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Okay a couple days ago i told one of my closest boy(as friend)That i liked him and he flipped his lid.He ignored what i said and started talking about the girl he liked Morgan and how she was the best girl.And i sighed off aim and cried.When i came back on nick popped back up he started talking about how he didnt belong anywhere and i was like i thought i already told you that you belong in my heart and sighed off the next day i came on wanting answers for his behavior and he was over joshs house hes dogs crib the exact words he said to me and then he starting acting like a total man and started being a jerk to me and rae then he ended up calling me a fat a** pig and i asked him why he was saying this and he said he wants me to stop liking him.And my mouth dropped i couldnt believe he would say that to me and when he went home he said he was sorry and i told him to be carefull hes like why i was like my brother wants to kill you cause you made me cry and he made a frowney face and said he never ment to make me cry and i told him that i wont stop liking you for what you said to me cause i know that wasnt you.Ive known nick sence pre-k and a friend that he doesnt know sighed on and asked him if he liked me and he said maybe.Then last night he said he was going out with morgan and i was ughhh im still mad i cannot believe her she hated him ultra hate she told him to his face she couldnt stand him.But now she'll go out with him???so im my pro i wrote that i was jelouse of morgan cause she could do what ever she wanted to him and he would still be there but hes blocking me now.I only wanted to stop him gettign hurt and i know he will be then i sighed on my brothers name trying to talk to him and he was like i dont wanna talk to you,you cry to me to much and ive only cried because of him once but now if i say anythign that means anything im crying.
Is it so bad that i want to prevent him from being crushed he really likes her and ill kill her well not liderally but oh my god ill do somthing its not fair that she can do anything and i cant!!1
i highly doubts he likes me but my cuzin thinks its just a flirting thing and im like yeah right-
what do you think??
Katie
I cannot believe men!!!
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ok really you desurvie better, i know that might not change your mind, but trust me if hes going to act like a total ass infront of his friends to you, then hes not worth it! ok this has happened to me soooo many times ughh alright if you don`t get over this guy fast, u`ll just get even more hurt. just ignore him for a while, when she breaks his heart, he`ll see that he missed out on a great girl like you. "Morgan" sounds like a total two faced bitch! and soon she`ll meet the guy that will dump her ass or that she likes so much and he wont like her.
relax this stuff happens all the time!
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awwwww i'm sorry but here is what you could do you could act like you dont like him like dont talk to him for a while till he says something like that he likes you or he doesnt os something if that makes sense or just tell him that you just need to know whether he likes you or not cause you shouldnt waste your life on one guy unless you know he is the right guytrust me if you do the not talking to him thing then he will soon just tell you whether he does or also you could make him jealous like when you talk say you like some other guy and or just start talking about some other guy and when and if he trys to talk about morgan just interupt him and start talking about something else or another guy just act like you dont care about morgan at all hope i helped i was in a situation like this and the not talking thing and the talking abotu another guys works now i'm sorry if i didnt help but maybe you could help me if you would cause i'm usualy good at giving other people advice but when it comes to me it just doesnt work so umm yea is there anyway i can email you or talk to you like on aim or something aim would be easier but email is ok too ummm ok well my aim is everyonesproblem@aim.comso yea ok please hlp me thank sory if i didnt help
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Sweetheart! I'm sorry to say, but it seems like he only wants to be your friend. I'm not quite sure who did a lot of the talking on AIM or if it was just a side of him you didn't know, but he is so not worth it babe! If he's calling you a fat pig and making you cry, that is just one boy that should not come across yor mind. Ever. Life is way too short to be crying over a dumb boy who tells you hurtful things like that. Don't worry about it. Things will work out on their own.
♥ lena
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I'm sorry but it sounds like he likes you as a friend and nothing more.
When one part of a friendship cares more than the other does, it becomes a real problem for the one who doesn't feel the same.
I think you need to back off and just be his friend. If you can't do that then he is going to stop hanging out with you. He thought he could talk to you as a friend about a girl he liked and you turned possessive. That is not a good thing for him. I don't think he is trying to hurt you, he just doesn't feel the same.
Its not a good idea to believe it is "just a flirting thing", you will push him even further away. :)
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it sounds to me like he has a little growing up to do in some ways, hes totally over reacted in a way that a close friend shouldnt, he should have spared your feelings and had a heart to heart chat instead of acting like twat basically, but some guys freak out i know, sumtimes when sum1 tells you that they like you and they dont like you back they start to feel they cant be themself around you anymore in case the other person takes it the wrong way and starts to see hope that isnt there. i can understand that you are proective over your friend and his heart, im right there with ya, sumtimes you just have to stand back and let them make their own mistakes and hopefully they will learn from it, the other thing you have to consider is where your feeling on this comes from, is it becuase you like him that way or is it becasue you genuinely feel that she will break his heart, its a friends job to let their mates know when they are making mistakes but to also let them make their own decisions, and be there for them as the best friend you can be and maybe even have to help pick up the pieces, ive had to do the same for my best female friend, who as it happens i have feelings for, i know how you feel about the longing, in the end he just has to realise how much your friendship means to him and hopefully he can rise above this being an idiot, give him time to calm down after what uve told him, and then hopefully in time he will realise how much your frindship meant, and at least you guys can be friends again if not more, hope this helps in sum way :)
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