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Best Friend?
So..there's this gurl & i guess we're " best friends" well like 1 min. she'll be fine w/ you and then the next she goes crazy and talks behind ur back and says all this crap about you that's not true!
I don't know what to do because i thought we were friends...?
Confused.
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First, she isn't your friend! You should tell her that you heard she was talking about you and see how she responds. If she admits then tell her you don't want to be her friend anymore or just try to talk to her about it.
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Well maybe you should talk to her about it. If she keeps talking behind your back shes obviously not much of a friend.
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heyy....
if ur so-called "friend" does that to you maybe she isnt ur real friend. Try hanging out with friends that you no will always have you back!!
good luck and write back
xxaveryxx
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That's obviouly not a friend and I'm really not sure why you're hanging out with her. A best friend doesn't do stuff like that. You need to just be like "Hey look, I know you've been talkin shit about me behind my back and that's not gunna cut it with me. Fuck off" Don't be emotional about it, be kinda angry, but just be like it's no big deal and tell her where to get off.
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slap that hoe and be like are we friends or what and she what she really thinks
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if she was really your friend then she wouldnt go behind your back. IF you really want to stay friends with her then you should try talking it out with her. Tell her that you want to stay friends but you've heard her talking bad about you. If that doesnt work then shes not a true friend and its not worth it.
i hoped i helped!
sincerly,
XxBrokenLoverxX
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She's not a true friend. This happened to me once when I was 13. I moved across the street from this girl, her name was Lindsay. We immediately became friends and we had sleepovers and stuff. Well, at her sleepover, she completely ignored me and everytime I tried to ask her something, she would just turn around and leave the room. Then, when this girl accidentally knocked over a bowl of popcorn, Lindsay asked me to help her because she knew that I would say yes, and everyone else just ran out of the room to go do something else. I let her take advantage of me, and I learned that the hard way. So, you should probably just dump her. A true friend wouldn't do something like that.
♥ SiMA
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aww im sorry but
SHES NOT A REAL FREIND.
my freind did the same thing.
make new ones
keep the old though
until you make new
so they can be jelous.
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She is deff not a true friend..friends don`t talk behind your back.You don`t need to be friends with her if shes doing that.Next time she talks about you or behind your back you need to shut her up and then she will see that you are serious and want her to stop.♥
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The way I look at it, she is NOT a REAL friend. I don't know why you even call her a FRIEND.
Real friends Never, as in NEVER, mess up with their friends' lives, especially behind their back.
Gather your thoughts and think if you want to continue your so-called 'friendship' with this so-called "FRIEND" of yours.
Hope I helped you a lil' bit.
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Are you sure she's definitely talking about you behind your back & it might not be someone else just making up a rumor?
You should definitely confront her & find out why she's doing this. Tell her if she doesn't stop what she's doing, you don't want to be her "best friend" anymore. It's not fair, and you don't deserve it & no one else does either.
Don't put up with it anymore if she keeps it up after you tell her how much it bothers you.
-aMy.
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What you need to do is stick up for yourself let her know that you know she is saying crap and she needs to either say it to your face or shut up. I had a friend like that and now I don't even talk to her but what you need to do is confront her and tell her whats up. Talk it out and if she still talks about you then let go of her as a friend aparently she wasn't a good one so don't even talk to her anymore.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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Plain and simple, she's NOT your friend. Screw her. Tell her to F off... and just stop talking to her. Hang out with better people. She's a four-faced lame. I'd confront her like "What's this you said about me? Tell ME what I did?! Whatever you said behind my back, I want you to tell me to my face".... she's probably one of those girls who'll be like "Oh I didn't say anything about you, I love you!"... like yeah right, grow some b@lls b!tch.
Yeah, haha I've been in the same situation. People like that aren't good.. you don't want her around.. hope I helped
Kali
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