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okay well this summer i decided im going to try and lose weight. so i decided if i eat right and jump on the trameline everyday i will lose some weight. (im babysitting this summer so ill be playing with little kids and obvisously be doing other exercises like running around with them and other things) my question is about how much weight do you think i could lose by september?

*please answer my question and ill rate 5's for at least trying and being honest too.

thanks! any other advice about losing weight is welcome too!

well im not sure how much you would loose
but if u excerise and eat all the right foods.

Usually 1-2 pounds a week,or more.

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i know this is long but i realllllly need advice!! so please help!

okay. so my group of my friends is pretty much my 2 best friends and one of my best friends boyfriends and his friends. its hard not to want to hook up with any guys in the group since were together alot though, but all the guys in the group are pretty much jerks except my friends boyfriend. but theres this one guy in the group i started likeing. after we met the first few times and actually started talking i friend requested him on myspace and we messaged eachother and yeah thats kinda where it started. then one night after we were all hanging out, after everyone went home i was texting with my friend about how i wanted to hook up with him. then like 5 minutes after that randomly at like 12:00 at night he messages me on myspace. we start talking and some how he ends up meeting me up the street from my house at 1:00 a.m and we hook up in his car. i told him ahead of time i had no intentions of doing anything else with him and he said ok but how about a kiss. so that was gunna be the plan. just kissing. like i wanted to. but one thing lead to another and i did end up going further. but not too far. i resisted a few things. so after that we really didnt even talk that much besides when we'd see eachother when all our friends hung out on the weekends. then like 2 or 3 weeks later he has people over at his house one night and while we were both "out of it"..we ended up hooking up again. and one thing again lead to another, and we did more. except i went further this time. i regreted it and i felt soo stupid cause again, we didnt even talk besides when all our friends hung out. so i just tried to forget about him but then once again..2 weeks after that. after a night of being out with all our friends i stayed out alot later then usual and we end up hooking up again and by the end of the night we were doing more stuff again. i feel soo stupid. so after, hes taking me home and i start telling him about how my friends dont want be to get USED like sarah did" like hinting him..cuz he had used my friend sarah in the past but they only hooked up once, not 3 times. and he goes "well this is different" and i go "how?" and he goes "i dont know." wow so okay i dont even get what that means. soo the next day i feel soo dumb for hooking up with him again and i feel dumb cause i like him and i dont even think he likes me and im just regreting it. i thought he might because he does like cute things, like this past time when we hooked up at first we just pecked alot and he'd hold my hand. so i thought that was something. so finally the other night i message him on myspace and i go "does hooking up with me mean anything to you? or am i just your random weekend hook up?" and he goes "i really dont know" and i reply and say "how do you not know" and he reads it and never writes back. also his friends say they've like never seen him with a girl, like a girlfriend. but what do you think? do you think he might actually like me? or do you think hes just using me?? and should i stop hooking up with him??

I know what you mean.
It happened to my before.
They use you,then they move on.
Then you hate yourself.
But at the same time,you want him still.

Personally,Its all your choice.
Its your to stop it.
Or contiue it.

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what color eye shadows look good for people with tan skin, brown eyes, and dark brown hair?

For brown eyes,do lighter shades.

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The only makeup i wear is charcoal eyeliner under my eyes. I don't draw it on dark or anything, just a light lining. I want to spice my makeup up a little without looking unnatural. What colors and kinds of makeup should I wear? I'm 13 so i don't want to all out or anything and i don't need to wear mascara because my eyelashes are super long, thick, and dark. I have blue eyes, beige colored skin, and medium brown hair.

For eyeshadow go with a brown.
But not a dark dark brown.
Then put like a goldish above it.
It would look nice.

For eyeshadows,do the opposite color from your eye.

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can you bleach hair with straight bleach? or is it horrible for your hair?

Yeah,dont do this.
You might hate yourself after words.
If you dont want to pay 65,your better off going to the store and geting the ones that cost 10.
Ive done blonde it came out kinda orangest,but after u wash it couple times.
It goes to its color.
Or theres sallys beauty supply.

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Alright well I'm going to get my hair cut soon and i want an "emo" hair cut. I don't like calling it that but thats the only way I can figure out how to explain it! So if anyone knows how I can explain the "emo/scene" hair to my stylist that would be GREAT! And also if you have any pictures I can go by that would be awsome too. I've looked everywhere but can't find anything.

I'm a girl by the way! Thanks so much.

And please no shit if you don't like emo hair get over it I do.

hmm,i have a guess some wat a emo syle haircut i can show u pictures threw aim if u would like im me on brimaro855

-Bri

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ok i listen to music like fall out boy, my chemical romance, hot hot heat, green day, 3 doors down, system of a down and all kind of music like that but im lookin for some new bands can anyone help me out??

Him,slipknot,mushroom head,atreyu

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i am 17 and i live in ny. i want to get a tattoo i was wondering how old i have to be. my mom said she dont care if i get one bc she wants one too. were thinking about getting them at the state fair. thanks for your help!

You have to 18,but with a parent there then your fine.

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how do you get your boyfriend to stop cutting..? please help me..=(

Well i use to do the same.It was like a faze,but i snapped out of it ...after a long time.Best thing to do,is care for him alot.

