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yellow dude~where do you get the pics of the little yellow guy and sometimes with the blue dude. one says 'i picked you a flower but it was a venus fly trap and it bit my head so i killed it and got you this peice of grass instead' another says 'i made you a cookie but i eated it'

its called 'Pon And Zi'

Search it on Photobucket. :-]

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at lunch yesterday my hards were dirty so i went to the bathroom for like a minute without permission. then this lunch lady (who everyone hates) came into the bathroom and was like "you didnt take a pass come here" blah blah i dont know whatelse said. so i was walking back to the lunchroom with her, and she gave me this blue slip (whoaa big deal lol) and she was like write your name down on this paper so i purpously wrote my name down sloppy so she can get pissed off, and she was like umm i cant read that erase it and write it better and i was like uh no thats how i write if you have a problem with it then too bad, and i kept talking back to her and she did the same to me so she forced me to write my name down better so i did, but i still made it sloppy and she told me to sit down. so today, she gave me the slip back for my parents to sign, my parents seriously won't give a crap about it, but should i have my mom write a note or something to her? or what should i do? LOL sorry this was confusing! thanks if you can helpp.

Just have your mom sign it and forget it. People like that aren't worth it.

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ok my x bf broke up with me like 2 months ago and i started talking to this other guy and i like him but like a week ago i met this really kool and nice HOT guy and i really like him AND I HAVE Been like talking to all off them and telling them that i like them in stuff and i dont kno who to choose im such a whore plaese dont leave rude comments that stupid

You are not a whore! You just like a different guy. It's a typical thing. I think everyone has been through it. I have! You are TOTALLY not a whore. What have you done? All that you did was talk to a different guy.

If someone calls you a whore say "How am I a whore? All I did was talk to a guy." Then walk away.

The biggest thing to remember [ i'm going to sound old and corny ] is that people will always be mean but just ignore them, because you just won that "fight" because right now they are probably saying 'i wish i had that much courage.'


~*Flaggal*~

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what does it mean to be "felt up"?

Touched. Inspired.

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I answered someones question and got a one; i reported it and it was only changed to a 2.
just reading the question then my answer, why did i get such a low rating?

QUESTION:
Well my mom did some thing REALLY REALLY stupid she said when ever my cusin gets things pierced I can get them at that age she hers, and my cusin
got her belly button pierced at 13 and I just turned 13 a little bit ago so do you think I'll look like a little s*** but I really really wanna get it pierced and most of my friends have it done so i think I wanna get it

This is a site that tells you why it got changed.
http://www.advicenators.com/abuse.php?mode=list&view=mine

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do games from japan for the ps2 and wii work on american ps2's and the wii

Yes. They will work perfectly but you may not understand them...[lol]

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So I'm doing a paper on immigrant life in the 1800's. I've googled a bunch of stuff but can't really find what I'm looking for. The specifics I want are:
What it was like on the journey to America
Where they lived when they came here (To America)
What kind of jobs they had
What their home lifestyles were like (what they ate, did for fun, kids & schooling...)

Soo, if anyone knows of any good sites or you guys are just better at researching that I am please provide some really helpful links. All I've found was immigrant life in the late 1800's and early 1900's but what i mostly want is early 1800's to mid 1800's. Thanks in advance.

Search;;

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does anyone have a picture of the sidekick 4, and know when its coming out in the US?

I don't think it is out yet, but try and search for it.

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It may look like this:
http://i23.photobucket.com/albums/b360/glitchDESIGNS/sidekick4.jpg

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What are some good layout sites on Xanga?

I really like the ones with custom modules.

Thanks.

The blogrings from Xanga are good but my favorite site for those kind of things are:
http://www.createblog.com/layouts/index.php?tag=xanga&type_id=
-Flaggal

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So there is this guy in my 4th Period class: lets call him 'Mark'. So Mark has the most amazing smile and breath taking eyes. I think I do like him, he seems different from all the other guys, more calm and layed back but heres the catch -we never talk. But I really wish we could. I'm not great at conversation starters or getting guys attention. What can I do to snag his attention then?
We always make eye contact and I think we always catch eachother staring at one-another. Its cute but I want to move on to something else. What can I say/do? I am really oldschool I think the guy should make the first move, but that hasn't worked for me. So obviously I won't be all "OMMMGGG *hugs*" or touchy-feely with him.


...

Help.
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I totally understand were you are coming from. I am guessing Mark is the shy sort so you probably have to make the first move.

You can just talk to one of his friends and get to know Mark's friends and hang out with them more and ask them to introduce you to Mark.

You don't necessarily have to be all *touchy touchy* with a guy. It really depends on the guy.

Some guys are emotional while other guys like to stay strong.

Get to know Mark through his friends.

Then you'll be all set!

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ok well me and this girl used to be really good friends!! the last year in 7th gr ( im in 8th now and 14) she spread a rumor about me and started stuff between me and alot of my friends! so i decided not to hang with her anymore!!! we've had a lot of fights after that too and we've been very close to fighting 4 real!!!! but now i kind of over it and at a party the other night she invited me to a barbque of hers next month! I donbt know if i should forgive her or what to do ??!?!?!?!!! please HELP!!!!

Well, there are several things you can do:
*Not show up at the barbaque
*Forgive and Forget
OR
*confront her.

