Hey, I'm Gwilwillith!!!
I live in South West England, 120+ miles from London.
I'm studying for my GCSE Exams.
My interests...well ask me specificly and find out!!!!!!
Keep the advice coming in!!!!!!!!!!!
Gwilwillithxx
E-mail: gwilwillithoflorien@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Warminster, England
Age: 15
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Member Since: July 20, 2005
Answers: 19
Last Update: August 6, 2005
Visitors: 1390
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my boyfriend was fingering me the other day and like all of a sudden i felt like alot of watery stuff..and i blamed it on him and was like u CUMMED on me..and he was like i didn't i didn't even feel anything..and so he takes the blame and says sorry..but still promises he didn't feel a thing and so i get up and notice the sheets are really wet only to find blood all over them..meaning that wet stuff was ME bleeding..is it possible to bleed THAT much? i mean it was everywhere (link)
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Don't worry! Your hymen broke and that is completely normal. And if ur wondering, YES ur still a virgin.
Hope that reassured u?!
Gwilwillith xx
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Is it normal for a girl my age to like another girl? I mean, i don't think i'm a lesbian or bisexual, but i heard it could be normal for someone my age (which is 15 btw) to be... "curious"? am i just weird? (link)
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Hey don't worry!!! Lots of girls and boys questionthere sexuality and then nothing comes of it!! Yes at fifteen everyone is a little curious about sex and peoples sexuality.
Also girls form very close strong bonds of friendship that can feel like something more than just good friends.
Your not wierd!! Your horemones are all over the place, which can't be helped!!
Hope this helped a little,
Gwilwillith xx
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what's pop a cherry mean? (link)
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THere is a lining in your vagina called the HYMAN and when it breaks it is called "popping the cherry".
It breaks for all sorts of reasons and at different times. Tampons break it and so on.
Hope this helps??
Gwilwillithxx
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my boyfriend's friend keeps hitting on me even tho he know im in a relationship with his close friend. the other day we were at this party and he pulled me up to this room and he raped me. he grabbed me and touched my body. im really scared and he hurt me. i feel strange. i couldnt do anything hes a football player and he held me down and i couldnt stop him. he shove something in my mouth so i couldnt scream. wut do i do?? i cant tell my boyfriend or he will kick the living shit out of him.the guy said if i tell anyone he will do it again. i know i can get some reasonable advice here.
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This guy raping you is unacceptable!!! Tell your boyfriend, your parents and the police because it is illegal. As long as your alright and don't think your pregnant. Tell people you trust and get this sorted. If you inform the police then he will be put on record, so if does it again he can be prosecuted. Maybe go to your doctor and have a check up.
Tell people and you'll feel better after it is sorted. Get counsiling if you need it, but make sure that the people who care about you know and can help you sort it.
Hope I helped and that you are okay!!!
Gwilwillith xx
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Ok. so my boyfriend just told me that he didn't want to have sex tell he is married but I really don't want to wait me and let's call him stuart have been dating a while and i'm in love with him so much but I really don't want to wait. What do I do? (link)
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I understand that you love him and that you don't want to wait but you have to respect your boyfriend's wishes because then he may be more willin, because you have shown that you care and respect him. Don't push him, support him!
Gwilwillith xx
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Can you take aerosols (i.e. body spray and spray deo) on planes, either in hand luggage or in your suitcase? (link)
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Yeah in your suitcase is better than your hand luggage!!!
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My boyfriend fingered me three days ago, and I guess he must have done it harder than usual, because when he pulled his finger out, it was covered in blood, and *down there* was a little bit bloody. I have been bleeding a little bit since then, but not that much. I don`t think that it wasn`t my period, because I just had it like a week ago. Could it have been my cherry that was popped, or what?!?! (link)
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Yeah don't worry, it was your HYMAN that broke. Basically, yes your cherry popped!!! If you haven't had proper sex, yes you are still a virgin.
Hope this helped??
Gwilwillith xx
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is it bad to masterbate? (link)
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NO!! Mastabatin is comepletely normal and you havenothig to worry about. You've done nothing wrong!!
Gwilwillithxx
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WHat do you do if your boyfriend wants to do something sexual with you but you dont feel ready at the moment?? (link)
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You say to your boyfriend that you don't feel ready and he should understand if you are in a strong relationship. Just say no, because you have every right to. If he gets all moody about this then ditch him, because it isn't worth doing ait and then regretting it.