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Hey there ♥ well im not really into stereotypes but basically, my boyfriend is punk, along with his friends. and i am not really preppy or punk or anything, i am just me. but i am friends with his friends and his friends are in a punk band and my boyfriend said he really wants me to go, and so do his friends. the problem is i dont want to wear something stupid, or "slutty" looking and i dont want people to think " why is she here?" so what could i wear.. i have long platinum blonde hair with lots of pink and auburn in it. and i am 5'4 and average with slightly curvey body but the problem is i cant hide my boobs and i dont want people to automatically think im slutty=/... what could i wear or put on for makeup and how should i do the hair? thanksss

You can get some dickies pants,studed belt and get like a atreyu,or as i lay dying t shirt.

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everything is starting to go wrong today two guys played me without me even noticing i feel so awful and depressed its been a few months since my last boyfriend and i really thought it would work out with the first guy i thought he would never hurt me then there was another girl and all the shit he told me i actually fell for it
then with the other guy i was falling for him hes interested in me and everything but now hes saying he has a gf i dont understand this shit
and when i think about it i have no intentions of going out with the second guy
please help me

Fuck them both up!

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My hair is curly frizzy and not nice to work with. in my opinion its DISGUSTING!!!! i get many compliments on my curls, but i hate them. I own a rele crappy flat iron! idk if i should get my hair chemically straightened, but i want to. I cant take my hair anymore!! what r ur thoughts about getting my hair straight and w/ less frizz?

I know what you,mean i got in chemically striaghted.
And it last for six months and longer.
Then you go back for touch ups.
If i were you get it strightened,and after cut your hair like the tips or u could put layers.
And right before you strighten your hair,go to sallys and get lusterizing cream maded from ion.
You put it in right before you stirghten your hair.
It helps make your hair shinie and smooth.
I get comments on my hair all the time,people aways play with my hair.
well,hope i helped

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i see someone already asked a name question

but you see i am having a baby girl and need a cute name but something beautiful at the same time! any ideas?

brianna,kiele,devin,teylor,amilinda

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hey! okay, so this friday is the Vans Warped Tour. my mom said i could go BUT she said maybe because it's very unsafe. i'm going with my best friend and we're trying to get other people. so my question is, has anyone been to it? and if so, can you tell me what it's like. and if you CAN help me to persuade my mom that it is? thanks!! :)

mmm,there us alot of mosh pits,very hott but like everyone has said u get hosed down ,drugs and drinking
You can,tell your mom it the best wrapped tour of the year.

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i have a problem my friends and there parents are calling me a slut and they think that i've already had sex before when i never did!what can i do to show them that im neither of these things?!? please help me!!

tell them to go,fuck themselves becasue who the fuck are they to judge.

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Hey
Does anyone know when the movie "Hide and Seek" is coming to DVD and video? Thanks!

Today..i asked for it and the guy said it won't be out till july 4 ..something like that.

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Hi im a 17/f. Im not that out going but my best friend is a very social person. She introduced me to her Older brother who is in collage. My best friend invited me to stay the night at her house. while i was there it turned out that her older brother was throwing a crazy frat party at there house whle there parents were away. Later that night after partying for awhile my friends older borther came up to me and asked if i wanted to dance. after a while he said he needed to talk to me in private. Wwe went up to his room and started talking for a while. he said how he really liked me and how he didnt care how i was 17 and he is 21. by that point i could tell he was drunk. i said "i'll be right bak" not meaning to return. i walked out of the room and went down stairs and started dancng again. about 15 minutes later he came down and said we needed to talk again. so i went along with it. when i walked in first he locked the door pushed me down on the bed and started rapeing me. now im 5 months pregnant and im supposed to be heading off to collage ona full scholorship. i really want to keep my child but it will be hard to go to school and keep a child. my parents dont want anything to do ith me so they wont help out. what should i do. keep my baby and skip out on Yale or give the baby up for adoption and go to Yale? im so confused please help!!!!!!!!

this may sound wrong i see your point, but i think yale is the best way to go i mean you can have child after college.


Or you can have the baby,and yourdad can you help out.
all i know it will be rough, don't worry you will make the right desicion.

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well im a cutter nd i really wanna stop ! help me im beggin plz !!! ♥ i just wannna be normal

Well stop be igorant and looking for attention.

And of couse your feed back will be something along the lines of go fuck yourslef.

Even thou you know i'm right.

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I found a pipe and a lighter in my brother's draw. I was furious because I'm am strongly against smoking. He's in college...I understand he's old enough to make his own descisions, but he has a lot going for him and I don't want him to screw up his future....What are the possibilities of what he was smoking? Like weed..tobacco?And, is there a site that has the bad effects of it, or if you guys can list some that will convince him to stop, I would appreciate it!

Weed it kills brain cells i wasn't mad when i found out my friends did it infact i did it.Then i leaned myself that i was dumb and i could screw up my life.Tell him he might not see it know but some day he'll thank you and he'll relize how dumb it was .

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my mom says that if i use too much acne medication products, and other things to clean my face, i'll have really bad skin in the future.

should i believe her??

oh, and i dont wear any make up

yeah..don't use more that one ance products.I don't know what it will do for you in the future .But right it will mess up your skin . Use the same brand

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