So I like this guy sooo much!! And He finally asked me out.. I was about to say yes, cause he is like my dream guy, but i remembered that my mom wont let me go out with anyone. I really like him and all of his friends, and him have told me that he likes me back, but my mom won;t let me go out with anyone period!!
so should i say yes to him and not tell my mom..or??
HELP!!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? marsbars answered Sunday January 21 2007, 3:39 pm: hey! I have this exact same problem, im 15 and my parents are still are crazy about dating, guy friends, or just boys in general. So because i've had a few years to work on it, i've found some ways to get around parents. Here are some options
1. talk to your mom first, ask her if you can date and ask her if she meets him then can you date.
2. if she says no to #1 then....just do it anyway....at least you asked first :)
3. one way to go to a movie with a guy is to go on a group movie where a bunch of guys and girls are going. If your parents dont want you going to movies w/guys who are "friends" then just name all the girls that are going to the movie and leave out the part about the guys coming.
4. to go on a one-on-one date this is what i would do.
first you gotta have two friends who will help you out. My movie theater is in a mall....so thats why it works. So bring your two friends with you and tell your mom u guys are shopping. Then you meet the boy at the movie theater and your friends go off together and shop. You meet back up at the end and your mom never knows!
Hope this helps, if you need anymore advice at ALL or have any ideas for me....(cause im in the SAME EXACT situation) just drop one in my inbox. xoxox [ marsbars's advice column | Ask marsbars A Question ]
mariahwannabe answered Sunday January 21 2007, 3:15 pm: I think you should say yes.If your mum asks you tell her the truth.Mums know when your with a boy because you become more "happier" and looking in the mirror more and stuff.So when your going with out with your bf, tell your mum your mate is coming with you. [ mariahwannabe's advice column | Ask mariahwannabe A Question ]
Dorkalicious answered Sunday January 21 2007, 2:11 pm: Think who you love more your MOM or this GUY.
A GUY could last for only a few days or months. But a MOM could last in your heart forever. So all in all would you disobey your mother or go with a guy who could last for only a little while. [ Dorkalicious's advice column | Ask Dorkalicious A Question ]
Flaggal answered Sunday January 21 2007, 1:47 pm: option 1-talk to your mom
option 2-just say yes
option 3- say no
option 4- tell your mom about this guy
option 5- have your mom check out this guy ~have him come over so that she can meet him~
Xineph answered Sunday January 21 2007, 1:39 pm: Your best bet would be to talk to your mom and see what you can work out. Going behind her back would only cause more problems... But I think you should be allowed to date. Explain the situation to her. Maybe introduce the guy to her, to show your mom that he's not a bad guy or anything. [ Xineph's advice column | Ask Xineph A Question ]
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