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I know I'm being paranoid, but the only thing that mortifies me about starting high school this year is what to wear...
I have some stuff from last year.. and some stuff that I got the summer before...
After how long should you stop wearing a shirt to school?
I gave away a lot of my shirts because they were over a year old, and I thought it was too long to keep a shirt and wear it regularly to school, so I am short on shirts now. I went shopping yesterday and got 2 Tshirts (HCO) and a few BF tanks. I have about 5 shirts besides that from last year.
I'm just stressed about wearing the same shirt/outfit too often.
How often do you think it's acceptable to repeat an outfit/shirt (I basically pair everything with some sort of denim something)?
Can someone just please tell me something or give me advice on how to stop being so mortified and nervous?
I'm a wreck!
14/f... freshie. (link)
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I think you should wear what you feel comfortable in. I am a junior now and it doesnt matter what people wear, just as long as you have a great personality. Other thing is, people dont remember you on what your wearing because im sure they dont remember what you wear everyday, just as long as you can make people laugh or just be intrested in talking to you, im sure your year will be great!
Good luck! :)
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Well there is this guy and I am totally starting to crush on him and I was just wondering if there is a for sure way to tell if he likes me back!! He is in two of my classes and i am a freshman in high school. Well anyways it seems like he is flirting with me, for instance he usually takes something from me and then he expects me to chase him around to get it back so i dont know if that is a sign because he does it in a sort of flirtacous. Sometimes when i glance over during class to check the clock or something and i will see him quickly glance away when i make eye contact with him when i see him looking my way. In our english class he was also mad because we have to change seats every six weeks and we use to sit next to eachother so he was mad because we werent by eachother anymore. I just really need to know if we have a chance even though we dont really talk outside of english and biology because we dont really see eachother. I really want him to be the one to ask me out or to just hang out so what should I do for him to know I like him back besides just flirting? I am also kind of shy unless u know me pretty well then i am extremly outgoing!haha! Last year I wasnt outgoing around guys but this year i am more chill around them and myself so I really hope that is a good thing. Well anyways i would really appreciate it if u could help me out because i am at a major loss! (link)
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You should just flirt back and see what he does. Kinda hint to him that you like him. If he doesnt get what your trying to tell him, i would just tell him. Which to mean what you have explained it seems that he likes you. I would just go for it. I wish you the best of luck
:)
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ok theres this kid and we really flirt alot and well sometimes we flirt flirt if you catch my drift you know and well if we were ever together my family would kill me and him but i cant help who i like plus well i dont know if he likes me i asked him and he yea as a friend but that was over the summer and weve come along way since than and well he also acts sometimes like he likes me more than just a friend but than sometimes he doesnt i dont know what to do maybe hes scared but my friends and his friends tell me he likes me but i dont know what to do with the whole just as friends thing when all he does and all his actions says otherwise we havent done anything sexual but weve talked about it help me please (link)
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I think that you should just talk to him one day when none of his friends are around him. Just come out with it and tell him that you have liked him and see what he says. No guy flirts with a girl unless they like you
if he says he likes you as a friend
thats ok im sure you can find someone that you like just as much!
Good Luck :)
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Hi , i'm red and soft , my voice is really squeeky and anoying. I am popular with the girls and they all want to tickle me constantly. my problem is that i need more then just a tickle. I asked big bird for his advice but he was no help . He's got too many issues of his own to help me.
Thanks ,
Elmo
sesame streets sexiest man ...... errr ...... muppet alive (link)
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aw lol...well elmo i think that you were made to be a tickling doll or puppet so therefore that is all that people do so i can not help you with this problem....im sorry!
good luck
~Britt~
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I like this hard core christian boy and i'm completely terrified to tell him, because i'm pagan...(old form of wicca). I fear that even though we get along as friends that he'll refuse me in any other way. And then there's me...still terrified of dating again...terrified of losing my heart to someone, to being hurt like before...
