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my bf
My boyfriend, i started going out with him yesterday. And i dont like him at all and hes been saying he likes me alot and he thought i would never say yes to him because im to good for him but i said yes and i hes weird i dont like him and i know im sounding rude and all but hes like a band freak and is weird and stuff and hes a nerd but i know im sounding rude and all i kinda liked him at first but hes really weird and i gave him a chance i mostly judge on personality but on looks to and like i wanna dump him but i dont wanna hurt his feelings and i dont wanna be rude and all and i cant belive i said yes to him and i like alot of other people and stuff but i dont know how to tell him and stuff i dont wanna be rude what should do
nd i dont like him at all but its making me sad he likes me alot so what should i do stay with him or what???
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You're REALLY, REALLY shallow. If you're going to judge someone because of what clique they're in or because they're nerdy, then that's shallow & bitchy & inconsiderate. You're not too good for him; it's the other way around. He's too good for you.
If you didn't like him, you should've just told him that you didn't see him that way instead of saying yes & leading him on. Yes, looks matter, but so does personality & just because he's not considered "cool" doesn't mean he's not a nice guy.
...Wow. I hate people like you.
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Well there is no way to stop going out with him and to not hurt him. But one thing you could say would be
"hey....i kinda made a rash decision yesterday and I think that I mixed up friend like, for romatic like. Before things get too seriouse i think we should just go back to being friends"
i think that is the nicest way to break up with him. Unless you want to keep going out with him for like a month and then you have an excuse and just say that you dont feel the same anymore or you dont like how things are going.
Either way, you shouldnt have said yes if you didnt mean it. Youve kinda led him on, and hes going to be hurt. But just be as nice and considerate as you can. And if he is mad at you, you have to be accepting of that.
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