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My Boyfriend and I...
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 months now and we are both virgins, and today we were making out and things were getting a little "hot and heavy" so to speak and he told me that the wants to lose his virginity to me. I was a little shocked and didn't know what to say in return, so I said something stupid like "Oh? Really?" and he said "Yes, because I love you and I want to experience everything with you" He is the only boy I've done anything with other then french kissing, and I know that I'm not ready to have sex right now. But I'm afraid I might have hurt his feelings when I didn't say anything back to him when he told me. I guess I was afraid that if I told him I wanted to lose my virginity to him [which I do....someday] he would want to have sex right then and there. What should I do? Any advice at all would be wonderful.
Thank you
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Ok all you have to do is talk to him if he really loves you he will understand and will wait now when you talk to him just tell him the truth on the reasonyou didnt really answer back tell him you were just afraid now if he doesnt understand then i dont know what to tell you cause he should if he really does love you if i have been any help to you at all please tell others about me and if you ever have anymore questions i can answer them goodluck
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You need to sit down and have a talk xx you must tell him that you do want to lose your virginity to him but only when your ready and you wiill let him know and if he does truly love you he will understand , its a big commitment in a relationship and you should make sure our 100% ready to go thrhough with it , if u get pressure d into it then you will regret it x i hope ive helped xx
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One day when you aren't doing anything sexual, just casually bring it to his attention. Tell him you are glad that he feels that way about you and you feel that way also, you just don't think you are ready to go all the way quite yet. Tell him how much you love him and care for him, and than if one day you guys are still going good, which you hope you will be, you would be more than happy to lose your virginity to him also. You won't hurt is feelings (maybe is ego there for a second) but keep in mind it was probably hard to admit that to you, so break it down to him slowly.
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Tell him how you feel. Don't be afraid to hurt his feelings. Tell him that you aren't ready to have sex yet, but that when the time is right, that you would like to share it with him too. Don't do anything you don't feel comfortable doing, you'll only regret it later. Make sure you are ready and educated enough to make your own desicions. Find out about birth control and discuss with him the posibility of getting pregnant. If you are not comfortable talking to him about intimate things, then honestly, you aren't ready to have sex with him. Think about all the things that come with having sex, like the consequences it can bring. What if you got pregnant or if your parents found out? Also, think about the good things that come with it. It is special and should be shared with someone you're in love with. Your first time shouldn't be something you regret. Once you've thought about all the possibilities and decided to have sex, be open about it and have fun. Talk about it with him and read about it online. When you first start out having sex it can be very confusing and complicated and it can really change things between people. The younger you are, the more complicated it becomes because you experience all these emotions which can be confusing. And how would you feel if something happened between you and your boyfriend and you two broke up? What if he cheated on you? I know that is something that you don't want to think about, but it happens. Also, how would you feel if in 3 or 4 years you found someone who you loved even more than the guy you're with now and you wanted to experience the same thing with him? Would you regret your first time being with the guy you're with now? There's just so much to think about and many responsibilities that come with having sex. Just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel! I hope I helped.
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The best thing to do is to trust you're heart. I know that sex is tempting, but it is not just something you want to do for the heck of it. If he is the right guy, he will wait for you to be ready. If you have sex with him soon please make it bc you want to and not because you are afraid of hurting his feelings.
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Just go and have a blast with him- lose your fuckin viginity to him ..
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losing your virginity is NOT the big deal that people make it out to be.. i mean.. i have sex all the time.. even with my cousin.. and she's great
I hoped i helped, hun
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Just be honest. Talk to him about what he said and tell him that you feel the same way but you're just not ready yet. You want to be sure that it's the right time and the longer you wait the more you know you can trust him about the whole situation.
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just tell him the truth, if he really loved you he would understand that you want to lose it to him, but not now.
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Be open and honest.Tell him that you would like to lose it to him but when youre ready.Tell him to please respect your opinion and that you dont want to rush so you dont end up regreting anything.Even if his feelings will get hurt,its better for his feelings to be hurt for a while than you regreting something for a lifetime.
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