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To Forgive or not??
ok well me and this girl used to be really good friends!! the last year in 7th gr ( im in 8th now and 14) she spread a rumor about me and started stuff between me and alot of my friends! so i decided not to hang with her anymore!!! we've had a lot of fights after that too and we've been very close to fighting 4 real!!!! but now i kind of over it and at a party the other night she invited me to a barbque of hers next month! I donbt know if i should forgive her or what to do ??!?!?!?!!! please HELP!!!!
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forgive her.. everyone deserves another chance =] you never know she could have changed.. just make a fresh start
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Wow, you and this girl really have been through some rough times this past year! You should ask yourself, am I ready to move on and forget put the fight behind us? or she really upset me and I just don't want to go through this again. You could always go to the barbeque with her, you know catch up on things and see if she has changed. Remember this is only one get together, you should go to the barbeque to see if you can be friends again. But if it feel awkward, at least you tried, rite?
**jenny13**
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just try to talk things out with her. if you both get things out of your systems and explain why you both did what you did, you can both put it in the past and be friends again. good luck!
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well as you mature you realize who real friends are, and how stupid fights not really mean anything anymore. Go to her party and have fun. Maybe even talk to her and tell her that your over all that shit, and you want her back as a friend. I fight a lot with my one friend, but were bestfriends, and those fights just bring us closer and closer each time :)
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if you honestly think than when you guys hang out again and be friends that youre not going to remember what she did to you guys and hate her for it than ya!! you should totally be friends with her again!! its always great to have another friend
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Well, there are several things you can do:
*Not show up at the barbaque
*Forgive and Forget
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*confront her.
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well forgive and forget because you need to fight to get your fillings out the more we fight the more learn so just think nothing to extream happend yet
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