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i had a rough night one night and the next day at school, i still wasn't too happy or perky like i usually am. my whole group all stands together in the mornings and my best friend was in the group and she didn't notice a thing. it confused me because i can always tell when there's something wrong with her. i put in my ipod headphones and just blasted my music. then this girl next to me was like "your music is really loud..are you ok??" and i've only known this girl for like 4 months and she is noticing.
so here's my question:
is my best friend tottally insensitive to others feelings? or is was she just not paying attention? (link)
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i think your overexagerrating. shes not ignoring your feelings maybe she didnt notice.just dont think about it
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Well i have this friend who told me that her parents (who my parents are best friends with) hit her and her dad tried to drown her in a pool. What should i do?? we are only 13 and i don't want her to get into trouble and my mom wouldn't beleive me! They already called DSS but that didn't help. (link)
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you need to get help imediatly!! tell someone weather its your parents or whoever. you need to get help for her. if that doesnt work you should call the abuse people
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umm this may be a stupid question, but how do you kiss? i mean do you just go for it? what do guys expect out of a 13 year old? closed mouth open-mouthed? please help! (link)
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it comes naturally. you'll know what to do. it might be awkward the first time.
hope i helped and good luck
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How do you apply eyeliner? I don't know where to put it or how to put it on without poking my eye. please help! (link)
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down swipe up.
thats what i say to myself while applying
you just gently pull the bottom of your eye down and apply it where the eyelashes come out of your skin.
HOPE I HELPED BABE
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okay so theres this guy [ my boyfriend ]
and we've been going out for about 2 months and i dont really like him anymore. we never hang out that much so its kinda pointless to go out anymore and schools starting again and i wanna keep my options open.we've gone out before and i broke up with him that time and he was really sad. i dont know how to break up with him again. help? (link)
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you cant wait for him to break up with you.
You just have to say that you just want to be friends and dont want to have a boyfriend for school.
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My life pretty much sucks all thanks to this one girl Linda. This is why ; In 3rd grade she took my #1 best friend away from me. Soon, I got over it. Now all thanks to her I met this guy Paul. I can hardly even stand him. Because May 30, we went out, and then he broke up with me 5 days later. I was crushed. July 21, he fell back inlove with me. [Again], 5 days later he broke up with me
Here is the worst part. Today was Linda's party. I tried and tried to loose weight, but my stupid body is to fat. Anyways I went to her party. Amy was there. Amy is really pretty. I really dislike Amy. She was like "ooh, i hate fat people, thats discusting" infront of my face. Paul was there. Paul did not speak to me at all, but he kept starring at me. He is really cute.
Linda's away message [on aim] said she`s going to the movies with Amy and Paul. They were making fun of Paul before.
Sometimes I feel like there is noone to talk to but god. I don`t know why that whatever I say everybody thinks it`s pointless. It has a meaning to me.
Anyways my mom doesnt seem to care about me, at all. But im fine i guess. My father passed away about 5 months ago.
I woke up today at 1. By 2, my day was ruined. Well, I imed Paul, and he blocked me. I was talking to Tyler & Tyler was like now he knows your fat.
Well guess what the 1st day of school, [Aug. 15] I am going to wow everyone. They are going to wish they never made fun of me. Nobody knows how bad I feel. It seems like nobody on this planet loves me. Also, I feel like I cannot trust anyone. Anyways, I fouund out Paul & Amy made out in the movies for 30 minuetes. Oh, how I wish i was Amy. Kyle said Linda was hot. I have to agree with him. Everyone is hot, but me. I am deffently going on a diet. =]
Right now, I don`t know how I feel. All I know is like I hate Amy. Yesterday and today were the worst days of my life. Right know it seem as if my mom hates me. Whats new? I really need to improve my life. One day im going to snap.
Right now im pretty cheered up. Guess what! Paul hates Amy! After she made out with Paul she made out with other guys. Paul apologized to me.
THIS WAS IN MY JORNAL EVERYTHING UP THERE.
Now this is just me typing. Everything seems to be so confusing. I feel unloved by everyone. Please do not recommend conseling. [sp?]
Sorry it was so long. ! (link)
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aww ok well first of all, you need ot get away from amy and linda and even paul. they seem to be causing all this drama and you wont be happy until your away from them.
second, dont let what other people say effect you. amy seems like a real biotch and was probably jealous of you and paul and thats why she said that about fat people. and thats prolly why she made out with him.
hope i helped
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Okay so basically this summer i got in a fight with all my friends and now i only have one friend which is my best friend. but i want more friends for school. how do i make friends??
