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Well i broke up with my bf after we dated for 7 months i felt like i wanted to experience more things so i broke up with him.. and now im dating him again and i dunno if i rly love him in my heart i see us starting a family together but i kinda feel like i want some1 new but im not for sure.. wat should i do??
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Talk to your boyfriend about how you feel. If you broke up after 7 months which is quite a while and are going out with him again then you must have real feelings for him.
Also if you can see yourself staring a family together then you must have a strong feelingsfor him and want the relationship to last.
Remember communication and understanding within a relationship will help you and your boyfriend feel happier and understand how your felling.
Hope I helped!?
Gwilwillithxx
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you need to decide if you love him or not and you need to talk to him
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If you're not sure he's the one, then he's probably NOT the one. I think that once you meet the person you're going to be with for the rest of your life, you should have basically no doubts. You should immediately know that you'd do anything to be with them, and vice versa. But that's just the hopeless romantic side of me.
If you seriously want to meet new people, then tell your boyfriend you want to take a break. This could be difficult, but if you're meant to be together, have faith in the fact that you'll end up together. If not, well, then you will eventually meet someone new.
It's hard, but sometimes you have to be away from a person to realize how much you actually care about them.
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You should date around with other guys to see if you feel the same way that you do with this guy tyhat your with now but atleast you kno that you could go baq to your b/f !!
kaitlyn jO*
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If you are having doubts then you probably need to move on. You have to get that wanting someone new stuff out of your system before you settle down with one partner. :)
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Well you should date other people and if you don't feel they way you did with the other people then you know he is the one for you
~AskElyssa~
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im not sure if this is the most brilliant answer or the best, but this is what i would do. i would ask the guy if you can have a break because you want to explore your options. make sure to explain its not completely splitting up, because your just not sure if hes totally the right one. what your doing would just be confirming that if you kiss another guy, and its not the same as kissing him, its dull and isnt his kiss, it means that you really do like ur bf and he probably is the right one for you. since in your heart your not sure, hopefully he would understand that and give you a break. its not right to think about starting a family with someone who youre not sure if you want or have doubts. i really hope the best for you and hope everything goes well.
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This is a toughy to answer since you don't give your age. But my advice is to break it off. It sounds like you have just gotten comfortable with this guy but aren't truely happy. What kind of family life will you have if you are dreaming of other men?
I honestly believe you shouldn't stay in a relationship just 'cause its comfy, don't settle.
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