I'm afraid of him...that he isn't really as sweet as i think. (link)
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i think that you should just talk to him and hang out with him for awhile and see what he is really like
if you really like what he has showed you then you should go for it and take your chances
if he doesnt like you then it will be ok
im sure there is plenty of guys that would love to go out with you, but just is scared to tell you
good luck:)
Brittany
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So I have this HUGE crush on this guy. But 'this guy' is no ordinary guy, he's the most popular guy ever! I know we have a lot in common and we would be perfect for eachother. But the problem is since he is sooo popular he has a lot of other girls after him. (The only reason all the other girls want to date him is because he is popular and cute, but they don't know ANYTHING about him.) Just to let you know I liked him before he came Mr. Popular.. See first I heard somethings about him and I thought he was just the sweetest, kindest, funniest guy and one day soon after I saw him... And it didn't take long until he was popular. So my question is should I just take a chance and do whatever I have to do to get his attention? Or should I just forget him? And if you say forget him, how? He is not an easy guy to forget. Please and thank you (link)
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i think that you should just tell him you need to talk to him ...and when he says ok tell him how you felt about it before he became popular and what you think about him and im sure he will understand and maybe he thinks the same way about you!
good luck:)
~Britt~
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thank you i will try that but wut happens if it dont work??
John (link)
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just give it a little time and if it doesnt work then just dont try so hard...put it this way the right person will come to you ...trust me, i didnt try and i found the perfect one!
best of luck John:)
~Britt~
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I've been looking for a job for ages but nothing's working and I seriously need a job. I babysit a lot but the lady babysit for hardly pays and I really need some money...... Any ideas? (link)
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my suggestion is that you go and whatever job you see that pays good money you could ask if they are hiring and fill out a application..
best of luck!
~Britt~
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im a 19 year old male that just got out of high skool n i dont know wut is wrong wit me i have not really had a love life or really a gf thru my high school years do you think there is a way to get girls 2 like me??
thank you!
John (link)
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all you really have to do is show the girls your personality and just be yourself....girls dont like you all over them you just got to have them chase you...
just show them your the real thing!
im sure they will love you!
im sure if i knew you and you were a nice guy
i would like ya!
but i have a bf and im sure you can do better!
i know it!
good luck:)
love,
Britt
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well, i use to be a very not shy, friendly, talkative girl. i really didn't have lack of confidence or anything like that. then, i had this situation which tore my confidence. it was just a situation that someone REALLY REALLY hurt me and it was about two years ago. but, sometimes, when i remember i just go to a corner and start crying. ever since, i've been kind of scared and timid and i even developed a little bit of anxiety. i didn't have fun at all these places i loved to go. i spent about two years like this. this year, i feel like i'm getting out there more. i've been talking to people, making new friends, joining more clubs, starting clubs, basically just being more active and not being so shy. but, then when i go talk to people, it all comes back to me. all the stuff that he said to me. and then i think that i'm annoying. i shouldn't talk so much. i shouldn't try to be so friendly around people. i dunno. then it starts to get to me again. one of the things he said was that i was annoying. but, that's not all he said. he said a whole bunch of bad things that i'm not even going to write here. but that's how it started off, by saying that i was annoying. i feel so confused. i don't know what to be. if i am too quiet, i don't feel happy. if i'm outgoing, like the person that i use to be, i think i'm annoying. but, i want to be that person again, be that way before i thought i was annoying. can someone please give me some advice? (link)
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the guy you had feelings for probally was just a typical jerk and not to be mean but he probally wanted to get to you and make you the way you are...so just stop thinking about what that guy thought about you and just be who you want to be...who cares if people think you are annoying if they have a problem with it then tell them to get over it, that its not your problem.
