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DONT KNOW HOW TO BREAK UP WITH MY BOYFRIEND..
okay so theres this guy [ my boyfriend ]
and we've been going out for about 2 months and i dont really like him anymore. we never hang out that much so its kinda pointless to go out anymore and schools starting again and i wanna keep my options open.we've gone out before and i broke up with him that time and he was really sad. i dont know how to break up with him again. help?
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well you should tell him how you feel....like i said before it will only hurt worse if he finds ou you have been going out with him and you dont like him anymore...just say it nicely and be there for him whenever even though he will be sad he will be happy to know that you will be there for him
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I had like the EXACT SAME situation....well....i emailed my bf the second time and we kinda agreed to break up.....we are still great friends though. Just be gentle, and not too harsh. you can say it straight to his face, email him and tell him, or call him. Yes, he may be upset for a while, just continue to be there for him even thoguh you aren't going out anymore. Just because this is the second time you broke up doesn't mean you can be friends
I wish you only the best!!!
Katie <3<3
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you cant wait for him to break up with you.
You just have to say that you just want to be friends and dont want to have a boyfriend for school.
hope i helped
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say it as it is.. you dont feel that way any more.
try not to hurt him. and that if he needs some space or somthing you understand but you still want to be mates and value his friendship.
n if you dont then.. just say it how it is. no point in making excuses. if he cant take it.. truth is he needs to learn.. n if you dont liek him that way.. and want your options open.. its not your problem that he hurts.. btu prevent it at most costs.
xxx
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assuming that last time's breakup isn't for the same reason. you might want to warn him about it first or drop some hints so he knows what to do. you two might hit the spark again. but if you're dead set on breaking up with him, never break up online. that's the worst possible scenario. so not online, start a casual conversation and casually ease in the subject. remember to compliment, compliment, compliment. it makes them feel at least a little bit better. the whole cliche "you're a nice guy and all but.." make sure you're clear about the reason why you're breaking up with him so he doesn't get any strange ideas. just reassure him during the process and make clear that you still want to be friends, and that should do it. there may be some awkwardness between you guys for some time after, but if you guys are good friends, it'll stay that way. best of luck to you!
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