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should i have let him?
ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such?
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Well,
haha.
I guess it just depends on how far you want to go at this age.
I'm also 14 and i've had sex.
I loved it.
like crazy.
but if you feel like you're not ready,
then you shouldn't do it.
<3
good luck.
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It was all up to you. You weren't ready so you protected yourself. Good Job for knowing that you werent ready.
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I don't think you wanted to go further, anyways. You did kick him while he was trying to undo your belt. So, obviously you just wanted to stick to kissing and nothing more, which is great. When you're ready to go further, you'll know when you're comfortable enough to do so. ♥
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Obviously the kick thing was saying "im not ready".I dont think you should have unless your completely comfortable with it and you want him to.Just give it a little time until you get comfortable with it and your sure your ready =)
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im not telling you , that u should or you shouldnt im not your mother. but whatever makes you feel comfortable.
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Whatever happed to waiting till your married to have sex? you are only 14 and in my opinion that is a LONG way from being married. You totaly did the right thing.
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Wow! 14, I am actually that age and I have gotten about that far also...you have a good head on your shoulders since you told him to stop, you should not of let him into your pants, not only to boys talk after its done things could have gone way to far. And if this is th first time and you would of let him....it would have only gone farther,the nest time
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only if your are "were" comfortable with it
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Well Your 14 and if you dont want to and u feel uncompterable then No..... and u did this at the Movies??
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Hi my name is brandy and hell no No,that is way to far, your only 14!! OMG! if you guys would have done it that would have made you look way classless i mean come on you were at a MOVIE THEATRE LIKE COME ON Put it this way Would you have gone in HIS pants??? omg you did the right thing when you ready you will know but right now it's really really not the time (SORRY 4 BEING SOOOOO MEAN).
HOPE I WAS HELP
BRANDY BELL
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you definitely did the right thing. Clearly you weren't comfortable with what was going on, or weren't ready. so you're instincts were totally right. If the guy is totally into you, then he won't care if you didn't let him go down your pants, and he'll wait til you feel ready, whenever that is. He sounds like a good guy anyways. good luck with him, and everything, and remember to do it when the moment feels right, whenever that may be. have fun:).
* B e c k y .. <333
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No, to far, your only 14!! OMG! Easy answer. Put it this way ( this will be your answer ) Would you have gone in HIS pants???
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since you didnt want to at the moment then that was probably the best thing. you dont want any regrets do you? plus then he would know that he can get far with you. get to know him and then start going farther and farther slower not just all at the same time! but when you feel YOU are ready to do this then go right ahead =) because its not like its a bad thing! just dont go all the way and have sex with him and you will be safe but i wouldnt rush anything hunnie! goodluck with everything
♥ always -Kristen
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Well at that moment you decided you didn't want to. And I agree with you, for your first time making out with this guy(I'm assuming) that was going way to far. Plus you are only 14, I am the same age you age, and I know hormones are flying and stuff, but thats a big step up from just making out. In the end its a personal decision to take that step. If you aren't comfrotable with it then he should not care. And if he likes you, he wont care. He's just a horny teen age boy, they all are honey lol hope I helped xoxo
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no you shouldnt have because once he gets what he wants then he will leave you forever dont make a mistake you know u will regret..get to know him better..
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You didn't want to. At that moment you choose not to. No problem.
If you want go further with him, make sure there is a next time, and make the first move.
If you want something, make it happen. If you don't want something, make it stop. The amazing thing about your body is that you are in total control of it.
Do worry too much about what he wants or what he expects. You are in control of the situation just as much (if not more) then he is. Last time you decided not to let him 'into your pants' if you aren't happy with that decision, you can make a different decision next time.
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I think you should let him in your pants when you know that you are ready. Don't let him pressure you into it. When your ready you will know.
hoped I help.
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I really think you did the best thing, if your first reaction was to stop him, and yu follrowed it, thats a good thing, dont get into anything to serious
and that was sweet of him, he sounds like a regular sweetheart.
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hey, well i went to the movies with my boyfriend [ but it was just me and him ] and im 13/f and the most i let him do was finger me. so as long as you dont have sex then i think your okay.
-caitt♥
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I don't think so. Go with your first reaction. When you are ready for all that you will know. Until then don't feel pressured into it. A good guy won't go anywhere because of it. :)
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