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will she think im a stalker?
im 14/ m okay it all started at the beginning of the summer, there was this girl i had a crush on(a big time crush) so i decided to tell her and well i got rejected bt thats not the problem, after a little while i got over her but now im back in school ive started to get feelings for her again and i think that if i tell her sheel think im a stalker, what do i do>? help!
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Well, if you really like this girl. Just go up to her when you see her (Do not look and find her because then she will think you are a stalker) and say
"You rejected me earlier, and I just want to tell you that I still like you." Also tell her all the things that are good about her like she's pretty and stuff. She'll like that and you'll feel so much better!
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ok well ok first of all telling anyone you like them isnt that easy and by telling her that i admirer you cause i'm a very shy person so yea anyways if you tell her 2 times that not at all being a stalker but i would when you talk to her listen to what she has to say let her know your interested in what she has to say and when you see her dont always be the first person to say hi or het let her do that sometimes and if she doesnt then you say hi but give her the chance to say it sometimes just so if she does you know she does like you at least as a friend and stil wants to talk to you then later in the year go ahead and tell her again but dont get your hopes up cause she may say no again and if she does it's her loss cause i'm sure your a really nice guy anyways i'm looking for some more guy friends or some friends in general so if you would like we can talk on aim everyonesproblem@aim.com or yahoo messanger For_ever_ur_problem@yahoo.com so ye i hope i helped if not i'm terribly sorry umm yea ok thanx
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Telling a girl that you like her twice is nowhere near being a stalker. A stalker is whenever you like, follow her around, watch her all the time, etc. Yeah, that's kind of stalkerish, so heh, yeah, don't do that. But there's nothing wrong with trying and becoming her friend! Just be real friendly and nice to her and ask her how her summer was and what she did and if she went on vacation, etc. Or just stare talking to her about the classes, tests, homework, etc. And just let the conversation flow. It'll show you're interested in what she has to say and that you want to know more about HER. Later throughout the school year, if you two become better friends, you can even try telling her you like her again. But telling her again, you might recieve the same reply as before. So, for now, just stick to being friends and maybe later in the year see if there's anything else in store for you two. I hope I helped. <3
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Telling a girl you like her twice, doesn't make you a stalker. Trust me. Stalking implys much more. So don't worry about that part :].
But, I mean if she doesn't like you, she doesn't like you. And thats not your fault.
You can be nice to her && be her friend, you can even tell her you still like her again, but theres a big chance she say the same thing she said the first time. I understand when you really like someone, && they just dont like you back. And it hurts more && more everytime.
If you want to get over her, the best thing is to stay away form her. Say, if your dieting && you see your favorite food everyday (which cuases you to think about it), how long do you think it will be intil you give in && eat it?(Not saying she's food or anything, but that was the only metaphor I could think of, so bear w/me)
Hope I helped.
Sara :)
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If she thinks you're a stalker... forget about her! Move on with you're life. There's somebody out there for everybody. If she is rejecting you, then you guys aren't good for each other. However... she might grow to like you. So what I say is keep your feelings to yourself and maybe instead of telling her you have feelings for her, just become friends with her. Then when you become friends, she might grow to really like you.
I hope I helped!
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Hon,, she said no. Leave it at a friendship level. I mean [I] think that guys who drool over girls are sweet and cute..but if it turns to stalking...it's a bye bye time.
And what will you tell her? That you like her? That you wanna go out with her? Just asking her out or saying tht you like her is fine...
But if you stare, follow, sit behind her 24/7, try to touch her, walk behind her back and forth, beg people around her to switch seats with you, etc. That's gonna scare her off, make her think you're an obscure person, and just drive her off (yes, that happened to me so don't doubt that.)
So just talk to her, be nice, friendly, etc.
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