best of luck
~Britt~
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my boyfriend has recently gone to jail. and i know that sounds really bad but he really didnt do anything except for be in the wrong place at the wrong time. he had a current probation and he was caught hangin out with people with alcohol and he was underage. so hes going to possible have to stay in jail till september if he cant make bail (his bail hearin is tomorrow). so im not sayin im having a problem decided to stay with him. i know ill wait for him, and i told him i would. but my mom's not lettin me accept his collect calls anymore. they're expensive and i get that. but i just wanted to answer his call tomorrow after his bail hearing but my mom wont let me. because he could stay there at haverhill, or he could get moved to concord, or he could be out if he can pay the bail. and my mom wont let me answer the phone. shes like just write to him. but if he gets moved to concord how will i know .. aww. i was hysterical. like i hate not knowing things and she was being such a bitch about it, sayin he asked for goin to jail, which he didnt even do anything. and i hyperventilated and all that stuff. and i cant calm down, i need to talk to him. i need to know where hes goina be. but all i can do is send a letter to a jail he may not even be in .. i dont know waht to do. (link)
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your mom is right too....but she shouldnt keep you from the person you want to be with, maybe if you talk to your mom and say mom can i take this one call and how ever much the bill is for that call i will pay you back...maybe she will understand and let you answer the call
tell me how it works out
best of luck
~Britt~
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ok, well i have had a HUGE crush on this girl thats one of my friends and shes a year older than me. well when she went into high school i didnt talk to her much, but now im goin into high school shes talkin to me more. well ive had this chrush on her for over a year and a half, but i never had the courage to ask her out. well i found out she has a boyfired now and idk what to do. im 14 btw and shes 15 if that helps. please help me. (link)
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what i think you should do is tell your friend how you feel about her even though see has a boyfriend she knows how you feel about her and that way you dont have to worry about how to tell her or what she is going to think
the best thing to do is just tell her
she may even like you
the only way to find out
is if you ask
best of luck:)
Britt
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I need help with my self esteem...
I just feel like there's no point in anything anymore. And I feel like no one will ever truely LOVE me... so I think I need to do something that'll make me happy again, but I don't know what that could possibly be. I'm in need of advice!!!
Female
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well Mr. Right,
i think that you shouldnt go looking for the person that will truely love you i think that when that guy comes he will find you..
just stop looking for him and he will come sooner
there is a point in everything....just stop thinking about the right guy and just have fun in your life for now until he comes...
best of luck
~Britt~
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my friend went out with this guy for 5 months then he broke up with her right and shes still stuck on him and there like friends with benifits now but he told her dont worry well go back out and i still love u so on so on and i think he isnt hes just using her for sex and wat not and i tried to tell her and she dont believe me so wat should i tell her to make her believe me ???? (link)
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he is what you should do:
you should try and talk to her boyfriend
act like you and her got into a fight and say a whole lot of things so he will belive you and then maybe he will open up and tell you about him using her...but make sure you put a recorder in your pocket so you can play it for her then she might belive you
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okay so theres this guy [ my boyfriend ]
and we've been going out for about 2 months and i dont really like him anymore. we never hang out that much so its kinda pointless to go out anymore and schools starting again and i wanna keep my options open.we've gone out before and i broke up with him that time and he was really sad. i dont know how to break up with him again. help? (link)
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well you should tell him how you feel....like i said before it will only hurt worse if he finds ou you have been going out with him and you dont like him anymore...just say it nicely and be there for him whenever even though he will be sad he will be happy to know that you will be there for him
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1)okay so this girl first asks for my email add then my phone number,then one day i waved at her in school and she was absolutely shy and looked down the whole time.Now we are talking on msn.so does she like me?or is she just naturally shy and wants to be just friends?
