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old love
i used to like this one boy alot. and we were always supposed to hang out and things but it just never happend and we slowly stopped talking. its hard to see him and not say anything and i really wanna get back to where we were. i thought i would be able to get over him but i cant i still really like him. what should i do to get back to where we were. how to i slowly get back to that. like flirt in the halls at school till he shows that he wants to be together again??. thanks!! so much.
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hey, well sometimes things just never get the same. then again, sometimes they do. if your going to get things back to the way that they were, its going to have to be an effort on both of your parts. its never going to work if its only you working at it. you need to have a talk with him whether its on AIM, on the phone, or face to face. tell him that you miss the way that things were and are hoping to get back into communication. dont say that you want to get back together or anything that would scare him off. just make him think that your just talking about a friendship, then slowly if things are on good terms, start flirting. if everything keeps going good, things will return back to normal.
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really, you can never get back to that same stage that you like. no matter what you do, you'll never be that way again. i'm sorry, but its true. it has happened to me before. start finding out what he likes again and where he's going to be. start talking to him more and avoid the awkardness! the faster your "Friendship/flirtation" is renewed, there'll be less a hole. Start talking to him again! Start hanging out with him. Be a GOOD friend. Catch him in the times he needs a friend. Just be there for him. and you'll be kinda back to that flirting fling!
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Well, just walk up to him and say 'hey there stranger'
Just ask him how he has been and why you two didn't hang out. Also mention that it would be nice to just hang out with him again.
I think he will get the memo.
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