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is it wrong?
for startersIm going to say this as apropriatly as i can
I was sexualy asaulted by 6 guys && then a couple months later i was raped and my brother said "If this keeps happening people arent going to believe yu they will just think yu are crying wolf"
well recently i was partying with some friends and i was drunk so i wanted to have fun but not have sex and i made that clear to everyone. me being bisexual i was all over my friend thats a girl. Well these two guys were looking on and one of them had already fucked my friend that night and the other liked me. well some how the guy that liked me ended up grabbing my friend and fucking her. The other guy grabbed me and i told him he cool lick meh down there so he did and then he put a condom on and i pushed him away and told him no i wasnt going to have sex with him And he said stuff like "let me just touch it i wont stick it in" and i told him again im not gona have sex with him. So he touched it nd told me he wasnt gona stick it in and then he tryd to nd i tryd pushing him away saying stop but he just pushed me down and told me to chyll out i tryd pushing him away again but he wouldnt listen nd so i just layd there nd he started having sex with me nd i was crying. after he was done i got up and ran off upstairs.
What should i do? I dont even know if this is wrong it just makes me feel wrong and dirty. Is this wrong or not?
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what the guy did was very very wrong...that is rape..and you should report him for that..although it is not your fault that he raped you, you did put yourself in the wrong positions, you went to a party and go drunk, you told a guy that he could do stuff w/ you but not sex...you need to stop getting into situations like these to prevent getting raped or assulted again...i hope i helped..
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so, im not saying this is your fault, you said no, but you did some things wrong...
1.you went to a party 2. you got drunk 3. you shouldnt of even messed around with a guy, cause all guys think with their dicks when their in the mood.
but go and tell the police, not your brother, tell them about everything, from the 6 guys, to the other 2.
hope i helped.
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Yes it is wrong. You shouldn't keep going to those parties. Those are -targets- for being raped! When you are drunk, like you were at that party, you weren't completely in control so you were more easy to get and be raped. If you keep going to those parties, at least don't drink. Then if a guy even lays his hand on you kick him in the balls and run. :) Hope I helped
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If you were really sexually assaulted, then you wouldn t get yourself in such situations after.
I mean, how can a girl that has been sexualy assaulted by 6 guys be psychologically OK to just let a random guy lick her.
It seems to me that people are taking advantage of the space you are giving them. You just dont get raped every month unless you leave in North Africa or something.
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Of course what they did was wrong. Hideous and terribly wrong. Nonconsensual sex is wrong. There never needs to be any doubt in your mind on that front.
First you should report any assaults or rape, to a parent, to a teacher, to the police, whichever you are most comfortable with and then, if nothing else, start talking to a counselor.
Secondly: STOP GOING TO PARTIES WHERE SEX IS THE MAIN FORM OF ENTAINMENT FOR THE GEUSTS IF YOU DON'T WANT TO HAVE SEX.
Did you honestly think this was a safe environment to go around exploring your sexuality? Did you think every girl there was perfectly safe just because she was going to say no?
I'm not saying anything that happened is your fault, because it isn't. But you can't always trust strangers to take care of you and respect you. You have take care of yourself and not put yourself in potentially dangerous situations. Don’t walk down dark alleys all alone, don’t ride in a car without a seatbelt and don’t go places with people you can’t trust are doing a bunch of things you don’t want to do.
Parties where random sex is happening are a really good place to get assaulted or raped. Walking out in the middle of a battlefield and telling everyone "I'm totally neutral in this war and I don't want to kill anyone. I just want to hang out on this battlefield! So no one kill me.” Well that’s just great, but someone might still kill you. That sort of thing happens on a battlefield. You shouldn’t take silly risks. Don’t hang out on battlefields.
Again, I’m not saying it’s your fault. What the guys did to you is completely wrong. But at least in this most recent situation, you might have been able to avoid the whole problem by thinking your actions through and behaving with a bit more caution.
Your feelings are something you should really work out with a counselor. You don’t need to go around feeling awful about yourself. You need to be able to love yourself and take care of yourself. Get some guidance. No one expects a teen to figure all these things out by themselves.
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First off, this isn't your fault in the slightest. What you should do, is stay away from partying & alcohol. If you wouldn't had been at that party, you wouldn't have been raped. I'd like to say if there wasn't alcohol at the party that wouldn't have happened, but you never know.
You could turn these guys into your school counselor. You should definitely start talking to someone, even if it's just like a friend or a psychiatrist. It's not normal that you keep these things inside to yourself, and it'll make you a lot happier if you have them off of your back.
Yes, it IS wrong. It's not right in ANY sense that a guy touches a girl whenever she doesn't want to be touched.
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