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I fell so fast I already hit the ground.....
I liked this guy in the 5th grade... I was the first girl to like him in our school. (He was new then) I got over it even though I still liked him. He didnt even know me. In the 6th grade we were hanging out alot because we had a friend that both us hung out with. After two months of hanging out and talking, he asked me out. I said yes. We were going out for 2 months. During that time I got my first kiss. And I was just so happy. Well after two months I broke up with him because I got a note from a girl who was like stay away from my boyfriend. (No one knew about our relationship) And I was threatened and everything I was so heartbroken. I broke up with him and we moved on. Even though I still liked him. Then in the 7th grade he asked me out again. I said yes but he made me promise that I wouldnt tell anyone because he was going to surprise everyone on Friday and tell them, in a special way. Well I told my best friend and the next day during lunch she told like his whole table. A guy that sat with him said he is going to break up with you and I believed him. I couldnt have my heart broken I have a reputation as a tough girl. So I broke up with him again. My heart was broken but I still loved him. About 2 months later, I was sleeping over a friends house and someone was staying at his. We were on the phone from 8pm until 2:15am. My friend fell asleep and so did his so from 1:30am until 2:15 we spent talking and saying I love you and and all this sweet stuff. But he never asked me out again. We stayed like that for a long time. We still are close but no more sweet stuff. I miss him and I read his profile online and reminded me so much of how I feel and how much time we spent togehter it was almost like he was writing it for me. I am still in love and I was before I read it but now that I read it I fell. I fell so fast that after I finished the last word I hit the ground. I love him so much. What do you think I should do? Should I tell him or leave it bee?
PLEASE TELL ME!!! NEED HELP! ANY THING!
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tell him .. if he doesnt feel the same way. give it time. but seriously ,tell him. maybe he didnt ask u out because he doesnt know how YOU feel. good luck and hope i helped <33
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Well you are in a bit of a pickle.
This guy is obviously special to you and you both felt for each other passionately but are you sure that you cared for as much as you thought you did; because as soon as you heard a rumour you broke up with him. This could mean that you don't trust him or that you didn't communicate properly.
Communication is vital within a stable relationship. Also keeping the relationship secret puts strain on both you and your partner.
Obviously you can't trust best friend either because she told the whole table that you were sitting with.
If you still really like this guy and feels the same talk ot him and he saya something sweet and caring then he most likeky still feels the same, but if not then leave alone for a while and find out later when you are slightly less smitten ans more just curious.
Hope this helped!?
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well you cant stay heartbroken.. thats for sure. so you gotta get him back! ask him if he is still interested... see if he feels the same way. think about whats more important.... your reputation...or him?
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Short and Simple: You should ask HIM out this time and not listen to what everyone else says. If he asks why you dumped him, say because you were young and people were pulling you in all directions. good luck! hope i helped! please rate! xO'ali
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If you're going to try to be with him again, you need to make up your mind whether he's worth it and whether you're going to listen to what other people say.
The note from the other girl saying stay away could be one of two things. Either he was dating her and cheating on her with you, in which case you don't want this guy, or she wanted him and broke you up to get to him.
The guy at the table telling you he was going to break up with you could also be either someone trying to stir up trouble, or someone honestly trying to keep you from getting hurt.
Even though you really care about this guy, I think you should take a step back and make sure before you make a move.
It seems to me that he's not going to ask you out again because he figures you'll just dump him again. You can't keep breaking up to keep your heart from getting broke since it's obviously breaking your heart being away from him anyway. If you want to truly be with him, then go for it. Listen to what other people say but take it with a grain of salt. Just follow your heart.
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You should ask him if that is about you and if it is then tell him how you felt becoz it seems like it would be sweet and you both would make a good couple .. If you really like him why dont you just ask him out ?!?! .. Hope i helped !!
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I think you should tell him and see how he feels. If you do get back together then I think you should never listen to what others are telling you he says. I imagine he is hesitant to say anything to you right now even if he did like you because he probably doesn't want to be hurt again either. You have broke it off twice already. If you're going to love someone you have to be able to trust what THEY tell you. :)
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