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not sure what to do
hi i'm a 15 year old guy and i like this 15 year old girl....we met almost 5 years ago and ive cared for her so much ever since..we are great friends and i would do anything for her just to see her happy and we went out 2 times before about 2 years ago but she broke it off the first time because she thought our friendship would b in jeopordy and i said i understand that and then the second time i broke it off because i had heard she was going to break up with me and go out with sum1 else so i ddi it to save sum of the pain but it still hurt and i dont know what to do because i ve tried to go out with other girls and none of themm compare to her and i tried to tell her how much i care and she said she just didnt see me as more and i want to show her we can be ive tried this summer to get together with her but she claims she's very busy...summers almost over now and i want to see her before school starts but i also want to tell her i ve tried to go out with other girls and none of them compare to her..is that a good thing to do? Thanks in advance for the help
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ok you sound like such a sweet guy and you deserve a great relationship and life now what you could do is to like ask her for advice say there is this girl you like and you guys have gone out a couple times but it just didnt work and that you really like this girl and you cant go out wiht other girls cause none of them compare and then see what she says to it and then just tell her that it's u guys who ur talking about or maybe you could just write her a letter explainging things and just give it to her or drop it off at her house now maybe you could help me cause when it comes to giving myself advice i cant do it for some reason so if there is anyway we could talk it's also about a realationship thing i hope i helped and if not i'm realy srry umm well you could talk to me on yahoo messanger my sc is for_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com or aim everyonesproblem@aim.com and yea please help i would really appreciate and plus your a guy so that would help more
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Hey.
Well you could try being just really nice and sweet to her. But don't overdo it. She knows she has you as a friend, so you can talk to her and spill your heart out to her, or just give her subtle hints.
Be there for her if she feels depressed, just be an all around good guy, maybe she will find that she has the same feelings for you when she knows that you can treat her so well.
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Hey-
I've kinda been in this situation before.. liking my best girl friend-
Telling her how you feel about her is the only way that you'll feel any better...
If you've liked her and she just wanted to be friends- then you need to try to lay off of her.. BUT- I know how difficult that is.. so...
Just try to give her some space for awhile.. this is the best way to avoid any further drama between you and her...
I know you probably don't want to be away from her.. but a couple weeks will straighten everything out..
This is how my friend and I dealt with it.. and she was ready to talk to me again in a couple weeks...
You've got to try to get your mind off of your friend because thinking about her will cause more pain.. and trust me- its not very fun...
Hope I helped!
Let me know how it goes!
--Jack
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