If you have sex, you're eligible to be pregnant. But only if you're a female,of course.There's no set age to lose your virginity, chances are you'll end up regretting it sooner or later. I don't know if he or she likes you. I can't tell from where I live. If you need to lose some weight, run, excerise and eat right, but you can't lose 30 pounds in a week. Please don't ask me questions like that, I've answered them all in the paragraph you just read. Thank you.
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whats that song that goes like "dirrttyy d's" then it sounds like a bark or something, and they do it 3 times.. i guess its the chorus. its a rock song... i thought it was ACDCs TNT but i guess not. anyone kno what im talkin about? sry thats all the song i know! (link)
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Dirty Deeds Done Dirt Cheap and it is indeed by ACDC.
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okay this is going to sound like an extremely lame question but.. i used to masturbate alot, not so much anymore tho.. anywayz, i don't know how we got on the subject, but my friend said that if you masturbate then you are no longer a virgin. i have never had sex with anyone, but am i still considered a virgin or no? thank you (link)
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You're a virgin.
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okay well, honestly, im seriously thinking aobut killing myself. my life is horrible. i swear half of the world hates me. i have the absolute worst life that anyone could ever live. i dont want to kill myself but its the only way everyone will stop being rude and making fun of me and everyone will be happy if i am dead. i know that i need to talk to someone about it but i just cant. please help me. (link)
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I could tell you about how much everyone would be sad about your death or about how your life will get better and all this other shit. And both of those things happen to be true. But before you kill yourself, I must tell you that my New Orleans Saints , fresh off a 3-13 season in which their city was destroyed and the franchise was nearly moved to San Antonio, were given no chance to succeed this year. Everybody thought they'd have no chance, must like you feel like you have no chance now. But hey, they're 9-4 and about to win their division this year. They came out of nowhere and my point is, they stunk. If they can make something of themselves without quitting, you can, too. Killing yourself is cowardly. You don't want to kill yourself, you want your pain to end. It will. I gurantee somebody out there has it worse.
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when do all the bowls start for college football? i know thelast one, the rose bowl, is on new years day but when are the other ones? (link)
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The Rose Bowl is not the last one. The Orange is played that same day at a later time. Then the Sugar a couple of days later, the Fiesta, and then the National Championship game with the Ohio State Buckeyes playing a team yet to be determined, probably the USC Trojans. The bowl games start a week before Christmas.
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I've never had a boyfriend, and I know for a fact this guy is going to ask me out this week. I want to say yes, but what do I do? Just say yes? (link)
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Just do it. Smile and act glad to go.
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Over the years I've trained my body to withstand pleasure and concentrate on something else. Now when me and my girlfriend have sex, it lasts for hours, is this normal? One night we went for four hours straight using no pills no attatchments and none of any of those other lovely toys. Is it a bad thing that this lasts this long? How long should it last? Usually I just go until she's completely exhausted and it still feels like I can get up and run a marathon as if nothing had happened. I think there's something wrong with me. Please, if anyone knows how I can fix this tell me. Thanx o^.^o (link)
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Teach me. You are abnormal, but shit, it's in a good way. If you really want to curtail the sex, don't beat off for awhile. You'll come quicker.
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ive been talking to this guy for almost 2 months. we have sex and everything, and im 17 and hes 20, but weve been friends ever since we were little kids. and we wouldnt be able to have a relationship because people would say stuff about it and i dont like that. and now i think im starting to develope feelings for him and i dont want to if we cant be anything.. cause im still in high school, and i dont think he has feelings for me cause he has a history with girls, like cheating and stuff.. and i dont think hes in for that.. and since im younger, i think he just wants to have sex and thats it. like when we have sex as soon as were done, he puts his clothes on and drops me off.. but when i talk to other guys, he gets mad and i dont know if hes acting like he cares.. what do you think? (link)
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He gets jealous because he knows that if you go to another guy, that might be it for him. Or maybe he just doesn't know to be affectionate and hold you afterwards and crap. But keep an open eye for his actions, not his words. Talk to him about it, but notice his body language, eyes, and not really what he says, but more the tone of his voice.
