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hey everyone! im caitt♥ yes, im only 13, but trust me ive been through alot. from parents getting divorced, to bad relationships, to losing friends, to people from my family passing away, to my whole family being on a hitlist. so yeah you can pretty much ask me anything. i usually get a chance to get on this site at least once a day. dont hesitate to ask me questions. send me something in my inbox and your question will be answered the same day! also if you add me as a favorite columnist, i automatically add you because you added me =]. thanks for reading. byee♥
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Hello. I have a Sanyo SCP-3100 Pink Camera Phone. I love it almost more than my boyfriend. I want to get like this clear snap-on "protector" like thing. You know, something o keep it from getting scatched, but I don't want it to look like its a colored case (since my phone is pink)
I'm kinda looking for like a thin-paper like thing. Does anyone know where I can get one online? Thanks! [:
hey, try http://www.ebay.com or http://www.amazon.com they also have some at the mall and you could probably get like a clear see through one. liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
Hey. Have any ideas that wouldn't cost my parents so much money? Those are great ideas, just my parents might get a little angry. Any ideas that are cheaper or cost almost nothing?
hey, oh im sorry i didnt know that you didnt want things that cost little money. well you could all go to the beach. one of you could host a party. you could all buy new clothes then host a little mini fashion show with your friends. you could go downtown and bring like a video camera if you have one and then like record you guys and make like a mini documentary. those are all i have for right now. but since halloween is coming around the corner kinda you guys should host a party for halloween and all be like the same thing. liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
Right. This could be a bit long.
For the last few days/weeks, I have been thinking about having a baby. Me and my boyfriend are very happy and it definatly looks like we will be together for a long time. He has mentioned before bout kids and stuff. but I always said to him that I would but not yet. I am only 17 years old and I have got a 2 year course at collage coming up. also i dont know if he would actually want a kid yet.
but I have been thinking and I would really love to have a kid.
Can someone please help me change my mind because I know I'm to young to have a kid and I probly wouldn't be able to cope. Even though I'm pretty sure my mum would help me out if I did have a child.
Please help me change my mind because I really want a kid but I am only 17.
Any advise would be brilliant.
Thanks
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hey, well i dont its your age that matters. i think its because your going to a 2 year college program and you probably wont be able to take care of your kid. i think you should wait until your done with college then have your kid. liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
Hey, now that school is just around the corner, I've decided that this year has to be awesome. No more going shopping or seeing a movie at the same place every weekend. I want to get out of this stupid suburb at least once or twice a month and actually do something fun. (ex. like go downtown, concerts, ect.) Anyone have any other ideas besides those? Also, going downtown and seeing concerts and whatever can get pricey, so are there other things I can do out of the town or that are super fun that don't cost a lot? Thanks.
hey, well if there is a six flags or another amusement park near you, you can go to one of those with some friends. you guys could have a little "day of beauty" and get facials, manicures, pedicures, get your hair done, get your make-up done, and also get your eyebrows done. liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
Is there such a thing as gay/lesbian dogs?
hey, well theres no real way to tell. dogs just tend to hump any dog thats near them. liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
hey right just wondering what are the tell tale signs that someone might like you when talking to them on msn??
hey, if they hint to you that there single is a major one. also if there fliry towards you. if you need some flirting tips go to http://www.links2love.com liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
at our school we have to do a project on the book we read and im not very good with names and i forgot all the names of the main characters in the book. i only want your advice if you have read the book. it is called double dutch.
these are the people i need:
~the main girl that can't read
~her friend that is always telling the lies
~and the boy who lives home alone cause he doesn't know where his father is
i think the first one i mentioned was delia and i think the second one was destiny but i can't remember i also have the tolliver twins, if you know both of their names that would help too if not just the 3 above thanks and i will need the advice by this friday, the 11
hey, go to http://www.sparknotes.com and type in the name of the book. that will give you all of the information that you need! liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
What are the best excersizes for your inner and outer thighs without equipment of any kind? I'd like to get in the best shape possible before Halloween. Thanks!
hey, do some leg-lifts! sit on either side of your body it doesnt matter which then lift your leg and slowly lift it back down. liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
ok... so im confused... well i've been treated like pure shit when it comes to boyfriends... they all start out amazing but end terribly... i no alot of relationships end badly but this is pretty ridiculous... my last one we were dating for like 5 months... the day he left for vacation he told me he loved me... 9 days later when he got back from mexico he broke up w/ me... he really didnt have a reason... and i havent done anything to make him all of the sudden want to break up.... the only thing he said is he was going into highschool (i already go to the highschool) and it is going to be cross country season (which i thought was a poor excuse becasue i play tennis)... well i know you dont want to read alot.... but seriously i want to talk to some people (ill tell you about myself so maybe you can help me understand y this keeps happening) but basically i really dont understand and im confused becasue i dont know y some guys are like this.. i told myself that they were just stupid and made a mistake... hopfully u can tell me... but before you do i think you need to know about me.... so please respond and ill tell you about me
hey, well next time before you get into a serious relationship make sure the guy is 100% commited. flirt alot and make tons of eye contact. if you want some flirting tips go to http://www.links2love.com its an amazing site! liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
I've been in a committed relationship with my boyfriend for over 3 years now. I suppose to everyone else he's a dog- thats just what I've been told, but it was never the most important thing to me. He has the best personality and he's hilarious. My problem is, I've started fantasizing a lot, and I know its ok to do sometimes, that its normal and all, but I can't stop. I can't stop wishing he had a hot body like some of our friends. When those friends are around, I find myself flirting shamelessly because I'm just overcome with lust! He's said he's going to start working out and that he wants to get fit, be more attractive physically, but he's not very motivated. I want to stop fantasizing- it makes me feel so guilty! I'm starting to pull away from his affection because I can't help but notice his love handles or spare tire or whatever. My body is less than perfect, but its not that bad because I work out and take care of it. Is it wrong of me to feel this way? How do people deal with these feelings???
