Hey guys,
I'm 14 yrs old and I'm in 8th grade. I havn't exactly got my own life figured out but I'm pretty good at givin other people advice. So please give me your questions!!!!
Favorite Bands- AC/DC, The Beatles, Rolling Stones, Evanessance, Nickelback, Breaking Benjamin, Janis Joplin,(pretty much ALL classic rock)
favorite food- LASAGNA!!!!! (i'm not crazy i swear.......:P)
favorite quotes- just becasue i'm smiling doesn't mean i'm happy......In a world full of cheerios why not be a fruit loop?.....I was uncool before uncool was cool
so......geez thats all i can think of now sry if all that is crap 2 u. I'll work on it later. Much luv!
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Ok....I run hurdles in track and I was just wondering if someone runs track and runs the 100 meter and 300 meter hurdles and what your times are! Thanks!! (link)
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hey!
I ran 300 hurdles last year for track. My time that I remember for one was...like 58 sec I think.
hope this helps!
message if u need more
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How do you have phone sex? i dont have the first clue.... (link)
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well phone sex is pretty much like this
instead of actually HAVING the sex
you just sorta....describe what you would b doing during sex to the other person over the phone
you say things to get the other person turned on
they do the same
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My boyfriend, i started going out with him yesterday. And i dont like him at all and hes been saying he likes me alot and he thought i would never say yes to him because im to good for him but i said yes and i hes weird i dont like him and i know im sounding rude and all but hes like a band freak and is weird and stuff and hes a nerd but i know im sounding rude and all i kinda liked him at first but hes really weird and i gave him a chance i mostly judge on personality but on looks to and like i wanna dump him but i dont wanna hurt his feelings and i dont wanna be rude and all and i cant belive i said yes to him and i like alot of other people and stuff but i dont know how to tell him and stuff i dont wanna be rude what should do
nd i dont like him at all but its making me sad he likes me alot so what should i do stay with him or what??? (link)
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Well there is no way to stop going out with him and to not hurt him. But one thing you could say would be
"hey....i kinda made a rash decision yesterday and I think that I mixed up friend like, for romatic like. Before things get too seriouse i think we should just go back to being friends"
i think that is the nicest way to break up with him. Unless you want to keep going out with him for like a month and then you have an excuse and just say that you dont feel the same anymore or you dont like how things are going.
Either way, you shouldnt have said yes if you didnt mean it. Youve kinda led him on, and hes going to be hurt. But just be as nice and considerate as you can. And if he is mad at you, you have to be accepting of that.
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Ok, well, i'm in marching band and I'm a freshman. I went into the year thinking "I'm gonna meet lots of guys and i'm gonna be really nice and outgoing." But i was just wondering....how are you really supposed to get to know guys who aren't in your section and don't play your instrument?? i don't find much time to socialize with them. I see a lot of cute boys, but the problem is i don't get how u get to know them when almost everything you do is practically within your section.
My other question is....
Do sohpmore/junior guys naturally think freshmen girls are really immature? like, if they find out a girl has a crush on them, will they think she's weird and annoying because she's a freshmen? there could be some guys i'm interested in, but i'm afraid to talk to them or anything because i don't want them to think i'm annoying. (link)
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hey
fellow bander here
from my experience, I became friends with people who were all outside my section(guys included) if you ever go on band trips or something you all just kinda hang out and thats where u get to know them
Some upper classmen might think that freshman girls are immature. But if you just be yourself(mature self) and leave out the whole freshman part, they wont even know. And most guys, not to sound shallow or slutty or anything, if they think youre hot and you dont act like a "stupid freshman" they'll like you.
i was friends with plenty of upperclassman band guys.
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i put a song on my profile and it wont automatically start for some reason...in my security settings its status say that it should start automaticaly...plz help me...5 goes to anyone that gives me a solution^_________^ (link)
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there was a bulliten that tom posted today saying that there was a problem with songs not starting auto
but he fixed it
cause mine is working again
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All I wear is eyeshaddow, and eyeliner.
But I dont know what color eye shaddow colorrrrrrrrr..
And what type of bronzer or anything to use.