2)But what i don't get about girls is that you know how some girls are outgoing and super friendly?So she may talk to you a lot and like you or maybe just talk to you cause she is just being friendly to you as she is to the other guys.So is their a way to know?I mean,if a girl talks to a guy a lot,does that mean that she's interested in him?cause it doesn't really make any sense for a girl to talk a lot to a guy since girls mostly mix with girls and vice versa, plus girls mostly talk about girls stuff which guys know nothing of,unless he's gay. (link)
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well by the way you describe her...i think this girl likes you but doesnt want to be shot down...
i think she is shy and doesnt want to tell you how she feels
so maybe start flirting with her and then if she opens up a little and not as shy
if you like her tell her how you feel
because she might feel the same
you never know unless you talk to the person about it
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i have been friends with "sarah" since i was a little kid (we're both 15 now). recently sarah wanted to make a myspace. i practically made the whole thing for her since i am better with computers. i posted her first comment saying "heyy sarah whats up?". i looked at her myspace a couple days later it was gone. i assume she deleted it because sarah is really popular in school, and well im not. i think that she did not want to be associated with me because im a geek. i was really upset by this and havent talked to her in a while, and i dont if i want to. should i forgive her for being 2-faced? and if i should, should i tell her i know what she did? (link)
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i would confront her telling her how that made you feel and if she doesnt want to be seen with you then tell her its best that were not friends
good friends wouldnt do that to one of there friends..
and if she says sorry just forgive her
but if she does it again then you obviously cant trust her and she isnt a good friend.
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How do I get my boyfriend, (From two years ago) back? We flirt sometimes, but we weren't in classes together last year. He's the perfect guy, like exactly what I look for. I'm great at flirting, and it'll seem like he likes me. But, I want us to go back out again. The new school year will be starting soon, maybe we'll get classes together. Tips? (link)
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talk to you ex-boyfriend about it and see how he feels about the situation and wanting to get back or not...
just keep flirting in the mean time
and when your ready to talk to him about it then do so
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this is REALLY long...sorry
I like this guy named Kevin, and i have for a while.
i have liked other guys, and had a boyfriend, but always had a crush on this guy.
We are pretty good friends, and we are coworkers
one day while working, i was like "hey, kevin, did you know i used to like you?"
and i said that because i didnt relize until a few days later i actually still liked him, its kinda a long story...
anyway, his jaw like, dropped, and i ended up asking him if he ever liked me, and after a really long and confusing answer, he was like "yeah, i did, it happened, its done" or soemthing like that.
So, i ended up telling him a few days later i still liked him, and he was like "okay" cause i kinda told him in this note i wrote him lol.
i was talking to him online, and i asked him what he liked about me before
he said " i dont know really, a lot of things, your looks were one of the things i'm sure...and the fact i can talk to you and it not be akward at all...that and a lot of other things"
so i said "okay, so what happened? my looks went bad and you cant talk to me"
and he said "no, i just cant trust you"
a few months ago, we made out, andi told a few friends, someone over heard, told a bunch of people, and too many people found out.
and someone told him i said he was a terrible kisser, plus,i have a fear of making out with guys with braces because i cut my tounge on this guys ones...
so thats what he means by he cant trust me...he says i critizes him too much because he still thinks i said he was bad, and because of the braces thing.
so, i flirt with him a lot, and he flirts back, and yet he says he doesnt like me anymore because of the trust thing...
then today, i was flirting with a lifegaurd at work (we allwork at the pool) and he got really pissed off
he was like "this is what i mean by the trust thing"
and i was like "you made it clear you dont like me, why do you care?"
and he said"because, if you really liked me, you wouldnt do that"
there was a lot more, and much more back story, but here is the question:
should i just try and gain his trust back somehow, and not flirt with anyother guys, and just focus on Kevin?
or should i tell him that since he says he doesnt like me, i dont want to be pressed on him all summer if there is no chance? (link)
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i think that you should just tell him that if he doesnt like you like that and doesnt trust you then whats the point in waiting around for something that is never going to happen
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ok so i dont eat i cant sleep my hairs falling out and i dunno whats going on...even the thought of food disguists me and i cant sleep i try but i cant i sleep at like 9 in the morning every day and now i touch my head and id find some hair come out its starting to scare me im not sure what i have ...ive been having a hard time lately and been goin through some kind of depression im not sure if thats part of it ..ok thx Biii! (link)
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my suggestion is that you should go and talk to a doctor about it...
there could be lots of reasons why your having these problems...
tell me what happens when you find out
hope everything is ok!
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