i love music i have been told i give great advice except if i'm the one who needs the advice i get alog with most people as long as they get along with me i'm sumtimes a shy person (only in person)i'm in a relationship i live in wisconsin i kinda am a screw up but if other people need advice i can help ummm... well if u want to know anything else u can email me or w/e so yea ok then if you need advice i'm the one to come to and sorry i dont have a pic that will fit on here
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14/m
So there's the girl I like. I always liked her and it feels like I always will.
We were never dating but we were close. But now she's moved on to another guy. I can't get her off my mind!! I'm always thinking about her..she just seems so..perfect.
And now and then I look at the old notes she wrote me. The ones saying she likes me and looking at those it..it hurts. I wanna just throw them out but is that really going to help? I want to get over her...right?
Really confused,
Greenlalablue (link)
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ok well yea sounds like me i had the same problem and it does sound like your first love and you should keep the notes and just put them away somewhere you wont look at them distract yourself with something like a hobbie sport w/e now if she doesnt like you anymore or something it's her loss and you cant stop her from not likeing you or likeing another guy so just try your best to forget about her and i really hope things work out and hope i helped at all if not i'm terribly sorry also i'm looking for some more guy friends so if you ever wanna talk or get to know each other better we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so thanx i guess and sorry if i didnt help
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im 14/ m okay it all started at the beginning of the summer, there was this girl i had a crush on(a big time crush) so i decided to tell her and well i got rejected bt thats not the problem, after a little while i got over her but now im back in school ive started to get feelings for her again and i think that if i tell her sheel think im a stalker, what do i do>? help! (link)
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ok well ok first of all telling anyone you like them isnt that easy and by telling her that i admirer you cause i'm a very shy person so yea anyways if you tell her 2 times that not at all being a stalker but i would when you talk to her listen to what she has to say let her know your interested in what she has to say and when you see her dont always be the first person to say hi or het let her do that sometimes and if she doesnt then you say hi but give her the chance to say it sometimes just so if she does you know she does like you at least as a friend and stil wants to talk to you then later in the year go ahead and tell her again but dont get your hopes up cause she may say no again and if she does it's her loss cause i'm sure your a really nice guy anyways i'm looking for some more guy friends or some friends in general so if you would like we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so ye i hope i helped if not i'm terribly sorry umm yea ok thanx
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Is facial hair on a 15/m attractive or is it showing that your a some kind of beast (link)
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well it all depends on the girl but personaly i dont like mustaches but if you get a little beard but dont let it grow really long i think thats sexy so yea well hope i helped if not i'm sorry oh and no it doesnt show your some kind of beast ok if you do have a mustache shave it cause almost every girl i know dont like mustaches but you dont have to change yourself for some girl they should like you for you but if you really want to do it for you not any girl ok well yea hope i helped if not i'm sorry but also if you are a guy wich i'm assuming you are i'm looking for more guy friends so yea if you ever wanna talk we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so yea thanx and hope i helped
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ok well the thing is ive been going out with this girl for 6 months. im 15 so is she! i want to finish with her as she is too clingy and does not give me any room to breathe. the problem is she loves me more than anything and she might do something really stupid. ive also taken her virginity and is o broke up she would brand me as a user. how do i go about breaking up with her but not hurt her? (link)
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well if i were you just tell her that you need more space and or if you cant do that if she wants to hangout i know lieing is bad but say your parents wont let you or whoever takes care of you or say you are busy but the parents thing might be better cause if you say your busy she might think your cheating on her so yea well if she doesnt give you your space then she obvioously is either obsessed or doesnt love you the right way if that makes any sense ok well i hoped i helped if not i'm sorry oh and i'm looking for some more guy friends and yea so if you ever wanna talk we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com ok so yea thanx and hope i helped
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This is for girls. I want an honest answer; is penis size an important factor in relationships and does it matter? (link)
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well to some girls like me it doesnt matter but other girls like them big so it does depend on the girl if she is one of those nice girls who dont do much wrong then usualy they dont care or like them small but if they have done lots stuff with guys and are very sexual then they prolly like em big or dont care i hope i helped and also i'm looking for more friends so if you ever wanna talk umm yea we can talk on aim= everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger =For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so yea again ope i helped if not i'm sorry
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Dude, alright i live in missouri and I went to a walgreens to purchase some condoms and i am 15. so i was at the check out and the lady said "i'm not going to sell these to you" and i said "uhm lady why not?" and she said "you are too young to be having sex and im not gunna sell these to you" then she put it in the bag to be put back on the shelf...so yah is that legal? (she lectured me for about a 1/2 hr on the subject so please dont lecture me as well
p.s. i rate for good answers (link)
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ok yea this is illegal you should get her fired i mean your a teenager not a 5 year old trust me i know i'm 14 so i know what you mean about people saying we are too young to have sex and it really sucks oh and i'm looking for some real freids cause all of mine are just not my friends anymore so if you wanna friend or sumone to talk to we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so yea hope i helped and hope you wil be my friend thanx bye
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There is this girl that is always saying "hey" to me when I come into my reading class. Does this mean she likes me? (link)
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first what grade r u in or how old are you this will help me out more and i could really help on helping you find out if she likes you
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Hi, I'm going into 10th grade 16/m- and school hasn't even started yet...