HELP MEEEEEE!!!! (link)
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I have dark brown hair and fair skin
what I use for my makeup is this
Black eyeliner, or dark brown, but I only do it on the outside half of my bottom lid and the whole top one, that way it doesnt look like you have racoon eyes
for eyeshadow I get 3 different shades of brown
the darkest(doesnt have to be really dark, but just the darkest of the 3) goes on the crease of your eye
the middle color goes on the lid, and the lighest goes above the crease alittle
then use a blending brush and blend more together so its not a chopped up
for bronzer id use more of a light pink shimmery blush that has some bronzer in it
this way it gives you some color without making you look like you have a fake tan
I think they call it highlighter instead of bronzer
hope I helped
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Okay, first of all NO lectures.
there is this guy i really like, he is the sweetest. But he is ALMOST going out with this one girl. And she is prude. And one night we were talking dirty and he said that he had never talked to anyone about that stuff before except for me. And he was like i want to have sex soon, and i asked him if he wanted to do it with his almsot girlfriend and he said no. And then he was like bragging about stuff to me like his penis size and that he is a really good kisser. But he never says any of this to his almost girlfriend. One day i told him i liked him and i said that i shouldnt because i felt it was wrong because i would be getting in the way. and then he is likewell would it feel wrong if i liked you back, and i said no. He is definitely not the one to cheat on his girlfriend. But what do these signs mean?
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ok....im going to try no to lecture
but if this answer turns out to be one i dont really care if you rate me low, but honey you really need to hear this
First of all, no one can no for sure if he likes you or not cause we arent there. But, personally I dont think he likes you. Yes he may say things to you that sounds like he does. But he likes you cause your telling him that you will have sex/or mess around with him. He likes your sex, not you. If he liked you he would leave that other girl.
second, ever thought that there is more to a girl than whether or not she will do you? Maybe this guy likes the "prude" girl for who she is, and thinks she is beautiful. This is the way I see it. There are those people who have different values and are shy about kissing, making out, having sex or w/e(aka being "prude"). But you love them anyway because they love you, they are a beautiful person, and you click with them it doesnt matter if they put out for you. An example is, a stripper, sure all guys think they are hot and sexy and want them. But when it boils down they still love their wives(well...in therory)
I think this is how your relationship is
If you think that there is a possibility of a relationship with you and this boy, then have a non sexual talk with him and b like "hey...do you like me? Can we be together?" if he says no and gives you some reason about the other girl, then he doesnt like you for you, you make him honry and thats why he likes you.
I hope this makes sence, and I hope I didnt lecture. There isnt anything wrong with having fun and messing around, believe me its great lol But if you want a relationship, theres gotta be more to it
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what is first second and third base?? (link)
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well I remember it as the 4 F's
frenching(making out)
fondling(hands up the shirt, down the pants)
fingering(and like a bj)
fucking(sex)
its different I think from person to person, clique to clique, school to school
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what is the difference between holding hands with your fingers laced or just with the two hands cuffed together. does it mean something different if a guy holds your hand in one way or the other?
and does hugging from behind mean a guy likes you? when do you know a guy wants to kiss you?
thanx everyone i really need to know soon hahaha. =) (link)
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I dont think there is a deffinate answer for the hand holding thing. But, from my personal experience whenever I have held hands w/a guy the fingers have been laced, same with my friends and their boyfriends.
I also think that if a guy hugs you from behind he might like you. Usually if a guy hugs you, and you are just friends then its like a side hug. Hope I sorta helped, good question though, decifering boys should be like a college course I swear lol
-marsbars
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So I like this guy sooo much!! And He finally asked me out.. I was about to say yes, cause he is like my dream guy, but i remembered that my mom wont let me go out with anyone. I really like him and all of his friends, and him have told me that he likes me back, but my mom won;t let me go out with anyone period!!
so should i say yes to him and not tell my mom..or??
HELP!! (link)
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hey! I have this exact same problem, im 15 and my parents are still are crazy about dating, guy friends, or just boys in general. So because i've had a few years to work on it, i've found some ways to get around parents. Here are some options
1. talk to your mom first, ask her if you can date and ask her if she meets him then can you date.
