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Hey yall. :]

My name's Amy Gwendoline. I'm 16 years young, and I'm a junior in high school.

xo

advice

what feels better. being fingered or having sex?

Having sex by a long shot.
it's a complete different feeling.

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is tab energy drink any good? what flavor is it and what does it taste like? thanks.

It's hard to describe.

I can honestly say, it's the BEST DRINK EVER. It doesn't even taste like an energy drink, and when you drink it, it's like this unbelievable shock in your mouth. It's amazing.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uzA0nG_PurQ



doesnt anyone else think that song is like addictive?
thankss =]
just wanted some thoughtsss.

OMG.
I love that song.
I always here it on MTV, because it'll show like a little preview of it between shows, and then I have to like listen to the whole song because it's sooooo awesome. I totally agree. =]

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i havent started my period [EVERRRRRR]
but i was wondering if its still ok to have sex
my friends mom had sex before she got her period and nothing happened to her .
could that have just been her

can i still have sex and get my period ?

Yes you can!
You can not get pregnant whenever you haven't started your period, it's scientifically impossible, haha. =] If you know the guy you're going to have sex with doesn't have an STD or anything you could go without using a condom. But, make sure you know the guy & you TRUST him.

Have fun. :]

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for startersIm going to say this as apropriatly as i can

I was sexualy asaulted by 6 guys && then a couple months later i was raped and my brother said "If this keeps happening people arent going to believe yu they will just think yu are crying wolf"

well recently i was partying with some friends and i was drunk so i wanted to have fun but not have sex and i made that clear to everyone. me being bisexual i was all over my friend thats a girl. Well these two guys were looking on and one of them had already fucked my friend that night and the other liked me. well some how the guy that liked me ended up grabbing my friend and fucking her. The other guy grabbed me and i told him he cool lick meh down there so he did and then he put a condom on and i pushed him away and told him no i wasnt going to have sex with him And he said stuff like "let me just touch it i wont stick it in" and i told him again im not gona have sex with him. So he touched it nd told me he wasnt gona stick it in and then he tryd to nd i tryd pushing him away saying stop but he just pushed me down and told me to chyll out i tryd pushing him away again but he wouldnt listen nd so i just layd there nd he started having sex with me nd i was crying. after he was done i got up and ran off upstairs.

What should i do? I dont even know if this is wrong it just makes me feel wrong and dirty. Is this wrong or not?

First off, this isn't your fault in the slightest. What you should do, is stay away from partying & alcohol. If you wouldn't had been at that party, you wouldn't have been raped. I'd like to say if there wasn't alcohol at the party that wouldn't have happened, but you never know.

You could turn these guys into your school counselor. You should definitely start talking to someone, even if it's just like a friend or a psychiatrist. It's not normal that you keep these things inside to yourself, and it'll make you a lot happier if you have them off of your back.

Yes, it IS wrong. It's not right in ANY sense that a guy touches a girl whenever she doesn't want to be touched.

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I will not say what I believe in for abortion because that may influence your answer..but someone brought this to my attention...
do you consider this an exception for abortion..if an 11 year old girl got pregnant(raped) and her hips couldn't support the baby. Do you believe that when a girl has her period she is ready to give child birth even though her age may not be? Any insight would be greatly appreciated! Thank you.

I am pro-choice. And, I can easily sit here and say if a girl, no matter what age she is got raped. She SHOULD get an abortion. It makes me sick to listen to the douche below me rant on and on about how it's God's plan. Fuck him. So, it's "God's" plan for this girl to get raped? It's so lame. No guy should have any opinion on abortion being right or wrong.

That 11 year old CHILD, is still a child herself. She could possibly die or could have a miscarriage because she is so young & her body is obviously not ready to carry a baby. So, I believe that IS an exception for an abortion, of course. It's just unthinkable to have an 11 year old have a baby, it's makes me sick thinking about it.

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ok im a girl and homophobic. but not scared of gays but im scared of lesbians. am i still homophobic or what? i dont hate them or anything but i just get scared of them. and is being homophobic is bad?

You're not homophobic.

There's no such thing as being a homophobic. You're just psychologically telling yourself that you're scared of them because "they're different." You're an idiot. No offense.

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my girlfriend lied 2 me. she doesnt kno that i kno that. should i tell her about this? it has 2 do with her email account, i figured out her pw and checked it, but she doesnt kno that part either. i trust her and i found out by accident.

so do i tell her that i went into her email and found out she was lying, or what should i do?

Okay.
Now, depending on what she's lying about.. that's what really matters. It's kinda like, she lied to you, and now you went behind her back & checked her e-mail & I'm sure she'll be VERY mad about that.

Her lying to you, will probably bug the hell out of you, so you probably should tell her that you know. But also be honest and her getting into her e-mail account.

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This question is mainly for guys but if your a girl and you have an opionion thats welcomed to:)

Do guys think belly button peircings are hot?

P.S- i'm blonde 5'8 120 pounds and have told i should be a modle many times oh and i'm 14. If those help any

Thanks soo much

I think they're way hot.

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I want to start wearing a tampon so I first loked in the mirror to see ym size..and like I don't even see no hole! My friends wear a tampon so I'm sure their hole isn't tiny so like is it because I grow slow? I started ym period 3 years ago!