Well.. the harrassment has been going on since 4th grade...
Basically all the popular people and the majority of my class think that I'm a fag (like gay).. but I'm not.. I have a girlfriend of 6 months.. and we're really happy together...
I don't even act gay at all.. everyone just thinks I am.. and I think it's because most of my friends are girls.. but I don't understand why that would make me gay- because wouldn't that mean that I like hanging out with girls because they are nice to me??
I just feel like no one cares about me and everyone is making fun of me
Another thing.. I am one of the smartest people in the class (4.0 average).. and I always do good on tests.. do people make fun of me because they are jealous that I get good grades and they don't.. I mean I don't go around bragging about my grades.. people ask me what I got.. and I just tell them in a modest way...
I don't understand why everyone thinks I'm a homo.. when I'm not...
oh.. and on myspace- I put up a picture that was the one everyone does (upside down peace sign with big sunglasses).. so then one of the people who makes fun of me posts a comment about it saying "wow ur a homo" so i posted a comment back saying "i was making fun of myspace.. lol".. so then he posts regular comments saying stuff like "i wasn't kidding about the pic comment" and "everyone thinks you're a fag" and "we hate you"...
So that just made me think of how much my class despises me- and I don't even say anything mean to them.. I try being nice.. but they just aren't.. the only ones who actually care about me are my close friends.. and that's only like 10 people max. outta the 250-300 in my class...
Am I just worried about nothing?
Am I really that much of a loser?
Please don't say "go talk to a counselor" because I tried that in middle school and the counselor was really stupid about it
Please help!
sorry this was so long (link)
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ok first of all they are the fags second you are not a loser and third what yo could do is if you gf is up to it just try making the people who make fun of you jealous show them that you have a gf and that you both love each other alot just like kiss her alot in front of them or something an if they are jealous about you getting good grades and stuff just tell them they could to if they focused and put ther mind to it now i hope i helped i dont get usualy answer alot of questions like this so i'm not sure if it will help but i'm srry if i didnt and if you need a friend to talk to or for advice i could possibly help plus i'm looking for someone to talk to also and myabe you could help so if you want we can talk on aim my sn is everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoomessanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so please help hope i helped and if not i'm srry again
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hi i'm a 15 year old guy and i like this 15 year old girl....we met almost 5 years ago and ive cared for her so much ever since..we are great friends and i would do anything for her just to see her happy and we went out 2 times before about 2 years ago but she broke it off the first time because she thought our friendship would b in jeopordy and i said i understand that and then the second time i broke it off because i had heard she was going to break up with me and go out with sum1 else so i ddi it to save sum of the pain but it still hurt and i dont know what to do because i ve tried to go out with other girls and none of themm compare to her and i tried to tell her how much i care and she said she just didnt see me as more and i want to show her we can be ive tried this summer to get together with her but she claims she's very busy...summers almost over now and i want to see her before school starts but i also want to tell her i ve tried to go out with other girls and none of them compare to her..is that a good thing to do? Thanks in advance for the help (link)
