littlist, i cant figure out if i should ask her out or just get over her. (link)
Just ask her out. You never know. And well if she says no .. then you'll have to move on. Good Luck


okay, during the day i have nothing to do, i am so bored. school years aren't so bad because i have school and homework and stuff like that, but the summers are unbearable! I have nothing to do. i can't get a job even though i want to because of those damn child labor laws and i don't have a driver's liscence so can anyone think of stuff i can do during the day? (link)
You can walk to places with your friends. Or (this is what i do) ask your parents to sign you up for a summer camp .. but maybe next year. Good Luck


well tomorrow i'm going to the doctors for a check up and i'm 14/f and last time i went they looked down my pants and i think its VERY preverted! ( is that normal for most doctors to do?) is there a way i can stop them??

signed: grossed out (link)
Its totally normal when they do it. they just want to make sure everything okay.. i know it does seem awkward but they do it to everyone!


What are good hairstyles for people with bigger heads/foreheads? (link)
well if you have a big forehead .. then get the sweeping bangs that go to ur side. its adorable! good luck


I wanna dye my hair pink, but not permanent maybe like a week, or sumthing, but not more than 2 weeks. How can I do it? I mean like where can i find the dye? or can i do in naturally? with like with stuff i hav from my house? i heard coolaide (sp) works or sumthin! I hav dark brown hair, please help?1 thnx (link)
well nothing at ur house will work. but if u go to a party store ( like party sity ) they have like hair spray and it comes out after shampooing. Good Luck




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