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GUYS


Question Posted Saturday July 29 2006, 6:03 pm

do guys only find skinny girls with absolutely no fat on them attractive? is just a little bit of fat okay do you think? what else do they find attractive personality and looks?

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hey789 answered Thursday July 12 2007, 10:14 pm:
guys dont like it when shes so thin that the bones show. but no tires either! some fat is good , but as soon as it starts to create ripples or sag thats when it gets disgusting. hmmmm i very very strongly dislike girls with short hair, or even a little short. it looks to guyish. anywhere past the shoulders is good. if ur white, than a nice tan is cool, not boring, outgoing etc...

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MummuM answered Sunday July 30 2006, 9:06 pm:
It depends on the guy. Different guys like different things about the girl they're with, or they're liking/in love with. Some guys like super skinny girls, others like average sized girls, while some like girls with a little meat on their bones. It just depends on the guy and what they like most. ♥

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JillandAmanda answered Sunday July 30 2006, 9:05 pm:
ok.
a bunch of guys HATE annerexic girls. they think there ugly and have now curves. of course a little bit of fat is okk! Too skinny girls look abnormal and deformed. Im told that they like my eyes and my crazy personality. i hope i helped

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contradictionn answered Sunday July 30 2006, 4:21 pm:
Actually, most guys think the new "Rail thin" trend is disgusting.
As do I.
Guys like a girl who they wont break when they hug.
Guys that you don't want to be with--go for looks.
Guys that you do want to be with--go for personality.

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KrisxOx answered Sunday July 30 2006, 1:52 am:
guys jsut dont think highly of a girl because of her wieght. guys dont look for that. ususally they look for adventure. a sense of humor. what there personailty is like. practically anything. but not really wieght.

hope i helped

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confusedbabii answered Sunday July 30 2006, 1:46 am:
i decided to go on a quest for this...
i asked all of my guy friends that were online. and all of them said that they don't find skinny girls with absolutely no fat on them attractive. and this is 48 guys we're talking about. yes, i counted.

they like sense of humor, sense of adventure, they like girls who'll try new things, girls who arent obsessed with self image, girls that they can talk to about pjretty much anything, and girls that don't complain about everything.

as for looks, they said that looks do count somewhat. every guy might prefer a different looking girl, but personality should overcome physical features for the most part, unless the guy is a complete jerk and totally shallow and relies on looks.

well, i hope i helped!!

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FloridianGator1616 answered Sunday July 30 2006, 12:06 am:
If a guy just wanted a girl because their skinny then its not worth it. Believe it or not their is guys that look for good personalities and dont worrie about looks if all they care about is looks then forget them. Oh and a little bit of fat doesn't matter. I'm sure your fine the way you are.

Thanks
Austin

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Xenolan answered Saturday July 29 2006, 11:13 pm:
Holding and kissing a girl who's too thin is creepy. It feels like embracing a skeleton. Ick. Given a choice, I would prefer a full-figured woman to an anorexic one any day of the week.

I think that there are two major items that determine what men will find physically attractive about women: Things that enhance femininity, and things that show good health.

Under the first category, we see why men GENERALLY prefer larger breasts and curvy hips, with a narrower waist to accentuate both. This is also why shaved legs are considered attractive - women are naturally less hairy than men, and when they shave their legs it enhances that difference. There are also cultural distinctions, like longer hair and style of dress. Once again, this is all generalization; men find all kinds of things attractive.

Health is shown in things like clear eyes, athletic figure, decent teeth, and that sort of thing. Of course, this goes both ways, and describes what women like about men equally well. Who was more desireable - young, strong Elvis; or old, drugged-out Elvis? There you go.

This is really too general a question. You can't ask "What do Men Like?" any more than you can ask what women like. The best thing to do is to think about what YOU would like for men to find attractive about you, and make that who you are. If you want a man who values an intelligent woman, then get yourself a good education. If you want a man who craves a scupted body, then start working out. Pick more than one thing, because no one wants someone who's obsessive about just one aspect of themselves, but concentrate on the parts that mean the most to you.

In other words: If you build it, they will come.

Just make sure that what you build is YOU. Don't fake it, or you'll be miserable.

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RazzlDazzl answered Saturday July 29 2006, 11:11 pm:
It pretty much comes down to what looks healthy.. if a girl is too fat or too skinny she falls of the radar easily, and this goes hand in hand with eating too much or eating too little respectively.. many girls can look very good while being what is considered fat sometimes, but the ones that are attractive like this do maintain decent eating habits and are just naturally thicker.

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babyygqirlx3 answered Saturday July 29 2006, 11:00 pm:
No, most guys think that girls that have absolutely no fat is unattractive. Guys like a little fat that they can grab and hold on too, like love handles. Guys also like it when a girl has a nice personality consisting of being smart, kind, generous, not too shy to talk to them, but at the same time being innocent. For looks, they just like girls that dont look trashy but have a nice clean face. They don't like too much make up, and most guys dont like sluts. The less you hook up with guys, the more they will like you. Boys like girls with less experience so they don't have to worry about not trusting you.

These are all the tips I can think of at the moment. Hope I helped!<3

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babiigirl answered Saturday July 29 2006, 10:14 pm:
I think guys like it when a girl has meat on her. Not just skin and bones. Alot of those stick skinny girls think that them being that skinny will attract more guys but most of them are wrong.

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kevin1986 answered Saturday July 29 2006, 10:05 pm:
No, we don't like just a skeleton with skin on it. I like a women in shape, but not bone thin. If you look sickly thin, that's even worse than being fat.

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orphans answered Saturday July 29 2006, 9:12 pm:
i like my women big with plenty of cushon for the pushin! i dunno most men like their women with a good amount of meat on their bones because otherwise what is there to hold onto if she's a toothpick

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missmissgurl answered Saturday July 29 2006, 9:10 pm:
All the guys I know are like ewww eat food!!!, when girls are that skinny. They find it rather revolting. Most guys like curves, like an ass! lol

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xTakemeawayox answered Saturday July 29 2006, 8:52 pm:
Serioulsy i dont think guys like super skinnny girls. they like alil meat on them bones lol..ever hear more cushin for the pushing lol.

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bitterxsweet answered Saturday July 29 2006, 8:32 pm:
no. ive heard several guys say that dont like really skinny girls.. that its unattractive & they need some meat on their bones. =]

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god-smusgrove answered Saturday July 29 2006, 8:16 pm:
for starts...(as hard as it is to believe) every guy has a different oppinion of the perfect girl. sum guys like pencil thin girls sum girls like huge ass girls who eat cars for breakfast, as far as personality goes we're different about that too, sum want bitchy, sum one girly girl,

so im just gunna answer this in my opinion..

looks - fit *not frickin body builder* and a lil bit of fat is ok

personality - fun/goofy i can joke around with her and make her laugh ... good sense of humor is a great turn on ..

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NoLies_JustLove answered Saturday July 29 2006, 8:16 pm:
Some guys will only date girls because of their looks and not their personality, but those guys are definetly not worth your time. Most guys don't care how much a girl weighs and think that personaltiy is more important. It seems like guys tend to like girls that are confident, nice, have an interesting personality and have a sense of humor. They also like girls that aren't afraid to talk to people and aren't afraid to be themselves. So, yeah, the guys who only date skinny girls aren't worth it. It doesn't matter how much someone weighs, because it's better to wait for someone who cares about imporant things, like personality, than unimportant things. Hope I helped. =)

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