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Heyyyy! My name is Ashely! I'm really nice and I dont think badly about anyone! I really do give good advice....sometimes it may be harsh but it WILL be good advice. I'm online a lot of the time and I will be able to answer all your questions most likely the day you ask. =D So plz! I'm here to help!

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Here’s the thing I am 15/f and I’ve never had a boyfriend. Now there is a guy who is 2 years older than me and I see him every summer and I’ve liked him for the last 5 years and I was really crazy about him last year. The thing is we’ve never talked and we live on the same street during the summer. Now, last summer I took a picture of him from his cousin (my best friend who is 15/f too) and I drew a portrait of him (I am very good at art). He wouldn’t think I am a stalker because their whole family knows I am good at art and I come up with some crazy projects every now and then. The thing is he is really shy around people he doesn’t know well and he will be really embarrassed when I show him the picture and then I will be embarrassed because I am really shy around guys and especially around guys I like. I’ve also asked his cousin to help me but she wants to stay out of it and doesn’t want to get involved in any way even thought I’ve begged her to help me, because she doesn’t like the whole matchmaking thing, but she does give me information about him when I ask. I can’t pick up a conversation with him because he never hangs out with us and the only way I can talk to him is if I run up to him when I see him on the street which is out of the question because it will be too weird plus you can’t really start a casual conversation this way. The other thing is that I am pretty (at least that’s what many guys have said about me) but the guy I like is very attractive and he has had girls chasing him since 3rd grade so he is used to that, but he is not a player and as I said he is shy (I know all these things from my friend). So I don’t know how to get his attention, we don’t talk, we both act really cold when we are around people we don’t know. What should I do to make him notice me and pick up a conversation without letting him know I like him or at least without letting him know I’m crazy about him.

Wow.....maybe you should just casually be walking along the street when he's outside one day...start up a convo about the weather or something. I'm really outgoing so stuff like this just seems simple, (lol). But you should really just try going up to him and talking to him. Tell him you're friends with his cousin and that she mentioned you a few times and you thought he was cool. It'd be a good convo starter....better than the weather, (lol).

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On most TV sets there is a little light by the power button that lights up when TV is on. Ours has suddenly started to blink when the TV is off. What does this mean? Is it an indication the TV needs service? The color was acting up a month ago, but no longer seems to be a problem.

It could possobly just be on standbye....one of our t.v.'s has that...its weird cause it's not actually on standbye, lol

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Ok, this is starting to bug me, I know that in america we have free speech, but omg this draws the line, STOP WHINING! I know that some of you advicenators dont deserve this, because your problems ARE real, but i have just read a "problem" about a sister who is being "too bossy," im sorry, but this screams 9 YEARS OLD all over it. Please, do not post such petty problems, you just sound blatanly stupid.
Once again, my apolagies to the people on here who actually do have a problem, and I would LOVE to help you, but to all you WHINERS out there, please just leave the problem be.

Ppl have different opinions and visualize things differently. Everyone has problems, sure some bigger than others but they still would appreciate a little advice.

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My friend told me that he was moving away...I'm very bummed about it but I dont know what I can do...Can someone please help me like how did you feel and what did you do and everything. Thanks a lot!

Yes....it can be very heartbreaking when a friend moves away. Buy a calling card.....buy a bunch of calling cards, haha. Talk to your parents about maybe visiting each other for a holiday or something. If you have a sn then IM each other everyday! Send pics to each other to keep each other updated, there's a whole list of things you can do. It wont be the same as hanging out everyday but its pretty close, haha.

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ok i have this boyfriend his name is greg.. well he went on vacation with his family 2 puerto rico.. while he was gone i met this other guy ricky. ricky is rele sweet nd charming and we slept with each other at least 5 times. i dunno .. i don't feel the same with greg as i do with ricky.. ricky is wayy better in bed.. i ain't a slut or nothin.. well maybe i am but seriously what should i do? HELP i'll rate HIGH if you do `-MARIE

okay.....well, haha. Tell greg about ricky....plain and simple, you really dont have a choice. You obviously want Ricky, so be with Ricky. Dont be with both, i mean, would you really want a guy doing that to you?

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I'm thinking about making a cd with all the songs that make me think of the guy I like (much too weak a word, believe me) and then giving it too him, but I'm not sure what message that would send. We've been best friends for about five years, and while i'm willing to risk a great friendship for what i feel would be a better relationship, I don't want him to think i have a secret shrine to him in my closet (i don't, btw). any advice on how this might make him feel or the possible consequences to my following up on it?

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Oooooo, sweetie guys are too stubborn to realize stuff like that...it wouldnt work, believe me. He wouldnt think twice....sorry =(. But really.....since you two are such great friends just talk to him about how you feel. You're up to risking anything, just go for it, haha.

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I'm 16 and going to be a junior in high school next fall. I go to a vocational school so I have shop every other week, all day long. I've just started having a crush on my friend who is in my shop. I like him so much, it's crazy. He likes me too. We talk on the phone a lot and I really want a relationship with him but I'm afraid that in the end our relationship won'w work out and we wont talk anymore. I would never ever want that to happen because hes such a great friend. I really have no idea what to do. Please help me out. Thanks in advance.

*sigh* yea........i actually really have that same problem all the time, haha. I know exactly what you mean....so...i go for friends with benefits. I know that sounds kinda weird, but it really does work. For some reason whenever ppl officially call themselves "couples" it changes everything. You act differently....talking to each other seems....weirder. Or maybe that's just me, haha. But if you are really crazy about him....just go for it and see what happens! He could turn out to be the love of you life, but if you're having doubts....go for option one =P

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I've been with my girlfriend for over 18 months. I'm 19 and female and i just transfered schools. She's 18 and is just going in to college. We're only going to be about an hour apart, but for some reason she thinks she's going to get her heart broken. I keep telling her that we will have to work together to make it work, but for some reason she doesn't think so. Is it possible that she wants out? Can our relationship survive while we're in college?

Her telling you that it wont work is probably her way of telling you she doesnt wanna try to make it work. I know that sounds bad but it does really sound like an excuse. You should just flat out ask her about it....if she really does just want to break up then bringing that up will make it easier for her to say so....if not then you'll just have to see for yourselves if it'll work out. 8 times out of 10 the realtionships wont work.....hey, ya never know....maybe you can be one of the lucky two.

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every girl i like doesnt like me back...they say they just like me as a friend...and i really need a girlfriend i just dotn know what to do...is there somethin im doin wrong...?

Wow.....i had that problem, lol. You're not doing anything wrong...and dont try to change yourself for ANY girl. I good girlfriend will like you for who you are. Which also is why you should be a little patient when it comes to getting a girlfriend. Why do you feel you "need" a girlfriend....answer me that and I can help you a little more, lol.

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