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I dont know if he actually likes me, or if im being used.
i know this is long but i realllllly need advice!! so please help!
okay. so my group of my friends is pretty much my 2 best friends and one of my best friends boyfriends and his friends. its hard not to want to hook up with any guys in the group since were together alot though, but all the guys in the group are pretty much jerks except my friends boyfriend. but theres this one guy in the group i started likeing. after we met the first few times and actually started talking i friend requested him on myspace and we messaged eachother and yeah thats kinda where it started. then one night after we were all hanging out, after everyone went home i was texting with my friend about how i wanted to hook up with him. then like 5 minutes after that randomly at like 12:00 at night he messages me on myspace. we start talking and some how he ends up meeting me up the street from my house at 1:00 a.m and we hook up in his car. i told him ahead of time i had no intentions of doing anything else with him and he said ok but how about a kiss. so that was gunna be the plan. just kissing. like i wanted to. but one thing lead to another and i did end up going further. but not too far. i resisted a few things. so after that we really didnt even talk that much besides when we'd see eachother when all our friends hung out on the weekends. then like 2 or 3 weeks later he has people over at his house one night and while we were both "out of it"..we ended up hooking up again. and one thing again lead to another, and we did more. except i went further this time. i regreted it and i felt soo stupid cause again, we didnt even talk besides when all our friends hung out. so i just tried to forget about him but then once again..2 weeks after that. after a night of being out with all our friends i stayed out alot later then usual and we end up hooking up again and by the end of the night we were doing more stuff again. i feel soo stupid. so after, hes taking me home and i start telling him about how my friends dont want be to get USED like sarah did" like hinting him..cuz he had used my friend sarah in the past but they only hooked up once, not 3 times. and he goes "well this is different" and i go "how?" and he goes "i dont know." wow so okay i dont even get what that means. soo the next day i feel soo dumb for hooking up with him again and i feel dumb cause i like him and i dont even think he likes me and im just regreting it. i thought he might because he does like cute things, like this past time when we hooked up at first we just pecked alot and he'd hold my hand. so i thought that was something. so finally the other night i message him on myspace and i go "does hooking up with me mean anything to you? or am i just your random weekend hook up?" and he goes "i really dont know" and i reply and say "how do you not know" and he reads it and never writes back. also his friends say they've like never seen him with a girl, like a girlfriend. but what do you think? do you think he might actually like me? or do you think hes just using me?? and should i stop hooking up with him??
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Girl you need to stop hooking up with this guy ok for one you are just digging yourself into a hole of hurt and pain so you aren't getting anything good out of it. If he can sit there and seriously say he doesn't know if hooking up with you means anything to him at all then that should be a wake up call to you to let you know you are really wasting your time. You seem to like him so what you should do is stop hookin up with him because that is why he is coming back to you because he knows what he is gonna get at the end. So what you should do is be friends and until he wants to and can give you a relationship don't hook up with him you are just gonna get yourself hurt and that could and will really hurt.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
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I know what you mean.
It happened to my before.
They use you,then they move on.
Then you hate yourself.
But at the same time,you want him still.
Personally,Its all your choice.
Its your to stop it.
Or contiue it.
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