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ok you sound like such a sweet guy and you deserve a great relationship and life now what you could do is to like ask her for advice say there is this girl you like and you guys have gone out a couple times but it just didnt work and that you really like this girl and you cant go out wiht other girls cause none of them compare and then see what she says to it and then just tell her that it's u guys who ur talking about or maybe you could just write her a letter explainging things and just give it to her or drop it off at her house now maybe you could help me cause when it comes to giving myself advice i cant do it for some reason so if there is anyway we could talk it's also about a realationship thing i hope i helped and if not i'm realy srry umm well you could talk to me on yahoo messanger my sc is for_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com or aim everyonesproblem@aim.com and yea please help i would really appreciate and plus your a guy so that would help more
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15/f;; my bf has awful mood swings [16/m]. ive been talkin to him since i got home from school so basically about 5 hours [this is normal haha] anyway he was totally fine and then like in the last hour he got super quiet and was just giving short little answers to questions -- mm hm. no. yeah. k. -- we didnt argue or anything, he jus kinda shifted moods. he does this a good bit. a lot of the time, hes not in a good mood when he comes home from work [he works at least 6 hours a day 5 days a week] so i try to cheer him up then, but he didnt even work today. he knows he can tell me anything and that ill be there for him nmw, but whenever i ask him whats wrong he always says 'nothing', when somethin clearly is botherin him. im a gerenally mellow happy optimistic person and do my best to cheer ppl up, and he says that i make him happy since im like that, but when he gets like that i really have no idea what to say to him. i have like no words of encouragement or anything. do yall kno anything i can say to help cheer him up?? i hate feeling helpless!! thx (link)
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ok well the problem could be that he is tired and needs more sleep you could just tell him to get more sleep since he is working and school and then coming home and talking to you thats is prolly what it is so just tell him to get more sleep instead of talking to him after school ok so i hoped i helped and you can ask me any questions and i'm really sorry if i didnt help
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Okay a couple days ago i told one of my closest boy(as friend)That i liked him and he flipped his lid.He ignored what i said and started talking about the girl he liked Morgan and how she was the best girl.And i sighed off aim and cried.When i came back on nick popped back up he started talking about how he didnt belong anywhere and i was like i thought i already told you that you belong in my heart and sighed off the next day i came on wanting answers for his behavior and he was over joshs house hes dogs crib the exact words he said to me and then he starting acting like a total man and started being a jerk to me and rae then he ended up calling me a fat a** pig and i asked him why he was saying this and he said he wants me to stop liking him.And my mouth dropped i couldnt believe he would say that to me and when he went home he said he was sorry and i told him to be carefull hes like why i was like my brother wants to kill you cause you made me cry and he made a frowney face and said he never ment to make me cry and i told him that i wont stop liking you for what you said to me cause i know that wasnt you.Ive known nick sence pre-k and a friend that he doesnt know sighed on and asked him if he liked me and he said maybe.Then last night he said he was going out with morgan and i was ughhh im still mad i cannot believe her she hated him ultra hate she told him to his face she couldnt stand him.But now she'll go out with him???so im my pro i wrote that i was jelouse of morgan cause she could do what ever she wanted to him and he would still be there but hes blocking me now.I only wanted to stop him gettign hurt and i know he will be then i sighed on my brothers name trying to talk to him and he was like i dont wanna talk to you,you cry to me to much and ive only cried because of him once but now if i say anythign that means anything im crying.
Is it so bad that i want to prevent him from being crushed he really likes her and ill kill her well not liderally but oh my god ill do somthing its not fair that she can do anything and i cant!!1
i highly doubts he likes me but my cuzin thinks its just a flirting thing and im like yeah right-
what do you think??