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omg.
so me and my friend went with a couple of our guy friends about 2 weeks ago to hang out.
well we went to a friends and we started drinking a little.
we hung out fo a little bit then we went home.
we dropped everyone off and thats it. nothing else happened.
like 2 days later, my friend shawn IMed me and told me that he got kicked out like 5 minutes after we dropped him off.
well last monday, a week after, shawn started flipping out.
he couldnt remember what happened that night. at all.
he thought that we stopped at a gas station and that a kid put a gun to his head.
none of that happened.
he said he doesnt remember anything then that. he also said that he was driving home from a pap smear and he heard the kid that he thought did that say kid get out of the car im going to kill you.
but no one was around.
well hes like in a crazy hospital now cause he thinks that all really happened.
he said he didnt take anything but idk if i believe him.
well his mom is getting detectives to check all of this out and they are going to question us all.
one of our friends we were hanging out with is 22, so can he get in trouble for hangin out with me and my friend since were 16?
and also can they give us drug tests? cause i smoked some weed over the weekend and im freaking out about it.
nothing happened that night and we didnt do any drugs that night so idk what is wrong with shawn.
what do you think i should do? are they aloud to drug test me??

thanks in advance.

Yes, that 22 year old is in big trouble, and so are you. The weed will still be in your system so I would be worried. I would totally tell the truth. It's the best thing you can do. Tell EXACTLY what happened that night. Shawn probably got high and/or feel asleep and had a dream like that and couldn't tell if it was reality or not.

Tell Shawn what happened. I think if you try hard enough, you will be able to knock some sense to him.

If Shawn doesn't believe you, just be a good friend and be by his side during all of this. It is going to be a tough time for Shawn and it will make him feel better if he knows he can trust you. Maybe he'll tell you what is truly going on.

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so what is the difference between them?

i think the difference is just spelling

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ok well heres the thing i think my boyfriend is cheating on my but im not 100% sure. we've been going out for almost 11 months and like last month he said he thinks that im the one. Like im the only girl he thinks hes actually been IN LOVE with. but 2 weeks ago i broke up with him cause i heard he was going to but then he got reallyy mad at me and we talked after shcool and he said he wasn't going he was just having a bad day and was thinking about it. so we got back together and ever sense then he has been like kind of mean to me. like now it doesn't even seem like he likes me that much. and on his myspace he has been talking to this girl named taylor and then during art yesturday he was talking to his friend zach and was just like yeahh i talked to taylor for like 3 hours last night but he whispered it and didn't think i could hear him and i was like you talked to taylor for 3 hours? and he smiled and was like uh no. then i got mad and hes like im just kdiding! and said he just talking to his friend jeremy and mike. but he invited her to this concert thing friday and he wanted me to go too but he invited her first, and he goes to a different school but please tell me if there are ways i can tell if he would be cheating on me! HELP PLEASE!!! thanks!

I would get to the source. Be like a spy. Find every bit of evidence you can, then ask him and mention all those things.

Ask his best friend or a girl friend he hangs around with.

Just don't jump to conclusions before you find hardcore evidence.

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i used to like this one boy alot. and we were always supposed to hang out and things but it just never happend and we slowly stopped talking. its hard to see him and not say anything and i really wanna get back to where we were. i thought i would be able to get over him but i cant i still really like him. what should i do to get back to where we were. how to i slowly get back to that. like flirt in the halls at school till he shows that he wants to be together again??. thanks!! so much.

Well, just walk up to him and say 'hey there stranger'

Just ask him how he has been and why you two didn't hang out. Also mention that it would be nice to just hang out with him again.

I think he will get the memo.

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my friend ;amanda ;always makes plans with me & then ditches me last minute. and i never get to see her ;she lives 45 min. away i havent seen her in over a year. so i basically told her not to talk to me im so mad. i dont wanna hate her ;shes one of my best friends ;its just i cant keep wasting my weekends at home cuz she ditches me. what should i do?

Well, If I were you, I would tell Amanda straight up and say 'look, we are great friends but will you please stop wasting my weekends. You call me and say you want to hang out but you never show up'

Let her know how you feel.

If she says 'so what. you're not my life.' she isn't a real friend. Tell her 'I'm not trying to say that I should be your life but if we are true friends you wouldn't ditch me.'

Try not to get into an argument, try to talk calmly and clearly.

GOOD LUCK

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well i started dating my friend.
He was like my best guy friend and now were dating but we never hung out

any ideas on what to do on our first hang out /date???

Do regular things that you would do with your friends. Sometimes it is fun to just play outside. You can play a little soccer. Even if you are bad, [not saying you are] it will still be fun. You will laugh so much! It makes this boy feel comfortable around you.

If you are not interested in that idea, why don't you do something more mature like seeing a movie or going to the mall. I know that some boys don't like to go to the mall but it depends on the guy.

If he is a friend, you should have no problem deciding on the possibilities.

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what is doing art for art's sake

Hmm. I think it means you do something because you want to do it not because other people are doing it.

for example:
lets say you start to sing
but you do it for the sake of fame
not for the sake of singing.

I guess it is one of those morals. The moral of this is: do things because you want to. not because you need to

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im always having the same song as other people.
and i wanna have a good song that makes you wanna dance.

please name a lot of bands and songs.
PLEASE.

Here are some good artist:
*Ludicris
*Mary J. Blide
*Christina Aguleria
*P. Diddy
*Ashley Tisdale
*Vanessa Hudgens
*Hannah Montana
*DJ Carlee
*Akon
*Three Days Grace

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Hey Everyone I have a Macbook with a bulit in iSight camera.
I was wondering is there anyway to rip/copy a video from the internet (not youtube or google)? Is there a program to download or some way of saving it or re-recording it to my computer kind of like a screen print, but with a video?
Thanks!

You can get video downloads at www.veoh.com

You need to get the software first then you need to register. Then you are all set to download any video there! You can even add the youtube URL and you can get that video!

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