hey, just think about what you love about your boyfriend. every girl flirts with other guys sometimes [ even when they have boyfriends ]. its okay to do but when it gets too far you need to stop. maybe you and your boyfriend could join a gym together and both get fit. that why you guys can spend time together and then he will be movitvated to go to the gym with you. liked my advice? add me as a favorite columnist!
-caitt♥
Guys, my dog is an inside puppy, hes about 10 weeks old, and we leave him outside sometimes, like when we have to leave, and when he was out there today, he found out how to open one of the ant poison things, AND ate everything in it!!!!
Does anybody know fi thats strong enough to kill him?! PLEASE HELP ME
hey, well i have 4 puppies but three of them are 1 and the other one is 2. but anyways they always eat random stuff, like pencils, ants and such. they have always been fine so i wouldnt worry about it. but if he shows any signs of being sick then bring him to the vet.
-caitt♥
My bf keeps telling me what girls hot, and etc. It lowers myself-esteem. How do I look sexxy, so he looks at me, more then them. How can i plan hard to get, for him to want me more. I just want him to want me still.. we've been together for a year and a half.. so dont go saying breakup. Its not that harsh.
((sorry if you've seen this question twice.. the other one got deleted.. sorry))
hey, well spend a little more time on yourself and getting ready before you see him. maybe add more make-up and get some new clothes and do your hair up cute. also tell him that it lowers your self-esteem. if he loves you enough he will care and fix the problem. if not then its his loss.
-caitt♥
ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such?
hey, well i went to the movies with my boyfriend [ but it was just me and him ] and im 13/f and the most i let him do was finger me. so as long as you dont have sex then i think your okay.
-caitt♥
yesterday i spent the night at my friend savannah's.
we went through her woods to meet my boyfriend @ 2 in the morning..bunch of bugs.
then i used her deoderent this morning..
and i shaved yesterday..
i have a really annoying rash under my underarms and it hurts really really bad..and i dont know what it is so i dont know how to treat it..
any idea?
hey, well maybe it could possibly be razor burn? it could also be the your friend had a disease(sp?) on her deoderent? im not quite sure exactly what it is. show it to a trusted adult and then if they dont know what it is then see a doctor.
-caitt♥
A girl I know, but I'm not really good friends with, is having a pool party. She invited 3 boys, and I don't know any of them. I wouldn't care if they were there if it was just a regular party, and I have a boyfriend, so I'm not worried about any of that dating stuff. What I'm worried about is, that I hate how I look in my bikini. It's the only bathign suit I have, and I don't really want guys to see me in it. Especially when half the girls at the party, are anorexic bitches. I think it'd be rude if I didn't go, and I don't know what to do.
hey, well you should buy a different bathing suit that you feel more comfortable in. like instead of a bikini try a tankini. explain to your mom that you dont feel comfortable in your bikini and want a new one.
-caitt♥
What is a good way to get rid of the pain when u get your braces tightend. Help. Im in pain
hey, just take some pain killers like tylenol.
-caitt♥
You don't have to answer all them.
1. Whats a frat house? and Sorority house? (spelling?) What do they do? How do you get into them?
2. I'm throwing a party, but i needa know what some good songs are. So give me a good list. Please.
3. My bf keeps telling me what girls hot, and etc. It lowers myself-esteem. How do I look sexxy, so he looks at me, more then them.
4. How can i plan hard to get, for him to want me more.
Thanks
hey, well ill answer numbers 2, 3 and 4. chris brown, rihanna, and ciara have really good songs that get the party started. you should also get like the cha cha slide and cotton eyed joe for some fun. to look sexy for your boyfriend just take some more time on your hair and make-up and just do a little more for your apperance. to play hard to get basically just talk like this to him "what are you doing tommorow?" he will be like i dont know or w/e and then you be like "your hanging out with me".
-caitt♥
Swim season is coming up meaning that my hair color is going to turn to gross since I died it like a month ago. Does anybody have any tips on how to wash hair color out either gradually or all at once without drying your hair out too much? Thanks.
hey, you dont have to take your color out because of swim season. just use garnier frucitis products for color treated or permed hair.
-caitt♥
i change my braces every 6 weeks what color should i have only 2 colors or 1?
=]
14/f
hey, well i prefer just one color. but it can depend on what you like. if your going to get two make sure there light colors.
-caitt♥
okay so for the past 9 months i have been using dandruff shampoo my dandruff isnt bad but when i scratch my scalp tiny flakes come off and my tiny dandruff is still there after 9 months and ive switched shampoos twice and im not sure whats wrong. I have to scratch my scalp in order for the dandruff to come off but sometimes my head bleeds and its just really annoying me so if anyone has any suggestions tell me.
hey, buy head and shoulders products.
-caitt♥