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Question Posted Wednesday July 20 2005, 12:40 am

Hey there &hearts; well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body but the problem is i cant hide my boobs and i dont want people to automatically think im slutty=/... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss<3

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Gwilwillith answered Friday July 22 2005, 7:40 pm:
Well! Don't worry and don't panic!!! Just because your boyfriend and his mates are "punks" doesan't mean that you have to be. I realise that the way the dress en-mass can be quite intimidating and you really want to fit in.

I feel that you should wear what you would feel most comfrtable in.
I would say to wear jeans with rips!!!
A band t-shirt, maybe "Greenday" or "Placebo".
A studded belt and Converse style trainers.

or

Wear a ripped denim mini and fishnets,
A sleeveless "V"-neck top,
Converse trainers / Doc Martins

Wear your hair down!

Make up wear bright shadow, but so it s fairly smokey and long eyelashes. Simple bright lipstick amd a pale foundation.

Remember, although you want to look the same, feel comfortable in what you decide to wear! Ask your boyfriend for his opinion on your first choice and then show him something else and see what he says.

Hope this helpd?!
Gwilwillithxx

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CFWLOVESYOU answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 5:04 pm:
BE URSELF... its the best! trust me. <3

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lxDoRkEtTexl answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 10:14 am:
jeans & a tshirt will be fine!! make sure you feel comfortable in what your wearing!!

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VixenDark answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 7:30 am:
Dickies or black cargo pants (especially with the bright colored pocket linings)

Comfortable Sneakers.

A t-shirt!


Simple. Or ask your boyfirend!

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lil_short_girl answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 4:38 am:
You can get some dickies pants,studed belt and get like a atreyu,or as i lay dying t shirt.

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AnonymousAdviceGiver answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 3:32 am:
T-shirt or tank top, jeans, and sensible shoes.

I have been to many a punk show. Looking good does not matter. You will be jumping around and sweaty. Make-up will be sweat off. Shoes will be stepped on.

I understand that since it is your boyfriend will be there you want to impress him, but in my experience, punk guys are a lot more impressed with a girl who will run into the mosh pit and hold her own. And there is no way in hell a girl should be in a mosh pit and have to worry about how she looks.

Good luck. Inbox me with any further questions.

Take Care,
AAG

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Myadviceisbetterthanurs08 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 1:55 am:
become a nun.

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Kr4z3y_Ch3lly answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 1:37 am:
uh well lol you can wear w/e you want..dont change cause you think people will think your a poser..cause that would mean you are one right?

anyways you kinda sound like me like your height, hair, body n what not..so this is what i wore to a "punk show" lol

jeans
converse
band shirt
and i wore my hair down..and my normal makeup..

you cant "hide your boobs"? so that means their hangin out all the time or theres "clevage" to be seen? first off..thats not cool..second, if you DONT have any tops that dont show your boobs then thats sad..so find something that DOESNT show your boobs and youll be fine..if all your shirts are low cut thats not good specially for a rock show..and specially if theres gunna be pits and what not..you didnt really explain what this was very good like if it was gunna be big or not so im just tossing out ideas for wat i think you meant..

your lucky..btw..thats awsome your b/f has friends in a band..and you are able to go to shows and what not..hell if they made it big do you know how many concerts you could get backstage to? ahh thats awsome..ok im off the subject now..but yea i hope that helped..even a little bit..have fun!

michelle<|3

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jcsgrlthe1st answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 1:37 am:
just wear a t-shirt and some heans! i dont think you could go wrong with that. put your hair in a pony tail or leave it down, haha it sounds pretty though!
&hearts;BLAiR

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craZlilchelC152 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 1:34 am:
well i think maybe a pair of plain jeans or like ripped//distressed jeans! You could wear a band t*shirt or a beater or sumthin like that. With your hair maybe like straighten it to make it super straight!! have fun <3 chelsea

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tasuki answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 1:20 am:
Wear black baggy jeans, a long-sleeved red and black striped shirt, a black T-shirt over it, maybe you can even cut the sleeves a little so that they're frayed, and lots of plastic bracelets. Also, a silver pentacle necklace. And tie your hair with a black or multicolored scrunchy, and wear snake earrings. Not slutty at all, you cover everything.

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iSLAND_iNTHE_SUNx0 answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 1:16 am:
If I looked like you and I didn't know what to wear. I'd probably just pick a pair of fitted jeans, a fitted tee (plain or vintage--like an old advertisement shirt). And maybe a pair of old school vans? Maybe the slip on kind, in a color that matches your shirt. For your hair, you could leave it down, or scrunch it up and then put it in a messy bun. And just do you normal makeup routine. If you don't usually wear makeup, maybe wear some mascera, eyeliner & lipgloss. Try to stay away from trying to be something your not. If anything, just dress casual... Hope I helped!
&hearts; Please rate.

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ncblondie answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 1:13 am:
You should just be yourself. If you try to be something you're not, it will show and you'll be uncomfortable anyway. I heard a good quote the other day. "It's better to be hated for who you are, then loved for what you're not."

Basic black always works for clothes. Try a pair of black jeans or shorts with a t-shirt advertising your boyfriend's band.

If your boobs bother you, try buying a minimizing bra. They're made to pull your boobs in closer to your body so they don't look as big. Personally I find them uncomfortable, but it's a personal preference.

Slightly loose shirts in a solid color will cover the area without drawing attention to it. A funky pair of earrings, etc will draw the eyes up.

Lastly, people shouldn't judge you by how you dress. If they do, they're probably not worth knowing anyway.

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xcry4noguyx answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 1:00 am:
Just be yourself..you don't have to BE punk to listen to punk and to enjoy it. Pink eyeshadow would be good with pink in your hair. Um..if you wear something black..that kinda fits all styles. Just wear like...a pair of black pants and a pink shirt or something..people shouldn't make snap judgements and if they do..they aren't worth it anyways.
Hope I helped

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LanaBabie answered Wednesday July 20 2005, 12:49 am:
well as for hair, not my area of expertise, but just simple or funky. And don't worry about what other people think. People are stupid, its none of their business if they don't know you. As for covering your cleavage and things, wear like a t-shirt or something, not slutty or low cut, but a regular one that should cover everything, not necessarily a turtle neck or anything. Jeans work with pretty much every body type, so that works. Unless you want to go more punk-ish, then ask your boyfriend, find some punk stuff, but you dont' have to dress punk to listen to punk. If you don't think you are dressing slutty, you probably aren't, but that depends. Don't go in like an itty bitty mini-skirt and a low cut tank top type thing, just dress simple, because if you try too hard to dress punk and stuff, then you look like a poser, and thats not good either. Just keep it simple. Its none of anyone else's business but your own on what you wear. Hope I helped. <3 Lana

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