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Last night I found out that my close friend slept over my boyfriends house. He didn't tell me that she was going to even though I was with him all day. That really anonyed me because he doesn't even want me to come to his dad house (it's a 30 minute drive from here & he says he hates it there) The girl is one of my close friends, but I know her well and she tends to almost act like they're going out by doing little things like touching his arm and getting really close to him (and she has a boyfriend) I can flat out say I trust him but I don't trust her especially because she lets other guys do stuff to her and lies to her boyfriend all the time. Yes, their good friends but why was she sleeping over his house in the first place? It just seems odd. Do I have the right to be mad? I want to get back at him so bad for not telling me .. idk what to do ):
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Don't be mad at him, dont tell her boyfriend. if you trust your boyfriend talk to him and see why he didnt' tell you, don't yell at him or argue just talk to him. with your friend not to be rude or anythhing but she seems as a slut. being with a guy and letting other guys do things to her, and keeping it from her guy. it just does not mix and i think she is trying to mess up a good thing that you have with your guy. i would just watch the friendship you have with her. i would just talk to your boyfrined and see why he didn't tell you. and talk to your friend about how you feel about her touching your man, be nice about it, but be firm. good luck
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If I were you, I would bring your boyfriend and your close friend together and ask them question like "Why did she stay over the night?" and other questions. You have a right to be mad, your best friend and your boyfriend should be close but not that close that she spent the night over.You shouldnt get back but like out of random ask like "So i heard (your friends name) spent the night". Then he would have to come clean.
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My first thought after reading this was OHHH HELLLL NOOO!~ Hell yea girl you have every right to be mad. If I was you, me and that girl would be exchangin' some words-and not nice one's. Then, I'd ask my boyfriend why the hell he's got sum girl spending the night with him? There isn't going to be a good excuse in this case though. I'd let him know if he pulled some shit like that again me & him were done. Girl, keep your eyes open on them, I think there could possibly be something goin' on there. Best Of Luck-your gonna' need it.
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hey, yep you should be mad at him. first let him try to explain himself. also explain to your friend that you dont feel comfortbale with them doing that.
-caitt<3
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Yes, you do have every right to be mad. As his girlfriend, he has a duty to you and telling you that a girl is sleeping over his house is definitely up there. I would tell him that I trust him but I feel uncomfortable with her around him. That's not to say that you don't want them to keep a friendship, but you don't think it should be any friendlier than that. Just tell him you respect that he has friends because in a relationship it's not healthy to be clingy to just one another, but that out of respect he shoudl let you know things like that because if not it, you have every reason to think he is shady for hiding things from you. There's no reason to hide things from one another.
Good Luck.
-Teacup
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Yes you have the right to be mad,
but first ask him why she stayed over night.
And if he cant understand why your angry, tell him that he had ALL day to tell you she was staying over, and you were upset that it wasnt you and stuff. I'd be pretty pissed off too.
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