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Okay, if a girl is under 16 and a guy is 18, is it a legal for them to date? Someone told me that it is as long as you don't do anything with them but someone else told me that you can't date at all until the girl is 16. What's really legal? (link)
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Y'all just can't legally have sex. The SWAT team isn't going to swoop from the ceiling of the theater if you take her to the movies.
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Hey kevin! When will you be coming back? Advicenator's getting so boring without you! (link)
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I'll start.
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2 guys asked me out yesterday and I don't know which one to say yes to. I like them both the same and they both have really good things about them and some things arn't so good.
Guy 1 Good things :
hes really funny
hes super cute
he really loves me
hes got a nice personality
we have so much in common
hes only 1 year older then me
hes like an older version of me
hes a virgin
he lives near me
Guy 1 bad things -
he wants sex i'm not ready
he tries to act gangster but hes white
he used to smoke i dont know if he still does
sometimes i feel like he uses me
he invites me to his house every day and it gets annoying
alot of people hate him they say hes a poser
he gets pissed off easily and starts cussing me out
Guy 2 good things :
hes really sweet
hes romantic like me
he likes to kiss
hes really hott
he tried to finger me but i said stop and he listened
he respects me
Guy 2 Bad things -
everyone says hes litarrly special ed in 1 class but he says he isnt
he stayed back 3 times
hes 3 years older then me
hes not a virgin
he smokes
he stutters a little when he talks
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I really like them both in different ways. Guy 1 is more like me but Guy 2 respects how far I'll go sexually. But Guy 1 is closer to my age. I really don't know who to pick. If you had to choose 1 according to those facts, who would you choose? (link)
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Nobody can tell you who to pick. I don't know either of these two people, so answering your question with a definitive choice would be just a guess. I will say that you should pick the guy that you enjoy being with more. Who do you connect with? Who do you feel really cares about you? All guys are gunna have good and bad points, so you have to ask yourself which guy's bad points are more tolerable. Good luck.
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I am an 18-year-old female and I feel as though my boyfriend controls me. He limits the girls I can talk to and talking to guys is definitely out of the question. In turn I feel as though I should do the same to him, so I do. Except I won't simply tell him to not go out at all. I will tell him to not go out 5 times a week, get drunk with his friends and pick up underage girls. Yet, I still feel guilty for telling him not to do this because I feel as though I have stooped down to his level and that I am now controlling him. He makes me feel this way as well. I love him, we are very close and have been dating for a long while, but what should I do? (link)
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Men, in case you haven't noticed, usually like to be in control of things. You say that you love your boyfriend, but I'm not so sure he loves you. A guy who loved you, not only wouldn't try to control who you talk to, but wouldn't do the above things that you also mentioned. It boils down to this:you either accept this as a flaw of his and continue to date him, or it's too much for you and you find another guy. I can't make this choice for you.
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If you try one cigarrete do you automatically get addicted to smoking? (link)
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Some people say that they got addicted from the first one on, but I've smoked before. And I'm not addicted to them. And it's very unlikely that a person will actually get addicted from the first cigarette on.
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Do guys mind if girls ask them out? Usually, it is the guy who asks the girl so I'm just wondering if it is okay for "her" to ask "him". (link)
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Naw we don't mind. But only if you're hott.
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umm this is an old song and i only know a part to it but i want to put it on my myspace and i know one verse to it its ''Shot through the heart and your to late you give love a bad name'' its like an old band, but i think its like rock or punk music (link)
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Bon Jovi man. You Give Love a Bad Name. It's definitely rock.
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Okay so last night i stayed at my boyfriends house.. I didn't sleep in the same room as him.. i was in his sisters room.. anyways..
We was watching a movie in the lounge and we started kissing and then we was touching each other like.. had our hands down each others trousers and underwear etc.. He got an erection.. and then he layed on top of me, still fully clothed and we kissed some more..