Katie
I cannot believe men!!! (link)
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awwwww i'm sorry but here is what you could do you could act like you dont like him like dont talk to him for a while till he says something like that he likes you or he doesnt os something if that makes sense or just tell him that you just need to know whether he likes you or not cause you shouldnt waste your life on one guy unless you know he is the right guytrust me if you do the not talking to him thing then he will soon just tell you whether he does or also you could make him jealous like when you talk say you like some other guy and or just start talking about some other guy and when and if he trys to talk about morgan just interupt him and start talking about something else or another guy just act like you dont care about morgan at all hope i helped i was in a situation like this and the not talking thing and the talking abotu another guys works now i'm sorry if i didnt help but maybe you could help me if you would cause i'm usualy good at giving other people advice but when it comes to me it just doesnt work so umm yea is there anyway i can email you or talk to you like on aim or something aim would be easier but email is ok too ummm ok well my aim is everyonesproblem@aim.comso yea ok please hlp me thank sory if i didnt help
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13/f
ughh i can never sleep! it's because of my summer sleep schedual, so i'm trying to go to sleep every night a half hour earlier because school starts next week, but it doesn't make a difference. like, last night i watched tv til 1, read til 2(because i still wasnt tired,) and ended up falling asleep around 3. maybe after. nothing makes me tired, i even tried counting backwards from 100 like, 4 times. i told my mom and she was like well go to bed eariler, so i told her that doesnt work and she said to read, and i told her that doesn't work either, so she just like, walked away she doesnt listen to me. everr. so are there any ways that i can get tired? i want to be asleep for school by 11/11.30 pleasseee hellpp ? (link)
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ok well what you could try doing is doing something active during the day like if ou have a bike go ride it for a while or go running or for a walk or something or it's not really healthy but i do it to help me sleep is try staying up all night and the next day then that night you should be tired if that makes sense hope i helped i have the same problem right now and that usualy helps and sorry if i didnt help
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i just got diagnosed with Attention Deficit Disorder. can somebody give me a way to cope with the kids that make fun of me in class when i cant answer a question or pick up where we left of reading?! i just wanna punch them, but i know i would get suspened. all my friends abandoned me so i dont no who to go to for advice. thanks, i rate high (link)
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i'm sorry they treat you like that but what i would do is to just ignore them act like you dont care like when they say something just keep doing what you doing at that moment annd as for the friends they obviously arnt your real friends if they just abandoned you i mean you have nothing to be ashamed of having ADD is not your fault you didnt ask for it so dont feel bad about it if people at your school treat you like that then you must be better then them not sinking down to there level i mean if you say somenthing back to them thats mena it's not sinking down to there level cause they are making fun of you for something you cant help but if you make fun of them for something they can change or help then it's not sinking down to ther level so ok yea if i was any help at all please ask me if you have anymore questions and maybe tell others about me and if i didnt help i'm sorry but you will get through it i know it
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13/f
www.myspace.com/xshawnax3mariex
^ okay this is me.
i have blonde hair; a little past my shoulders and i want a new look for school.
which way shouuld i go and what should i do with it ?
THANKS!
p.s im getting it done sunday;]
oh and does anyone no anything bout extentions?
like how much? where i can get them?
THANKS!!
i rate high to ALL answers (link)
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honestly i think it would look really cute darker like brunett or maybe even an auborn color then but i dont really hav any advice on how to style it or cut it srry hope i helped
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Theres this guy, and we like eachother ALOT. The thing is he moved. He calls me every night and we talk for hours. We still like eachother alot.. but he lives nowhere near me. I may not see him until next summer. I'm starting my first year of high school. As much as I like him I know there's going to be other guys. It's going to be so awkward to still talk to him when I'm dating other people.. how would I even tell him that? How do I bring a conversation like that up? What am I supposed to do. He's not in the same situation as me ebcuase he's going to a private school where he ives. There's not alot of kids, and he doens't like any of them. What's going to happen to my phone calls with him, what happens when he visits... I don't know where to even start with this.. Help? (link)
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ok first do you love this guy is he worth the wait??? figure that out first then if you do just when you are talkin to him you can bring up the subject by sayin like i dont like not seeing you as much anymore or something like that and ask what he thinks about your relationship and all then see what he says then ask him about that like say well since we cant see each other can we see other people for now then when he comes out or back you guys can get back together if you want or something ok so i'm sorry if i wasnt any help but if i was then w/e rate me please thanks
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14/f
i want to try something new with my boyfriend and like suprise him. i wanna do something like sexy and playful as a special "present" for him. im not creative and dont really know what to do oter than like a strip dance. any ideas? (link)
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well you could give him a blowjob or you could let him fingeer you and then when you do dress really sexy he will prolly like that so yea what guy wouldnt right hope i helped if not sorry please rate me thanks
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im getting kind of bored of listening to the same songs on my computer, so i need to find new music. i listen to basically everything except country [i just dont prefer it] i like listening to hellogoodbye, evanescence, the academy is, the postal service, basically rock is what i like the most. could anyone recommend some bands or songs i should download?
