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Just this guy...
So I have this HUGE crush on this guy. But 'this guy' is no ordinary guy, he's the most popular guy ever! I know we have a lot in common and we would be perfect for eachother. But the problem is since he is sooo popular he has a lot of other girls after him. (The only reason all the other girls want to date him is because he is popular and cute, but they don't know ANYTHING about him.) Just to let you know I liked him before he came Mr. Popular.. See first I heard somethings about him and I thought he was just the sweetest, kindest, funniest guy and one day soon after I saw him... And it didn't take long until he was popular. So my question is should I just take a chance and do whatever I have to do to get his attention? Or should I just forget him? And if you say forget him, how? He is not an easy guy to forget. Please and thank you
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first if i'm any help to you tell people abou me please and if u ever need more advice u know where to go anyway ok so he is popular so if you like him ask him take a chance and just ask him out now if or when he says yes take it from there if you two end up loving each other then the other girls wont matter if not he is not worth it no guy is unless it's the guys you are destined to be with anyway yea ok if you like the answer and if i am of any help to you tell people about me and if you ever need more answers i can help
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i think that you should just tell him you need to talk to him ...and when he says ok tell him how you felt about it before he became popular and what you think about him and im sure he will understand and maybe he thinks the same way about you!
good luck:)
~Britt~
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ok welll, tell me this, are you popular? if your not maybe start being friends with some of his firneds so you atleast have connections, and that way you will be invited to most of the parties he is invited to. and if you are popular then you should go after him and ask ur firends to ask him who he is into and get a wingman like a guy frined best to point him in the right direction. also if you are not popular at all and there is no chance you will be, then umm im not sure if he will go for you because some guys have big egos and if they date girls that arnt in the same group as him it will be emberassing for him and his friends will make fun of him and you? also if you think you can snag him BE CONFIDENT! that is the number one thing popular guys are looking for also! for great advice watch john tucker must die! its all about a girl tryign to get a popular guy! so it will give you lots of tips!! also when u do start talking to him dont let him know that you know all the things you know about him, because then you will come off as a stalker and that will turn him off, so let him tell you about himself even though you already know everything. and as far as those other girls they might be just hookups since they dont know anything about this guy and if he ever goes out with any of them they wont last long so dont worry if he gets a gf most highschool relationships or even middle school ones last less than 2 months so dont worry about it. but also dont wait too long or you will just waste his time looking for you, his perfect match. so be confident and get connections!!
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Yes, you should take a chance, but that doesnt mean do WHATEVER you have to do to get his attention. I know this is overused, and corny, but honestly be yourself. You have to be outgoing to meet him and talk to him, dont be shy. Be confident, cause guys can just sense confidence (whether they even realize it or not). Get him to like the real you, not another fake girl thats after him. Popularity shouldnt affect who u chose to go out with, but if this guy is as sweet as you say, it shouldnt matter how popular you are. If it does, than hes not the guy you think he is, and does not deserve your time.
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Well if he isnt the type of guy your not going to forget then dont. (hope i didnt sound rude or anything) but try talking to him alone or on the phone or something. somewhere where girls wont be like all over him and stuff like that. and if he does like you he will forget about all the other girls:]
i hope i helped
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