Hope this helped ???
Gwilwillith xx
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i want to make a shirt for my best friend, because her birthday is comin up... shes very religious and i want to put some sort of quote on it...so does anybody kno any short bible verses, or religious quotes?? thanks for your help!! (link)
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Hopefully this is one you would want to use...
..."Your people will be my people, your God will be my God2"...Ruth; verse 16
Hope that was what you wanted!?
Gwilwillithxx
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society tells us that having premarital sex is wrong, (risk of pregnancy, stds...) but also emotionally, that you cant handle a breakup after you lose your virginity to someone, it changes your life forever, etc. I know all of that, but is it true with EVERY SINGLE relationship that if you have premarital sex, it'll drive you two apart and you'll eventually break up. How wrong is it to have sex in highschool (only with 1 person of course and you keep it between yourself.) my boyfriend and I have been going out for 7 months and I want to have sex with him eventually but I'm afraid it'll make us break up... why does that happen? like think back in the 1940's, if you got pregnant both of you would drop out of highschool and GET MARRIED...why cant it be like that these days? (link)
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Premarrital sex isn't wrong!!!!!
Sex doesn't ruin every SINGLE relationship!! It will only spoil it if you let it. It will be spoilt if someone does somehting immature....
If both you and your boyfriend are both ready and are in a steady relationship then I see nothng wrong with it. Communicate and make sure that your boyfriend is comfortable and that you are too.
USE PROTECTION!!!!!!
Remember having sex is a big step and make SURE that you are ready.
People break up because of lots of reasons! Nerves, lies, immaturity etc.
Do what your heart tells you, but I hope I have been able to guide in the right direction and answered your question?!
Gwilwillithxx
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The other nite me and my boyfriend got "comfortable." He ate me out, but soon after i started bleeding. it wasnt my period because i already had it. whats wrong?
*lyss* (link)
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This is normal!! DON'T PANIC!!!!!!!!!!
There is a thin lining that breaks when something pentrates it. Peoples break at different times. If you had ever used tampons then it would have already broken. You are completely normal! Most peoples break when they frist have sex or have foreplay.
Hope that has put your mind at rest?!
Gwilwillithxx
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I really like this guy that lives down the street from me! We used to hang out all the time. We dont hang out anymore and I guess its just cuz weve beeen so busy... how do I get the 2 of us to hang out more often?
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You probably have the guys phone number, so call him and see if he's busy.
You know his interests so arrange something for you to do together.
Tell this guy that you miss hanging out an dsee what he says.
Hope these suggestions help?!
Gwilwillithxx
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I liked this guy in the 5th grade... I was the first girl to like him in our school. (He was new then) I got over it even though I still liked him. He didnt even know me. In the 6th grade we were hanging out alot because we had a friend that both us hung out with. After two months of hanging out and talking, he asked me out. I said yes. We were going out for 2 months. During that time I got my first kiss. And I was just so happy. Well after two months I broke up with him because I got a note from a girl who was like stay away from my boyfriend. (No one knew about our relationship) And I was threatened and everything I was so heartbroken. I broke up with him and we moved on. Even though I still liked him. Then in the 7th grade he asked me out again. I said yes but he made me promise that I wouldnt tell anyone because he was going to surprise everyone on Friday and tell them, in a special way. Well I told my best friend and the next day during lunch she told like his whole table. A guy that sat with him said he is going to break up with you and I believed him. I couldnt have my heart broken I have a reputation as a tough girl. So I broke up with him again. My heart was broken but I still loved him. About 2 months later, I was sleeping over a friends house and someone was staying at his. We were on the phone from 8pm until 2:15am. My friend fell asleep and so did his so from 1:30am until 2:15 we spent talking and saying I love you and and all this sweet stuff. But he never asked me out again. We stayed like that for a long time. We still are close but no more sweet stuff. I miss him and I read his profile online and reminded me so much of how I feel and how much time we spent togehter it was almost like he was writing it for me. I am still in love and I was before I read it but now that I read it I fell. I fell so fast that after I finished the last word I hit the ground. I love him so much. What do you think I should do? Should I tell him or leave it bee?
