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I'm turning 14 soon and I'm gonna have a birthday party at my house. I'm inviting all my friends...its like around 16 at the most. I have no idea what to do. I've never had a birthday party before and all the ones I've been at didn't do much. We walked to the park and stuff. I don't have those kinds of things where I live. I need ideas for a 14 year old girls birthday party. There is gonna be guys there too so its not gonna be a sleepover. Please help me. I need to figure this out soon. Thanks so much!
hi im also 14/f and if it were me than i would probably wanna go to a theme park or the movies or a skating rink or something and then once all of the guys leave or watever than all the girls can stay for a sleepover and you guys can watch movies,eat popcorn,listen to music,dance,pile up on junk food,talk about stuff or get piles of magazines and create outfits by mixing and matching the magazine bits,or give eachother facials,or do eachothers hair or paint nails....OR DO IT ALL(hehehehe jk) but watev u do just make sure to have fun!
*BrAnDy*
I need a costume. I'm 5'2" and 14/f. so i want something cute, but not like SUPER slutty. but a little is fine =] any ideas?
hi i am also a 14/f and i already got my costume but there were also some other really cute and creative costumes there like:
the slightly sexy baseball player(its pink and white.....thats the one that i got hehehe lol)
the slightly sexy betty boop
the slightly sexy snow white
the slightly sexy maid
the slightly sexy princess
etc there were tons of other costumes there some were extremely sexy(on the verge of slutty-lol),some were just enough sexy and some were still lil kiddish and yea so it really just depends on how you wanna look (hehe-and who you wanna impress)
so,hope i was help,
*BrAnDy*
im john and im only 13 i realy have an urge to have sex but i know i shouldnt i have tried evrything but nothig helps what should i do?
hey this is brandy and i am not the one to judge others but i really dont think you should be having sex especially at your age so try to keep your mind off it and get creative....try masturbating or something....just not SEX!!!!!
hope i was help
~*brandy*~
my boyfriend was an ass. i dumped him. but i cant keep myself off his myspace checking up on him. we are both the jealous types. throughout the whole relationship we'd get iffy about either of us talking to other girls/guys. now that we're apart i have to see if he's been talking to other girls. i hate it, but i want to know. on the other hand, signs of him flirting/dating/falling someone else would hurt me a lot and id be pissed, so quite frankly i DONT want to know. how can i stop this madness?
hey this is brandy and i think you should start by deleting him off your page and try not to think about him and when you get those urges to "check-up on him" just do some thing else like for example .......polish your toe nails,clean the house,eat,exercise,watch tv,etc (you get the point)!
hope i was help
~*brandy*~
Hi, I have some really bad oder problems..I'm pretty much saying that i smell. really bad and i don't know what i can do about it. sometimes i even get these huge sweat stains on my shirt and it's pretty gross. what can i do?
hey girl this is brandy and im tellin you to take baths more often and keep wipes on hand at all times and on those "time of the month" occassions use scented pads and make sure to stay clean and if that doesnt work try using "special" deoderants and if any of those things dont work take a visit to your doctor cause the odor might not be your faught!
hope i was help
~*BrAnDy*~
I recently heard on my local radio station about John Robert Powers auditions and my mom and I called to schedule one. I have been on one of them before and apparently there are classes that they would like you to take that range from 1,000-6,000 and after you take them, they will help find you work..but there is also a casting director from Disney Channel that will be there so it's kind of like a double thing..my question is, has anyone on here ever been on one of these auditions and gotten something? Or is it just a huge scam? Like a win-lose situation?
Help me out here please!
Thanks!
HEY MY NAME IS BRANDY AND IM TELLIN YOU TO AVOID THEM COMPLETELY my sis went and got an agent (she went for acting )and my mom paid over a $1000 dollars for nothing cause after you get in your agent will probably call you once or twice and thats it it is a great big SCAM and a few of my friends who went there also tell me that they feel soooo stupid for actually going through with that crap but please dont waste you or your moms time and most importantly her money!!!!! please dont go!!!!!! they will teach you a few helpful things but thats about it i honestly dont think it is worth a dime not one dime!!!!!
hope i was help
~*brandy*~
Can anyone suggest a hair growth vitamin?