2. if she says no to #1 then....just do it anyway....at least you asked first :)
3. one way to go to a movie with a guy is to go on a group movie where a bunch of guys and girls are going. If your parents dont want you going to movies w/guys who are "friends" then just name all the girls that are going to the movie and leave out the part about the guys coming.
4. to go on a one-on-one date this is what i would do.
first you gotta have two friends who will help you out. My movie theater is in a mall....so thats why it works. So bring your two friends with you and tell your mom u guys are shopping. Then you meet the boy at the movie theater and your friends go off together and shop. You meet back up at the end and your mom never knows!
Hope this helps, if you need anymore advice at ALL or have any ideas for me....(cause im in the SAME EXACT situation) just drop one in my inbox. xoxox
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13 female.
well,
i just started a new school wednesday. it's really great and i made a lot of new friends and i'm actually getting pretty popular there.
well, there is this guy [lets say his name is] jimmy. kay so jimmy hands a note to my friend lynn telling her to give it to me. so we pass in the hallway and she gives it to me saying "it's from a boy. hehe." so i'm like "okay?"
so, i open it and it says "hey, i'm jimmy. you are really cute, i'm the tall guy with brown curly hair."
well, jimmy is pretty good looking and really popular, but all my friends say that he always goes for the new girls and always has to have a girlfriend. so that was a turn off.
AND on top of that, he hasn't talked to me at ALL. and all my friends have talked to him and he's like "yeah i really really like her, i wanna ask her out" and stuff like that.
so,
my question is, is he worth my time? he doesn't even talk to me and based on what my friends say, he sounds like a jerk.
what do you think?
thanks. :] (link)
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well I had something similar to this happening to me. My advice to you would be to start talking to him and get to know him before you give him an answer to whether or not you will go out with him. That way you know(or..know alittle better) that he likes you for your personality to, and not just your looks and the fact that you are the "new girl"
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Why is it that when woman orgasms it sometimes shoot out this watery looking substance... I thought it was pee when it happened to me at first... but it dosen't have that urine smell... Is that normal? What is it cause it was a clear fluid.... and if this happens every time does this mean that your having an excellent orgasm or somthing? Just curious.... (link)
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its called female ejaculation, your one of the few girls who can do it! its completly normal dont worry
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Anyone who can give me an advice for the unwanted pubic hair?
I've been using this VEET Cream to remove my hair down there but they have said that it's not adviceable for genital areas. I also tried using wax but it's super painful. I can't stand it. Last is just shaving but i experience itchiness. I dunno what would i use now.. I really don't like hair down there so please help me guys to choose which product is best and safe for this situation. Thanks in advance. God Bless.. (link)
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Well first of all let me start off by saying, i feel your pain! I feel like such a hairy mofo somtimes....lol anyway,
Shaving is probably the easiest way to get rid of hair around your bikini line and your whole....down there region. But it can lead to bumps, itching, burning and a whole lotta bad stuff. So you have to make sure you do it right. I have read that once you shave put a thin layer of solid stick deoderant on it. I have also hear cortizon lotion. So try each and see what works.
But hair removal cream(like the VEET you have) is easy too because you dont have to shave you just put it on and rub it off. You can buy kind that is made for your bikini line and "genital area" but personally this stuff smells SO BAD and is kinda messy, but it does work. Hope I helped, and dont worry about having unwanted hair....I think alot of girls are the same way we just hide it! :D byes!
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i hardly have any guy friends, and i'm worried about prom this year. how do i talk to guys in class that i've never talked to before without seeming desperate, too forward, etc. ? i just want to make guy friends and have them want to hang out with me on weekends and stuff, but it seems that every time i try to initiate conversation with a guy, he doesn't seem interested. how do we get close enough in one class period together when the teacher's talking to become friends?
i really want a date to prom this year, or i won't really be interested in going. hellppp please (link)
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hey,
Well for me, I have a brother, so its easy for me to relate to guys. But, when your trying to make guy friends, for the sole purpose of just being friends, you have to just act like yourself, seriously! No flirting or any of that, because then the guys will probably not talk to you because they will think you will want something more. Just say funny comments about things that the teacher is talking about or something, that will make them laugh and see that you are just like them. But, some guys just suck at being friends with girls, so not all of them will be able or willing to reciprocate(sp?) the friendship deal. If you have a good sence of humor and one similar to a guy, then it should be easy. hope that helped!