I want friends that i can relate stuff too.
please help ill lovee youu forever like seriously (link)
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well chances are next year you will meet new people. just be interested in people who dont back stab and dont be shy just be yourself and be happy.
♥ hope i helped
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ok im scared senseless of using a tampon like im jus scared itll hurt. ive tried puttin one in like 3 times & i cant even do it bc i tense up so bad. ive heard people say that you cant even feel it when its in but ive also heard ppl say you can feel it just enough to tell its inside you soo which is it??? (link)
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wow you sound like me.
i had this problem
It seriously doesnt hurt. you can not feel it
it is comfortable and everything
the best brand is tampax.
but just relax
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I'm looking at redoing my room ... i want it to be like a club (so strobe lights and everything) i got 300 dollars set aside ... does any one have any ideas of what i could do to make it look really cool? websites would help to.
FYI i rate your answers.
thanks .. (link)
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haha
this is a very good idea.
What i did while redoing my room
is go to....
Target
Walmart
Walgreens
Garage Sales(dead serious)
you can find really cool stuff at these places and you can do it for cheap.
Look for anything. Furniture wise cause you can paint it and make it look awesome
hope i helped
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My mom told my sister and I a few days ago that if she tells us to do something, we have to do it within 5 minutes or we "lose our privileges". She isn't patient at all. When she tells us to do the dishes, and we say "I will", then she looks at her watch casually to time us 5 minutes to do it. She constantly has to have us doing chores, too. Whether its vacuuming, yard work, dishes, emptying the trash, or putting something up, she can't wait and we have to do it NOW. If we aren't cleaning in some way, we're wasting time (according to my mom). What do we do? (link)
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alright. this is how my friends mom is whom i basically live with. she even makes me do chores. of course i call her mom. Unfortuantly. i dont think it can be stopped. whenever we talk to her mom she just is like This is my home My rules. Im sorry but while shes in charge theres no way to stop it. I would deffeintly bring it up though and say to your mom that your a kid and you want to live your life not have to do chores etc.
hope i helped
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I was wondering how I could have my own website. I don't mean something like xanga or myspace, but something real...for example, if my name was sara, I would make the URL www.saraswebsite.com (example). It may be too complicated, but if anyone knows how I would really like some advice. Thanks! (link)
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alright. to have your name in it it costs like $20. I know a good site that i love! its called hometown.
the url is
www.hometown.aol.com
then go to easy designer.
you can put pictures and basically anything
you want
hope i helped
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okay i have this "best" friend that i have been friends with for such a long time. well in the middle of the school year i really liked but he started liking her. even though she knew i liked him she would still hang out with him and kiss him & everything even though she did have a boyfriend that she claimed to be in "love" with. well her & her boyfriend broke up cause he started liking our other friend and my "best" friend cried and when i told her that it was basically the same thing she did to me but our other friend wasnt interested in her ex, she told me to fuck off.. i never trusted her but i still hang out with her. well i got over that i guess and now me and this kid jake are together but now going out. i REALLY like him and i know he really likes me too. we always hang out and i lost my virginity to him. but yesterday my "best" friend told my other friend shelby "jakes cute..hes definantly a cutie..i'd go out with him if i didnt have a boyfriend." she didnt say anything about me liking him. and i didnt tell her i lost my virginity to him. she knows he likes me too and when i confronted her about it there was a long pause and she was like "no if i didnt have a boyfriend. i'd go out with kid mark.. but i only said that to make my boyfriend mad.." then there was another pause and she was like "i dont like jake" i dont know if i can trust her around him. i know that he wouldnt do anything cause he's such a nice guy but i dont know. what should i do about her? i told jake what she said and all he said was "she's dumb" or something like that. and i dont think he thinks anything of her cause he started kissing me in front of her when she came over last night. so what should i do? (link)
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Its obvious you have a very very sweet boyfriend. Your best friend is a bitch. plain and simple. If i were you i would not hang out with her anymore! I was in a similar situation and it was really really hard for me to get away from her. but i knew that she really was my friend shes just mean and doesnt realize that shes doing something wrong. If i were you just kinda break away from her. Start hanging out with your bf. he seems really reliable and sweet. Ditch your friend. shes not a good friend and you dont deserve to go along with someone who isnt nice to you and doesnt respect your feelings. Hope i helped
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Whats the best brand of stuff to use for acne to go away?? I have clearisil. It works somewhat.. See Ive never really been a person who gets acne alot..but one every while i get like 2. But i was justwondering what works the best incase i do develop acne. THANKKS! (link)
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proactive is deffiently the best stuff! its a little bit expensive but it works so well!