I'm trying to grow my hair out a lot longer, but my hair grows so slow. About 3 inches a year.
hi my name is brandy and there are these hair growth pills called fast grow by exotic allure but the only thing is that you have to be at least 18 years old or older to take em but if you are 18 than i think you should take em because if you go to there website all of the reviews are great and they are also great for skin and nails so yeah FAST GROW by EXOTIC ALLURE!
hope i was help
~*BrAnDy*~
i babysat my downstairs neighbor after school one day only for about an hour and i got $10 well two days ago i babysat from 10am-6pm ;; reminding you im a teen and the parents know i sleep in so it was hard to wake up.. when i babysat i only got $25 and i babysat her for an extra hour & i brought her to the store to buy a pumpkin to carve.. well today i babysat her from 10am-3pm and i still only got $25 again i walked to the store with her and bought $10 worth of crafts (after returning $20 worth of othershit that my mom made us bring back) i dont think i am getting paid enough should i tell the parents? or should i just not say anything and get paid shit.. the parents also know that i babysat my other neighbor and got paid $50 for 6pm to 12am
Hey girl my name is brandy and i think that you sound like a great babysitter because you seem like you really get involved but i think you need to let them your rate and things like that.
HOPE I WAS HELP,
BRANDY BELL
i have really thick wavy hair and whenever i take a shower and i come out its really curly like if i lgithly towel dry it. I like scrunching but i want to know how some girl's hair stays looking wet all day.
because i want to look like that.
Hey girl my name is brandy and i think i know exactly what you need and its aloevera gel because the way you described your hair i think aloevera gel would be best.
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BRANDY BELL
school's coming up..so i'm kind of looking for a new hairstyle..i'm 13yrs.old dark skinned, have nappy hair, and my hair is up to the very end of my neck. what hairstyle do you think would look best on me?
Hi my name is brandy and im black too and my hair is not the straightest and i wear braids (extenstions) they r really cute and stylish and they MAKE YOUR HAIR GROW but you have to TAKE THEM OUT EVERY MONTH after you get them in because they also can make your HAIR FALL OUT so basicly you just have 2 take care of em.
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BRANDY BELL
I'm soo incredibly confused. Ok, so if it were 12:00 PM (lunchtime), what time would it be in France? Like, how many hours ahead/behind are they?
Hi my name is brandy and right now it is 12:37pm so in france it would be 8:37pm so there is an 8 hour time difference.
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BRANDY BELL
well me and my bff are in a huge fight and she wont forgive me what do i do to be friends with her again ..... much apreeciated
Hi my name is brandy and i never answerd a question like this so cut me some slack but okay here it goes i think you should confront her and say im sorry about what i said and i really wanna make things write again because i miss having you as a bff and i would hate that after 1 little (or huge)fight we are not going to be friends anymore because as bff's we are not supposed to let stupid things like this happen so i just wanted to say im sorry and i hope you can forgive me and i hope we become bff's again.
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BRANDY BELL
My friend and i have been friends for 2 years and her parents dont let me hang out with her cuz i went out with a blck guy and they talk behind my back and call me a slutt cuz she tells me and they dont like my mom either and thats messt and racest and i need help so.. my ? is wat do i do were awesome friends and we can only hang out at skool!!!
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Hi my name is brandy and i am also black so what i think you should do is tell them how you feel and tell them that you are not a slut and they dont even know you that well to judge you and also tell them that just because you decide to go out with someone black or anything else does not mean its up to them to judge that person or you so just tell them how you feel and if that does not work get the parents involved.
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BRANDY BELL
ok i no this is probably like the dumbest question ever but when some one says it smells lke tuna what does that mean?
Hi my name is brandy and i think that if someone walks into the room and they say it smells like tuna in here i guess they mean it stinks or there is a stench that smells like fish idk(lol).
