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Dying to have a bf..
Hello... I'm a 19 year old girl.. I'm studying in a university and taking up tourism.. I have a problem and that is, im dying to have a bf.. Most of my friends already have and i am so jealous. I'm not ugly or something, but i don't know why guys don't notice me.. I mean maybe they notice me too but guys that i like don't make a move. There are guys who like me but they're all not my type. Whenever i'm walking down the street, my friends notice that guys stare at me because not being arrogant, i can say that i'm not ugly and i do have nice shape.. So i'm curious why no guys my type ask me out? I had these 2 guy friends who i thought liked me too, though they're not my type, i asked them out but no ones like. They said that they only like me as a friend. What's wrong with me? That's why i'm thinking sometimes that there's something wrong with me that i don't know. My friends say that i'm attractive enough and that they're jealous because i do have nice body but why on earth no guys my type want to go out with me? Please help.. Thank you in advance..
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Some guys might find you too intimidating as in.. they don't have enough confidence to approach you. & those who know you, just see you as a friend under some circumstances. Don't ever think anything is wrong with you. I'm sure you're a wonderful girl [with the nice body, like you said], you just need to be the one who makes the moves. Next time you notice someone staring at you, catch them off guard by approaching them. Be the one to initiate the conversations & make the moves. Believe me, guys love confidence & when they see that, they'll be more attracted. :)
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First off, your body and looks should not be the reason why a guy should go out with you. Why would you want to be with somebody that likes you for what you look like? I trust that would not last very long anyways.
Your problem might be that you are looking for one. Chances are that when you look for love, you will find and go through a lot more before you really find it. So don't set yourself out to get a boyfriend, no matter how jealous you get.
There's nothing wrong with liking you as a friend. That is how it should be before anything does happen. Just become better friends with guys you know and ones you like and go from there. Really, there is no secret or magic to it. Just become really good and close friends and things will happen on their own. Hope that helped and good luck.
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get out here don't be picky about guys because if they find out you have a type there not willing to go ask you out..just get out there and make a move on them speak your mind be centre of attention don't worry someone is out there for you you just have to look start flirting and you will get a bf a sooon as you get out there and show them what your made of don't be shy!
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Ask someone out yourself.
You shouldn't have to wait for people.
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I think its all in your head. I am also 19 and I just began my first ever relationship in Feb. We are still together and love each other very much. I too felt as though I was pretty but no one would notice me. I had several guys not my type ask me out. I simply said no and waited until I found my Mr. Right. And guess what? He was definatly worth waiting for. Dont waste your time looking for the perfect man, go have fun with your friends and wait for Him to come to you.
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i had this problem too before my current boyfriend. i had guy friends but was never asked out, my friends that were girls said they were jealous of my looks sometimes, but i could never get a boyfriend. honestly, i met my boyfriend online, on espinthebottle.com. i wasnt expecting it, i only went on the site because i was bored one day, but he IMed me and we hit it off. once we met, he thought that i was kidding that i didnt have a boyfriend, but i wasnt. he was even more suprised when i said yes when he asked me out. i had spectators before my boyfriend, like the honkers and random guys who'd whistle at me but never a boyfriend.
nothing is wrong with you but guys might either think that you're out of his league or that you're probably taken. and guys you're type, i dont know what your type is, but maybe you need to expand hat your ideal type is if it is too detailed. and maybe you're looking in the wrong places for guys your type. if you like athletic guys, go to a gym so scope for guys.
well, hope i helped any
X Mecha Becca X
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