It's not because you "grow slow" at all. You do have a hole, it just going to take a while for you to understand your body.

Instead of looking, trying feeling around first. If you start from your butt hole use your finger & push forward toward your vagina until you feel the next hole. That's your vagina. Try pushing a little harder just so you'll be able to feel it and drop your finger into it. Watch where you pee, that isn't your vagina, but the hole behind it, it's like an inch behind. :]

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what is a dirty sanchez or something like that??
thanks in advance =)

It's also known as "Filthy Sanchez"

& after anal sex, a guy wipes his penis over his partners mouth, in the shape of a mustache. Because it's like fecal matter. (poo) hah. It's gross, I know.

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Ok I bent down like in a crab walk and looked at the mirror and the area around my vagina is like dark area..is that normal?

It's very normal. Don't worry about it. :]

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what is the difference between regular pre-university and advanced placement pre-university?

Advanced Placement classes, depending if you pass the exam gives you college credit. I'm currently in World History AP, which is the college equivalent of World Civilizations, so if I pass that, I won't have to take a certain numbers of hours of that class in college. :]

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im going to florida
and if i have my period then..
i dont wear tampons, ive tryed amillion times to put on in. never works, so i wear pads. But can i swim in a pool with my period?
because doesnt it like stop it
or will blood go everywhere
xo thanks

Hey.

Blood does stop when you go in water. When you go out it takes like 10 minutes for your blood to start flowing again. It's not very hygenic for the other people in the pools, but whatever. Every girls done it. :]

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is it ok to put contacts in water instead of solution over night?

Hey. :]
Yeah you can totally do it. I've done it before, it's just a little uncomfortable to put them in the next day. As long as you don't make a habit of it, it won't be so bothersome. But it won't make your eyes fall out or anything. :P

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I am going on birth control (i'm not sure what brand yet...i just got a blood test done...i am seeing the doctor for persciption and stuff next week)

while on the pill (or patch or w/e i get) can you have sex w/o a condom and still be safe?

Yes; i know that having both is ideal. and yes i know that BC doesnt stop STD's or anything; im just curious...

and also; do you still have your period while taking birth control? or is it stopped?

Hey. :]

While you're on the pill you can have sex without a condom of course, but it's not 100% safe. I've never done it, and I won't do it. My sister got pregnant, she was on the pill - used a condom & took the morning after pill. So, I don't want to risk it.

You do still have your period. And your period will become more regular. Like it'll come exactly in 28 days or however many days. You can get a pill that will shorten your periods, but I don't think there's any that would make your period completely stop.
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ohkay well i have a lot a discharge all day everyday. its gross. and its not because my peroid is coming soon. ive had this for over a year and a haf. its smells and i dont want to cover it up by wearing a pad. so what can i do to have less discharge?

Hey.

I understand EXACTLY what you're going through. & I just got sick of everyone saying, "Oh it's part of growing up." or "It's just your imagination." Because it WASN'T. & I understand that you don't want to cover up by wearing a pad, I didn't want to either because it didn't FIX the problem.

The only way you fix this, is to go to the doctors. I'm not even kidding. You probably have BV, that's what I had & I got really really sick of it. For the next week or so don't wash down there, instead just use your hand when you shower or bathe by like rubbing kind of. Just don't use anything JUST YOUR HAND. It might work, be sure not to use body wash it can make it work. Anything with scents, like tampons or pads is not a good idea either. =]

Hope everything works out for you.
♥

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my boyfriend and i thought i was pregnant, because i forgot the last time i had my period. we were just laying together last night and he had his hand on my stomach and then he took his hand off like he took something out though, so i was like what are you doing? and he said your not pregnant anymore so then i said, what do you mean? and he said i prayed to god and told him we werent ready and to please take the baby away because you dont want a baby right now. and then he was saying id have my period soon and that everything will be ok now. and, i got it this morning. yeah its a silly question but the only reason why im questioning it is because i did feel like i had a little person in me and that i loved it, and as crazy as it sounds..i actually felt like i missed it like it actually was gone after he said all that. so my question is, is that even possible god could have done that?

You weren't pregnant to begin with. Your boyfriend putting his hand on your stomach and saying some weird prayer did absolutely nothing but excite you into believing there really is such thing as God. The reason you probably felt like it "went away," is because himn saying that calmed you down & you actually believed it. So, no "God" didn't really do that. Haha.

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Okayy soo i heard this song and im like in love with it and i really want to get it as a ring tone but i have no idea what its called ive tryed googling it and looking up the lyrics on lyric sites but nothings came up its like..
-I cant explain this feeling i think about it everyday and even tho we've moved on it gets so hard to walk away im gonna remember you your gonna remember me thanks!!! :]]

I found it easily by searching on the internet, by google. When you put lyrics in, don't put that entire thing, just put a portion & you will come up with what you want.

The song is; Walk Away, by Paula DeAnda.

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So...I want to put a color in my hair for the summer holidays which is 2 months. I heard about Loreal mousse....but I don't know how effective it is! I want somehin that's really real lookong but can wash off after since my mum will not want me do it for permanant...plus I'm in school and I can't dye my hair during school!

Any ideas?

I completely agree with the person below me. The only brand I know of that actually works, is; Color Pulse. You can get really wacky or normal colors that will last for two weeks. Depending on how much you wash your hair. =] It's the best seriously.

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