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Last Update: August 25, 2006
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I really like this girl but am to afrain to ask her out or talk to her from fear of rejection. I really like her and want a relationship but i dunno what to do. Any advice? (link)
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Just talk to her, she may like you so take a chance and go with the follow!
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I'm going into 9th and Kevin is going into 10th. He and I used to date last summer[I was going into 8th grade and Kevin into 9th grade] but we decided to break it off [since we won't be able to see each other[he would be in high school and I would be in middle] and my mom is overprotective like woah].
Now that I'm gonna be going into high school and I'd probably see Kevin around, he's been trying to get together with me--a lot--over the summer. [Wanting to come over my house, hang out with him at his, join this club that he's in, come to his work, go to the movies, etc.]And he just IMed me from 10 30 -11 30 at night while I was away 288 times for an hour ._0 And me and his/my friends thinks he wants to go out with me again.
The questions is, should I go out with him or not. I mean he's nice, funny, athletic, and smart. But he's also sometimes perverted like woah(I know that dudes being perverted is normal but him, it's like above normal), disgusting, and he and his friends do this whole thing where they do other people's homework and projects for money =/.
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it matters if you still like him. i say go ahead, nd for the money thing all i could say at least his not selling his body, only his brains
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Ok well, here is the deal... I started talking to this girl online, we talked every day, and night, we eventually became liking eachother, so after a few weeks of joking around, I decided to ask if it could be 'for real' as a relationship, She is 14, and I am 24. I know it's a bit of a age different, and no, I am not a pedophile, I never usually like people younger than me, just it's.. She acts more mature and it's really easy to talk to her, and listen to her. We have really great conversations, but we never met, but then one day, we decided to meet, and she brought a few friends with her... the whole time she avoided me, yeah I was shy also, but I would've talked to her if she wasn't avoiding me, cause I could tell she didn't want to be there with me, I mean, she did, but she didn't... and I know she's had past relationship problems, but I guess, maybe I was just another problem in a relationship, and I really fell in love with her, before we even met and she means the world to me, I just don't know what to think, she only lets me talk to her, if I ask her on this, but she speaks as if she don't know me, and I don't know what to think, any advice? P.S. She talks to me still, but don't tell me her true feelings, and acts like nothing happened, but she don't talk as much or act the same. (link)
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i kno this may sound really REALLY rude. but i think you should stop talking to her, before some1 finds out about this, nd u end up in jail.
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how can i make sure that 1st time i makeout with my boyfriend is as perfect as it can be? (link)
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the more planin you do. theres a least chance of it happenin that way. it would happen the way it should. no planing xoxo good luck
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I've been dating my boyfriend for almost 6 months now and we are both virgins, and today we were making out and things were getting a little "hot and heavy" so to speak and he told me that the wants to lose his virginity to me. I was a little shocked and didn't know what to say in return, so I said something stupid like "Oh? Really?" and he said "Yes, because I love you and I want to experience everything with you" He is the only boy I've done anything with other then french kissing, and I know that I'm not ready to have sex right now. But I'm afraid I might have hurt his feelings when I didn't say anything back to him when he told me. I guess I was afraid that if I told him I wanted to lose my virginity to him [which I do....someday] he would want to have sex right then and there. What should I do? Any advice at all would be wonderful.
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just tell him the truth, if he really loved you he would understand that you want to lose it to him, but not now.
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ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such? (link)
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im not telling you , that u should or you shouldnt im not your mother. but whatever makes you feel comfortable.
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i tryed out for company at my studio which is a BIG deal!! and i didnt make it. i am okay with that but my problem is that all my friends made it. thats mean i wont be in any of there classes and i wont get to really see them(most go to differnet schools and/or are in differnet grades.) and next year for dance i am afraid that i will be put in a class with people i dont know or with people that are younger than me. and that would be really weird. also want if i get put into a class and that class doesnt get picked for opening and finale(another big deal.) so really im wondering wat the chances are of this and if i should be more woried than i am right now. and also if i should disscuse this with my teachers?(dance teachers that is.) thanks anyways. (link)
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i dance too!. lol but anyway. its alrite that you didnt make company. When you go to pick your classes ask if you could be in a class with people your agee then younger kids and ask if its beginner or wuteva.So you could meet new people and learn new stuff for your age
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16/f--Okay,well i like this guy. hes a year older than me. And i told him that I liked him, and he told me that he felt the same way about me. We have been talking a lot and flirting and he said that one day he is going to take me somewhere where you can see the stars clearly and just lay there staring at them. But, I dont understand why we arent going out. We both really really like eachother and we flirt like crazy. Everyone always think that we are going out and when they ask me, im always like im not and they are all like are you sure? and im like yah. So what should i do to tell him that i wanna go out with him??!
