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What should I do?
Okay so im going out w/ this guy and my dad says i have to break up with him! and i like completley LOVE him and i dont want to...
but i dont want to get in even more trouble with him then i already am...
WHAT SHOULD I DO?
PLEASE help
Confused.
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talk to your dad and ask why he wants you to break things off. there is probably some underlieing reason like he is scared to loose you because you are most likely his little girl to him. Dads are hard to deal with when it comes to relationships...they dont like it and they dont like to talk about it...be prepared to tell your father why you love this boy so much.... this whole thing also may give you anew perspective on you and your bf's relationship....hope this helps..
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Hi my names Britney HEres an answar well if your in love with the guy your seeing and he's in love with you and you think you guys will be together for a while Some times lieing to your perents isnt always a bad thing your free to live your life. so sometimes like now lieing shouldnt be such a bad thing telling your dad that you guys aint seeing each other anymore isnt a bad thing your free to live your life and if you dont make mistakes how will learn the the best thing in life is to live in it! i hope this helps tell me how this goes xoxxox all the best
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i think the first thing you need to do is find out from your dad why you have to break up from him, what is it he doesnt like about your boyfriend?
Going behind your dads back is going to make him very very angry when he finds out and he'll have no trust in you.
i've been there, well it was my boyfriends dad who split us up and when he found out we were together again he went absolutely mad, it wasnt pretty! it just made things 10 times worse so if your dads hell bent on keeping you apart for good reason, such as you are too young, he's oo old, he's a bad influence, your boyfriend doesnt respect you ect then i'd listen to him if i were you and do as he says.
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If you follow the advice given below and your dad finds out, you will lose any trust and respect he has for you and you will be lucky if he lets you out of his sight until you are in college.
Is there any particular reason for your dad saying this? If he has grounds for his concerns, he is only acting in your best interests.
If there is no reason for this, try talking to him, you don't say how old you are but maybe it's because of this. Ask if there is a compromise that can be reached, what would make him feel more comfortable with the situation and that you do love your b/f so will be happy to go half way on this.
Offer to only meet him in a group situation for a while, take him home to meet your dad, not stay out too late, let him know where you are etc.
Your dad's main concern is going to be for your welfare so if he is at all worried about this and your b/f it is up to you to make him feel happier. If you can get him on side your life will be a lot easier.
Hope that helps and good luck.
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ok, just want to apoligize in advance because this is an un-moral plan.
tell your dad you broke up with him and pretend to be all sad about it for the next few days. let him know that you still want to be friends with him though. Let your b/f know that you told your dad that yall broke up so he won't say any bf/gf things infront of him. Whenever you go somewhere with him, try to avoid telling your dad its with him. You'll have the best chance getting away with it if your in a group date/ double date. That way you can say "hey dad, I'm meeting my friends at the mall." If he asks "who?" then you can say "Susan, Billy, and I might see some other people there that we might end up hanging out with." (by the way, don't use those names, i was just using those as examples for your friend's names). If your dad snoops around your stuff like your cellphone, make sure you dont have any texts or voicemails saying stuff like "I love you" from him.
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brittany
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If you are really in love with him then it won't matter what your dad says don't listen to him. Keep it on the down low but if you are in love with him and don't want to loose him then it will definatly be worth it so just break the rules. But if he isn't worth getting in trouble over then just break it off you say you love him though so I think if you wanna avoid trouble and sneaking around. Talk to your dad tell him that you love him and you really want to be with him. Even if you can compromise with him and tell him that he will come over and he will supervise it will all be worth it in the end wether you have to sit with your dad and be with him at least you get to be with him.
Good luck,
Hope I helped
(If you would like more of my advice e-mail me at truelovers2104@yahoo.com)
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