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What can I do
So there is this guy in my 4th Period class: lets call him 'Mark'. So Mark has the most amazing smile and breath taking eyes. I think I do like him, he seems different from all the other guys, more calm and layed back but heres the catch -we never talk. But I really wish we could. I'm not great at conversation starters or getting guys attention. What can I do to snag his attention then?
We always make eye contact and I think we always catch eachother staring at one-another. Its cute but I want to move on to something else. What can I say/do? I am really oldschool I think the guy should make the first move, but that hasn't worked for me. So obviously I won't be all "OMMMGGG *hugs*" or touchy-feely with him.
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Help.
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i think you shouldnt try and push it too fast since you never talk
maybe if you catch him staring at you, hold his gaze, smile, and look away
that might make him think youre interested
and when you walk past him in the hall, look at him, even when he walks past you
try and talk to him a little bit, dont just push conversation on him all at once, gradually get it bigger and bigger, it wont make you seem too desperate
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Go up to him, be upfront and honest with him and tell him you feel about him and tell him what you want to do. If he rejects you or tells you "lets just be friends" don't worry - the world is a big place there's heaps of guys out there you'll be sure to meet one thats perfect to you! Another thing you could do is hint him buy complementing him about the way he looks, the way his eyes glitter etc. he'll be sure to think your up to something :P You could always send him a card or be a secret person on the internet and find out if he likes you. Try making a random email and add him on msn and ask him questions and then in the middle of teh conversation ask him if he likes anyone in his class. He might tell you, you never know. But if you do that NEVER tell him you did that otherwise that's just betrayal he might be really angry to you and lsoe trust in you. That's how i find out my girlfriend liked me :P. Now we're a really good couple and we are living together. :P
I hope this helped a lot
Thanks and i hope it all works out.
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You already make eye contact, so just say hi & go from there. =) You don't have to have a huge conversation like immeadiately, but baby steps like asking him how his day is going is a start. =)
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I totally understand were you are coming from. I am guessing Mark is the shy sort so you probably have to make the first move.
You can just talk to one of his friends and get to know Mark's friends and hang out with them more and ask them to introduce you to Mark.
You don't necessarily have to be all *touchy touchy* with a guy. It really depends on the guy.
Some guys are emotional while other guys like to stay strong.
Get to know Mark through his friends.
Then you'll be all set!
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