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BRANDY BELL
Alright.....so I'm in the 9th grade and I'm 14. I'm friends with ALL guys.3 of them tease me about my boob size. I'm a 32B and they all say I'm small and I don't know what to do anymore. It gets really irritating and I just freeze and can't think of anything to say. Can anybody relate and give me a little advise here???
Thank You So Much!!!
Hi my name is brandy and i know what you are going trough i am in the 7th grade and my boobs are still too small for a TRAINING BRA i dont know whats wrong but i deal with you can't soo tight up instead you have to loosen up so next time one of your friends say your boobs are small just say "shut up there in the proccess why you lookin at em any way and then laugh".
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BRANDY BELL
I got a perm about a week ago and they burnt my neck with the chemicals. My mom told me to put lotion on it...but that isn't really helping much, it's peeling like a sunburn and it has scabs on it. I'm not pickingat it either. Anyway, I have a pool party i'm going to tomorrow and i'm going to have to put my hair up so everyone is going to see that gross thing at the back of my neck. if anyone has has this happen to them....how did you get it to go away quickly????? Please answer right away!!! Thanks in advance i will rate.
Hi my name is brandy and a pharmacist should be able to recommend something to soothe and help to heal it. They will also be able to advise if chlorine is going to make it worse.But i don't no if it will go away by tommorrow but you should make a complaint about who ever did you hair and ask for a re-fund and show them the burn and tell them they should be a lot more carefull with how they handle there products.
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BRANDY BELL
hey, well on my old account that i had on this site [ i lost the password ] i had alot of people who listed me as there favorite columnists. now i only have one and i dont understand why. i give like the same type of advice as i did with my old account. can anyone tell me what the problem is?
-caitt♥
Hi my name is brandy and mabe it is just because they had enough time to add you and stuff but if you send me an e-mail with the name of your advice coulumn i'll add you as one of my favorite but you have to add me to the name of my advice coulumn is: ASKBRANDY_ADVICE AND MY E-MAIL ADDRESS IS ON MY PAGE so go check out my advice coulumn add me as one of your favorites and e-mail me the name of your advice coloumn and i will add you.
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BRANDY BELL
ok so a couple of weeks ago i was at the movies with a couple of friends. one of which i really like. so we started making out and "feeling" on each other. then he undid my belt and i sort of kicked him. and he was like "oh sorry is that too far?" and i said i dunno. so he
re-did my belt (it was the cutest thing ever) and we proceded with the "kissing and feeling". im 14. so my question is...should i have let him into my pants and such?
Hi my name is brandy and hell no No,that is way to far, your only 14!! OMG! if you guys would have done it that would have made you look way classless i mean come on you were at a MOVIE THEATRE LIKE COME ON Put it this way Would you have gone in HIS pants??? omg you did the right thing when you ready you will know but right now it's really really not the time (SORRY 4 BEING SOOOOO MEAN).
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BRANDY BELL
what is a great smoothie recipe? i want a healthy lean slenderizing smoothie. if you have any great recipes, do tell. thanks
Hi my name is brandy and these are some really good ones:
strawberry and banana smoothie-1 banana 5-7 strawberrys 1 cup of apple juice 1 cup of ice or more and if you want you could add plain yogurt.
strawberry,banana and kiwi smoothie-1 banana 5-7 strawberrys 2 kiwis(don't forget to peel the skin) 1 cup of apple juice 1 cup of ice or more and if you want you could add plain yogurt.
banana smoothie-2-3 bananas 1 cup of apple juice 1 cup of ice or more and if you want you could add plain yogurt.
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BRANDY BELL
what are some things you can do with the kids you are babysiting? i mostly babysit a 6 year old boy, a 3 year old girl, and a little todler. what are some ideas for fun? thanks
Hi my name is brandy and if you want you could be creative and do things like let them help you make there snacks (peanut butter and jelly crackers are alway a success)or play peek-a-boo or hide n go seek or tag or board games or let them pretend to be something and you try to figure out what they are its called sharades(hope i spelled that right lol).
HOPE I WAS HELP
BRANDY BELL