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Falling for a friend
I'm 16 and going to be a junior in high school next fall. I go to a vocational school so I have shop every other week, all day long. I've just started having a crush on my friend who is in my shop. I like him so much, it's crazy. He likes me too. We talk on the phone a lot and I really want a relationship with him but I'm afraid that in the end our relationship won'w work out and we wont talk anymore. I would never ever want that to happen because hes such a great friend. I really have no idea what to do. Please help me out. Thanks in advance.
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Just do it. Tell him you still want to be friends though. But if he doesnt want to be friends after u break up .. he wasnt a good friend in the first place. Good luck <3
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You are probably going to end up going but heres teh thing if you do break up you have to tell him that you NEED to stay friends with him and after that keep in touch with him and talk to him and hang out so you dont loose your friendship with him! =) Hope I helped!
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I think that you should have a relationship with him but before you should think is he the person that wouldn't be my friend if it doens't work out and then talk to him and say i want to have a relationship but only if you promise we will be friends.
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Don't worry about what's going to happen in the future. Just go for it and if it dosn't work out then it doesn't work out. I mean, since you two like each other, why don't you just try going out.
I hope this helped.
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This the hardest situation, but the thing is, I can't tell you what to do, I can only help. Now I hate to admit that I am going through the same thing right now. Now what I can tell you is that you need to think to yourself as long as you need, but not too long, you don't want to loose him. Another thing that you need to realize is that if you and him split up, (that is if you get together with him) it will be hard for you two to become friends again. Now that isn't the sure-fire reason not to see him. That is just one reason not to. Anyway, no one can tell you what to do, because this will change your life forever. I hope I helped, and remember, my inbox is always open. Please rate.
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If you want to be in a relationship you should go for it. If it doesn't work out you could still be frends, even though that doesn't sound good, but it works. Just think positive and always go for what you want because in the end it can help you solve another problem in life.
best wishes
twistedteen25
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*sigh* yea........i actually really have that same problem all the time, haha. I know exactly what you mean....so...i go for friends with benefits. I know that sounds kinda weird, but it really does work. For some reason whenever ppl officially call themselves "couples" it changes everything. You act differently....talking to each other seems....weirder. Or maybe that's just me, haha. But if you are really crazy about him....just go for it and see what happens! He could turn out to be the love of you life, but if you're having doubts....go for option one =P
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If you both like eachother, try it. Go to the movies, hangout with him, etc. Keep it simple at first, don't rush into things too fast. You shouldn't give up something that could be special, just because you don't know if it'll work out or not. If you like him, you like him. You can't control your feelings. Why not take a risk? That's what life is for. You never know what you could be missing out on until you try. He could be your Mr.Right.
♥ Krissy
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