I am worrying that i could be pregnant even though we were fully clothed.. Because i no you can get pregnant through clothes etc..
But what is the possibility of me getting pregnant through his jeans and boxers AND my combats and thong? Like.. is this likely?
I dont know whether he came or not or anything.. and i didnt notice or feel anything wet\sticky on my combats.. But when i went to the toilet i noticed a tiny, tiny little stain, mark type thing kinda just above my private area but i dont think it went through.. infact it may of been something i spilt on there?
What do you think?
Also..
When i came home today i noticed my urine is a really dark colour and very warm to pass.. and i have been discharging a bit aswell.. My period isnt due for another week at MINIMUM.. and i am not or never have been sexually active
Any suggestions? i just really need to stop worrying or have some kind of reassurence or to know the truth about if this is possible because otherwise it might delay my period and i'll think the worst!
Sorry its long!
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You have nothing to worry about. I could go into this long explanation why you don't. But I won't.
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I hear that guys like girls to be shaved.
Then i heard guys like the 'landing strip' better.
any input? (link)
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It depends on the guy. A lot like them shaved. Some like it all natural. The landing strip is always a great idea to me. It gives you hair and offers the no hair option. I'd say do that. Or do a thing where it's like a heart. Or a flower. But that takes skill.
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This is for mostly for the guys but ladies please answer too!
I don't know what to get my boyfriend for his birthday. Any suggestions? What would you guys like to get as a present? Thanks in advance. =] (link)
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You're asking me an impossible question. I don't know the guy and I don't know what he likes. You do. What does he talk about a lot? Sports? Cars? What's his favorite team? Get him something that has to do with them. If he likes music, get him something that has to do with that. But I can't tell you what to get because I don't know him.
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I am a 35/f whose teenage daughter has been living with her father for most of her life.
When her father and I divorced it was decided she would live there because I wasn’t financially stable enough to give her a comfortable year-round home but she has always spent most of the summer with me.
While things have changed a lot now. I make a good deal more money, pay child support and have a much more comfortable home for her. She’s decided she wants to move in with me for the rest of high school because the high school in my area has a much better art classes and several of her friends attend it.
I’m delighted of course, the thing is, she is afraid to tell her father about this decision. She says she’s mentioned maybe moving in with me before, and it’s upset him or he has taken it as a joke. She has asked me to come over and be with her as she discusses the move with her father.
So my question is: Should I be there while she tells her father she has chosen to live with me next school year? I want to be there for her, but I don’t want her father to feel threatened or ganged up on. Part of me thinks she is old enough to be able to talk to her dad about this herself (I’m sure he’ll be a bit hurt, but he isn’t an ogre or anything, he wont go nuts.) So I’m quite torn, please advise. (link)
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The important thing here is your daughter's happiness, not your's or her father's. If she wants to move in with you, then I feel like she has to be mature about it and tell her pops straight up without you there. If he hasn't been a bad father, then she has to make that clear to him, or he's gunna think that. He hasn't taken it as a joke, he's probably taken it very serious, but men tend to not show when they're shaken like that. Bottom line:After she has a long talk with him and all the reasons are out why she wants to move in with you,it'll be ok. If he loves her, he wants her to be happy no matter what. If he sees that she is indeed happy, then he won't be upset.
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do guys only find skinny girls with absolutely no fat on them attractive? is just a little bit of fat okay do you think? what else do they find attractive personality and looks? (link)
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No, we don't like just a skeleton with skin on it. I like a women in shape, but not bone thin. If you look sickly thin, that's even worse than being fat.
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Well I jus watched the movie, the butterfly effect, with my friends. and the ending is how he like never becomes friends with kaylee and stuff. Well my friend said that when she say it and it was a different ending, like he was in the womb, and like choked himself with the ambilical cord.
Is that like one of the endings? (link)
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Yeah, it's the alternate ending. A lot of DVDs come with alternate endings and this was just the one that went with The Butterfly Effect.
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