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guy friends
i hardly have any guy friends, and i'm worried about prom this year. how do i talk to guys in class that i've never talked to before without seeming desperate, too forward, etc. ? i just want to make guy friends and have them want to hang out with me on weekends and stuff, but it seems that every time i try to initiate conversation with a guy, he doesn't seem interested. how do we get close enough in one class period together when the teacher's talking to become friends?
i really want a date to prom this year, or i won't really be interested in going. hellppp please
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I myself had that same problem however my friend hung with guys and as I tagged along I just started talking to the guys too. I ended up of course going alone to prom but since you dont want to . The best advice I can give is to try and talk to one of the guys you sit beside. Talk about anything like football or something which you may not be interested in but can research easily enough to come up with ur "fave" team. I f this fails I appologise gd luk with ur prom date ,btw if you cant get a date go any way cause even although I was there alone I still enjoyed myself.
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well its hard to say how to become friends cos lyk different guys react in different ways....... jst start off easy lyk tokin to dem in class n seein what their up to at the weekends and stuff jst have normall conversations jst ignore the teacher or try talking to him or them lyk when ye get into class or leavin..... if your girl friends have guy mates or even boyfriends try talking to them to start it off....... my friend was mates wif a few guys in november and i started talking to them too now one of them is my boyfriend and the other is one of my best friends and that all happened within 3 months
hope i helped let me know how ye get on
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for me, i have some of the best guy friends. especially one. he is my best friend of all time. Just talk to them. Not just any of them, one you can relate to. Dont flirt or try to be too girly. Also, dont try to be too much like a guy. Be yourself and it will work out. About prom, i understand you wouldnt want to go without a date, but, you should go even if no one asks you. Have fun dancing with friends. Believe me, dates tend to get in the way anyway. and im speaking from experience! good luck
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hey,
Well for me, I have a brother, so its easy for me to relate to guys. But, when your trying to make guy friends, for the sole purpose of just being friends, you have to just act like yourself, seriously! No flirting or any of that, because then the guys will probably not talk to you because they will think you will want something more. Just say funny comments about things that the teacher is talking about or something, that will make them laugh and see that you are just like them. But, some guys just suck at being friends with girls, so not all of them will be able or willing to reciprocate(sp?) the friendship deal. If you have a good sence of humor and one similar to a guy, then it should be easy. hope that helped!
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