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how do u make the little hearts thing where you can actually see the heart???
thanks in advance (link)
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ok well a couple of days ago i put on perfectly clean underwear and at the end of the day it looked like i had gotten my period. i havent gotten my period yet so i thought i was starting to get it. so the next day i didnt think i got it, so i put new perfectly clean underwear and it did the same thing. like it had little redish brownish stains on it. so then the next day i still didnt put a pad on and i put perfectly clean underwear and nothing showed up on it or whatever. is this normal? like it was for 2 days that i got those little stains on my underwear now it stopped. is this a sign that im getting my period soon? does it usually do this?
thanks im advance.
p.s.-sorry it was so long (link)
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yes. that is the sign that its starting. You could have a very short one. or something. i hope i helped
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well my mom & brother fight like no other. he is 18 & still lives at home for now. they are fighting right now over my step dad ( my brother & him hate eachother with a passion but he doesnt live with us ) soon the 4th of july my step dad & my brother got into a fight. at that time me & my mom were supposed to move into his house. well since the fight we arent moving in. my mom said she was over with him, divorse & everything. well now its about not even a month later & she is sleeping over his house on the weekends again & i know they are back together. i dont like him at all & neither does anyone in my family. she promised me & everyone that they were going to split. well now i know they are back together & im scared that we are going to end up moving there. i hate this guy so bad. & everytime i try to talk to my mom about this she yells at me & tells me that she doesnt want to be alone. i just dont know what to do. this is so hard on me never seeing my mom because he is an idiot. please help. (link)
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Your mom yells because shes scared. Just ask her really sweetly if you can talk to her and then explain to her that you are really hurt with her descission and her live is affecting the families. Maybe you should talk to your brother and other siblings and you all could sit down and talk. It probably really sucks for you right now and i hope that everything will be alright
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I'm 13/f and I was talking online with a friend, who he is 17. We have alot in common and stuff, so he asked me out. I was just wondering, what do you think is the maximum age difference? I really like this guy, and if he was my age, I would go out with him without question, but, is this age different ok?
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In my opinion, The age difference is a bad thing. but i dont know him. Just dont let him pressure you into anything you dont want to do. I think if you like him then you should give it a try. and if you dont like it then break up with him. i hope that helped
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Ok well my bestfriend, she was like my bestfriend ever & like now I just feel like shes replacing me with one of her other friends. cause she used to be like a sister to me and now like we barley talk & i tried to talk to her about it & ask her if she was trying to replace me and she even said i dont know. it really hurts and i was like crying for a while trying to think everything over & i just dont know what to do cause i love her shes like my sister & i deffently dont wanna stop being friends with her. I dont know what to do to make her understand cause talking to her wont work? any other sugjestions? =/ (link)
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ive been in this situation. okk generally the less you try to be friends with her the more she wants to be. Just ask her once in a while if she wants to hang out. Maybe she just wants to hang out with this person for a little bit. so what you should do is hang out with other people too. but always make sure that you keep in touch and still invite her to hang out so that you wont completly loose touch. i hope everything goes well. and dont get stressed over it. shes not supposed to make you sad =\
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So my friend (we will call him Tom) Tom and i have been talking a lot on MSN and Texting. We are JUST friends (tom has been going out with a girl for 5 months)but for some reason i feel giulty that we are so close. We always go on webcam and do silly stuff together like pretend we are rappers or act like gangsters and stuff. Everybody thinks we like each other even though neither of us have really ever thought about it...
so what i'm asking is do you think he likes me or should i feel giulty? i KNOW i am not leading him on, but ever since somebody kinda pointed it out to me, i geuss we are kinda flirtsy (not on purpose though) i am confused, but in the mean time....i will just continue to be awesome friends and keep on being silly.
your help is GREAT, so thank you for even just reading this mess, lol (link)
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alright im in the similar situation except we like each other. I dont think you should feel guilty. remeber your not the one with the boyfriend hes the one with the girlfriend so he should feel guilty if theres a reason too. and heyy you might like him. but tom has a girlfriend and he knows what hes doing. so dont worry and just flirt lol
hope i helped
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One of my pupils is bigger than the other. I've been to three different doctors and they don't ever say anything about it. What could it be? (link)
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if the three different doctors didnt notice it its probably because its not a big deal. Im sure that no one but you notices it. Generally we notice our defects and no one else does. but if its really bothering you go to an eye doctor and ask about it.
hope i helped
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