PLEASE TELL ME!!! NEED HELP! ANY THING! (link)
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Well you are in a bit of a pickle.
This guy is obviously special to you and you both felt for each other passionately but are you sure that you cared for as much as you thought you did; because as soon as you heard a rumour you broke up with him. This could mean that you don't trust him or that you didn't communicate properly.
Communication is vital within a stable relationship. Also keeping the relationship secret puts strain on both you and your partner.
Obviously you can't trust best friend either because she told the whole table that you were sitting with.
If you still really like this guy and feels the same talk ot him and he saya something sweet and caring then he most likeky still feels the same, but if not then leave alone for a while and find out later when you are slightly less smitten ans more just curious.
Hope this helped!?
Gwilwillithxx
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Well i broke up with my bf after we dated for 7 months i felt like i wanted to experience more things so i broke up with him.. and now im dating him again and i dunno if i rly love him in my heart i see us starting a family together but i kinda feel like i want some1 new but im not for sure.. wat should i do?? (link)
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Talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If you broke up after 7 months which is quite a while and are going out with him again then you must have real feelings for him.
Also if you can see yourself staring a family together then you must have a strong feelingsfor him and want the relationship to last.
Remember communication and understanding within a relationship will help you and your boyfriend feel happier and understand how your felling.
Hope I helped!?
Gwilwillithxx
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You see.. i got back on weight watchers this week because my school's starting soon (too soon) and i want to slim down so I'm not the biggest girl in my class anymore. What are some fast pace exercises i can do (websites) or what are some tips. The weight watchers is working, slowly, but i want to speed up the process.
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My advice to you is just to eat a balanced diet and take plenty of exercise so that you get to your optimum size and wieght. Carry on with the weight watchers if it is working, but remember it does get harder as you keep dieting. Make sure that you don't go back to old habits and ALWAYS feel happy and confident and the people around you will too.
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ok here is the thing....
i went to my boyfriends house the other night and did somethings i have never done before and then he went and told his sister(my best friend) and then broke up with me....
what can i do to feel better about this and to get him not to be mad at me and to keep him talkin to me.....
i really like this guy alot........
so dont tell me to quit talkin to him
please and thank you.....
~kashia
:( i wish i could die (link)
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Alright, this guy has done something really mean to you.
Yuo and he obviously did somethoing intimate together and he told his sister, your best mate, if he really cared about then he wouldn't have done this to you. Also he broke up with afterwards which meant he wanted to "do" something just so he could say he has.
I know you still like him. Have you spoken to him about this or to your best friend? Maybe talking to them would help?!
Find out why this guy did this to you! If he doesn't know then you should ignore im, but if he gives you a valid reason talk to him about it and tell him your point of view.
Hope this helps,
Gwilwillithxx
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Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body but the problem is i cant hide my boobs and i dont want people to automatically think im slutty=/... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss (link)
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Well! Don't worry and don't panic!!! Just because your boyfriend and his mates are "punks" doesan't mean that you have to be. I realise that the way the dress en-mass can be quite intimidating and you really want to fit in.
I feel that you should wear what you would feel most comfrtable in.
I would say to wear jeans with rips!!!
A band t-shirt, maybe "Greenday" or "Placebo".
A studded belt and Converse style trainers.
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Wear a ripped denim mini and fishnets,
A sleeveless "V"-neck top,
Converse trainers / Doc Martins
Wear your hair down!
Make up wear bright shadow, but so it s fairly smokey and long eyelashes. Simple bright lipstick amd a pale foundation.
Remember, although you want to look the same, feel comfortable in what you decide to wear! Ask your boyfriend for his opinion on your first choice and then show him something else and see what he says.
Hope this helpd?!
Gwilwillithxx
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okay well my friends birthday is coming up... shes turnin 16... but her birthdays a a suprise! so i really need ideas for what to get her... her parents are gonna buy her a car i kno... and her bff is buying her a really really expensive jacket... so what are some ideas!! please help! thanks... ill rate (link)
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Think of a time that you have both been shopping and she has seen something she liked but didn't have the money to buy it. Maybe buy that item or something similar. Maybe you could take her out for a meal and go the cinema together and have a laugh!! Buy her, her fave dvd or cd or book. Take her shoping and spoil her buy buying her something she wants in her favourite shop!
Hope this helps!
Gwilwillithxx
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