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i can definately help anyway ummm theres alot but i'll only name a few atryu,aiden, the suicide pact,a heartwell ending, all time low, the used, system of a down,underoath, divide the day,thrice, kill hannah,no sense,kill your ex,thursday, emery,deathcab for cutie,anti flag, my unsaid everything,billy talent, the red jumpsuit apraratus or however u spell it,HIM, bury my heart, trapt,30 seconds to mars, cute is what we aim for,escape the fate,lost prophets,paramore, disturbed, slipknot, flyleaf, AFI yea ok well thats all i can think of right now but there alot but if u go on myspace and go to music then scroll down some and there is a list of a bunch of kinds of music then go to rock or wichever kind you want if i was any help at all please tell others about me and if you have any other questions i can help thanx
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I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 months now and we are both virgins, and today we were making out and things were getting a little "hot and heavy" so to speak and he told me that the wants to lose his virginity to me. I was a little shocked and didn't know what to say in return, so I said something stupid like "Oh? Really?" and he said "Yes, because I love you and I want to experience everything with you" He is the only boy I've done anything with other then french kissing, and I know that I'm not ready to have sex right now. But I'm afraid I might have hurt his feelings when I didn't say anything back to him when he told me. I guess I was afraid that if I told him I wanted to lose my virginity to him [which I do....someday] he would want to have sex right then and there. What should I do? Any advice at all would be wonderful.
Thank you (link)
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Ok all you have to do is talk to him if he really loves you he will understand and will wait now when you talk to him just tell him the truth on the reasonyou didnt really answer back tell him you were just afraid now if he doesnt understand then i dont know what to tell you cause he should if he really does love you if i have been any help to you at all please tell others about me and if you ever have anymore questions i can answer them goodluck
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ok. my old buddy list has all my friends and there are like 200 so i dont want to go one by one. i just got a new sn and i want to have all the buddies on the new one. i have aim triton so it wont let me. please explain to me step by step how to get the buddies on not one by one. thanks so much. (link)
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well you could just tell everyone on your buddy list that you got a new screename then have them add your new sn then when they add you it will ask you if you want to add them so yea if i was any help to you please tell others of me and i'm sorry if i wasnt any help
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Hey i am 13/f and i am pregnant my baby is due in a week. No im not a slut or anything i would have kept my virginity until i was married but i was raped by my older sisters ex boyfriend. And I dont believe in abortion... my family is 100% supportive of this pregnancy and any decision i make. I just dont know if i wanna give him or her up for adoption. I really love the baby and i want whats best and i know that would to be with me because we have a good family and we have enough money to support the baby but i dont know if i will see the baby's dad in him or her and if it will scar me... I know its not the baby's fault. But anyway I could use support oh and baby names could help too! idk if its a boy or girl but i like names like nevaeh (nuh vey uh its heaven spelled backwards) and savannah and jayden, cayden, and skyler... anything else???
please help!!! (link)
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ok well if you arnt sure whether to keep the baby or not what you could do is keep it and have your family help out to raise it for now now thats all i have for advice for you sorry if i'm not any help at all but what i mean is to have your family help raise it for now then when you get out of high school or college then you could go live out on your own with te baby well it prolly wont be a baby anymore but anyway if i am any help to you please tell others of me and if you ever have anymore questions please ask me cause i can relate to alot of things i am 13 too so yea ok good luck with the baby i mean so you can focus on school you would still handle the baby but your family help like if your doing school work
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