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I'm a guy and I just turned 18. I'm basically afraid of getting drafted, and so are my parents. They said they would do anything to get me out of it if I ever did get drafted, like move me to a different country or make me handicapped or something.
I just want to know how likely it is for a draft to happen. (link)
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there hasnt been a draft since like veitnam! Dont worry, both of my parents are in the airforce, there will not be a draft! if anything they are decreasing troops. You might slightly be overreacting...but believe me there will b no draft.
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Okay, well my friend "Michelle"-she has been babysitting for about 2 years now for these 3 kids. The father of the three kids is hitting on Michelle. He has pulled her bra strap, told her she should get something (aka her "chest" pierced..), and when michelle had her sweatpants on, one of the girls were hanging onto her leg and she was puuling them down and she wouldnt let go and then the fatehr was like u could let her pull them down, and the dad said they should "hook up sometime"...(the list can keep going!) Now, the thing is he's a cop. i've told michelle to tell someone-her mom, the mother of the children--SOMEBODY. She refuses to, necause she loves the kids and she gets good money. What should I tell michelle to do?
Thanks in advance...
-Jam (link)
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hey,
I think your friend should confront the dad himself and tell him that she will not tolerate what he is doing, and if he does she is going to tell someone or not babysit for him anymore. If he doesnt stop then I think, as a friend, you should tell someone. She might be mad at first, but true friends know what is best for their friend, even when they dont.(if that makes any sence) Tell her mom, or call up the family she babysits for and have a talk w/the wife of this guy. But, if you dont want to do this, and your friend doesnt want to comfront the guy, she really should just stop sitting for them. She will probably be able to find another family, where the environment is much better. Hope i helped!
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hi. um on the gold looking victorias secret bags who is that?? like which model?? thanks (link)
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i think its Hedi Klum. im spelling that wrong I think.....but thats who it is. She did that show Project Runway
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1. would you perfer a girl/male to make the 1st move & just like grab your head & kiss you OR you make the 1st move
2. how do you show your feelings towards a female/male [ like show them you like them ]
3. how do you become not shy [ like be open & show your feelings towards someone ]
4. what if you like someone, but you dont know them that well to hold a conversation, what do you talk about ?
5. how do you show your feelings towards someone that you arent sure likes you back ?
6. how do you know the person had enough with flirting. like when to stop ? (link)
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1. I would much rather have the guy make the first move, but i've had guys tell me they think its hot when the girl makes the first move.
2. If you like them, just try and hang out w/them and smile when they talk to you. make eye contact for like 2 secouns straight, and then look away. talk to them, find like little ways to touch their arm or w/e
3. It takes a while to become comfortable with someone. But becoming friends first, always helps, for me at least. After a while you will b so comfortable that silences wont feel awkward or anything. -thats the best! cause then its sooo easy to talk- it might take a while to get to this stage, but give it time and just keep talking to them and over time it will happen.
4. Talk about stuff that you have in common. ANYTHING! school, sports, parents, just find something that u can talk abuot and try and keep the convo rolling with that
5. Flirt with them, drop slight hints(but not too obvious, keep em guessing) be nice to them, and try and hang out with them.
6. You can usually tell when someone doesnt want to flirt. Flirting takes two(to work best) whent he other person stops flirting, either A. they just dont want to flirt anymore. or B. they dont like you. But you should be able to tell, u'll be able to feel it
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which part of a guy physically do you like the most.....eyes? abs? arm muscles? cheekbones? hair? lips?
thanks for reading (link)
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i'd say like(this is gunna sound weird) but like sholders? like guys who have broader sholders. and a nice stomach/chest is good. Good smile....and eyes.
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Right so i know a few people who were their jeans low and then their boxers show..do girls get put off/ turned on by this ? or does it dpend on the person ? (link)
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it doesnt really turn me on or off. but i think its kinda cute when you catch a glimps of alittle boxer. but if your butt is like hanging out thats just gross. its more cute if the guy wasnt intentionally showing off his boxers.
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