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Just go out and tell him you want a relationship and in a couple of days and he doesnt do anything, hust go for it yourself and ask him! =]
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okay. i am 5'8". do you think that is too tall for some guys. the guys that are about my height. i mean. i would prefer a taller guy. but it doesnt really matter. are taller girls a turn off for guys? (link)
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jus date sumone muchh taller than you =]
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okayy this guy i know wants to have sex with me. i don't care if we do or not ... but i'm just scared that i would get pregnant. like REALLY scared ... that's my biggest fear.
i'm a virgin & i don't care who i lose it to ... whether it's my husband or just some hot guy ... i'm not in a hurry to lose it but i would definately like to.
this guy is veryy experienced so i'm sure he knows what he's doing with the condom & everything but i don't know ... i think i'd feel safer with a guy i actually loved.
has anyone ever gotten pregnant from a condom breaking when you used it correctly? (link)
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Just make sure he uses more than one condom jus in case if the first one breaks, and for beccoming pregnant. Birth control. if you dont want to tell your mom about birth control and stuff just ask your mom if you two can go to the doctor because some people use birth control for their periods and you could make that as a reason for your mom to get it for you. or use pads.
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i'm usually really shy around guys and im going into my first year of high school.how can i start conversations with guys. I dont know what to say or talk about. how do i strike up a conversation. how do i know if they will want to talk back? i really could use some tips. please help (link)
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When you plan topics to say, they never happen or come out the way you wanted them to, so all you have to do is say hey wats up and just go with the flow.
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O.K. i don't want to sound desperate b/c i'm NOT!! i'm "concerned" about my `invisible` love life. i'm 13yrs.old, a female, and going to highschool.
i haven't gotten my 1st kiss, nvr had a b.f., and will prolly be single for the rest of my life.this is kind of weird but, i want to know why boys aren't interested in me? i mean you might not know why but,idk, i NEED som adventure in my life, and i guess i don't need a b.f. but, a 1st kiss wouldn't hurt ,right???
well i dk know if this was a question but, can anyone PLEASE help me!!!!!=(
*ANY 1 who answers this please DON'T say you're pretty on the inside or "one day it'll happen" or any other thing like that!!! i want the REAL DEAL
(don't be to harsh please, just HELPP ME )
thanxxxxxxx a lottta hearts ♥ (link)
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Its totally fine to be 13 and not have your first kiss or boyfriend. I had a couple of "REAL" boyfriends but never any kisses yet. I guess i had my first kiss but i dont really count it, coz i didnt like the person. But maybe you didnt get any of it yet is because They havent found you yet. Your going into high school so there would be ALOT of guys looking for a relationship!
xoxo
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i go to day camp and there's this kid named zach. and i think i really like him. like, i keep thinking about him and how nice he is and how cool he is. i even had a dream about him, and this is sorta creeping me out because i'm 15 and he's as old as my 13 YEAR OLD SISTER. now, i know it's not normal for a 15 year old to like a younger guy, i mean at this age, usually 15 year old girls want to go out with 17 year olds, not 13 year olds! i mean when i was 13 i couldn't even imagine dating an 11-year old. another thing: i don't really find this kid that cute or anything (okay, yes i do. he's cute. but it's just creeping me out that i like him.) everything he does is cute..even weird stuff. so yeah. it's really awkward to like him. i talk to him a lot and we like do this weird thing, where we'll be far away and he'll stare at me and i'll stare at him, and we'll just be sitting there staring at eachother for like a few minutes and then our friends are like...uhh, are you okay?? so i'm really like mad at myself -- am i being perverted for liking this kid or something?? please help! sorry so long. (link)
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Your not a pervert! DEFF. NOT!! Its totally fine to like someone younger than you, coz theyre are many people with different ages, and age should only be a number between two people.
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Ok i have a huge problem, Me and my boyfriend have been dateing for almost 6 months, but a big thing that always makes us fight is me being jealous. I mean he has alot of friends that are girls and when he talks to them and stuff i get jealous. I dont want an answer saying this is normal because i know this already, But i just want to be able to be like yah im cool i dont care, because i dont want him to feel like im trying to push him away from his friends. (link)
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If your boyfriend really cared and loves you. Let him talk to all his girls who are friends because at the end of the day you should be the only girl on his mind.
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Last night I found out that my close friend slept over my boyfriends house. He didn't tell me that she was going to even though I was with him all day. That really anonyed me because he doesn't even want me to come to his dad house (it's a 30 minute drive from here & he says he hates it there) The girl is one of my close friends, but I know her well and she tends to almost act like they're going out by doing little things like touching his arm and getting really close to him (and she has a boyfriend) I can flat out say I trust him but I don't trust her especially because she lets other guys do stuff to her and lies to her boyfriend all the time. Yes, their good friends but why was she sleeping over his house in the first place? It just seems odd. Do I have the right to be mad? I want to get back at him so bad for not telling me .. idk what to do ): (link)
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If I were you, I would bring your boyfriend and your close friend together and ask them question like "Why did she stay over the night?" and other questions. You have a right to be mad, your best friend and your boyfriend should be close but not that close that she spent the night over.You shouldnt get back but like out of random ask like "So i heard (your friends name) spent the night". Then he would have to come clean.
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