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Gender: Female
Location: crockett
Age: 13
Member Since: February 18, 2007
Answers: 90
Last Update: June 6, 2007
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what is the meaning/difference of these words?

oral sex:
anal sex:
blow job:
hand job:

also, can a blow job and hand job be performed on both a man and a woman?

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oral and blow job r tha same suckin a boys dick

anal through tha boody

hand job is basicly jackin a boy off

a blo job i think its only for boys

a hand job i guess u can call fingering a hand job so i say yea on both


Im still a virgin and i was wondering to thoses who are no longer a virgin do you wish you were or are you glad you had sex cause i want to have sex but then again when getting married it would be alot more fun (link)
well i just lost mine and im kinda happy but i say if u been with this person for a wile its gone hurt the most emotional so dont do it if you see yoself with this person for a wile


i submitted this question once already but it like didn't go through so i fixed it up a bit..

alright well..

one of my friends has very strict parents. so they were looking at her search history and found her myspace. they also found mine.

i'm not aloud to have a myspace. my parents made it very clear that if i had one, i'd be in deep trouble. i wouldnt be allowed on the computer for a long time and when i am allowed to my parents would watch my every move. so on AIM, i cant talk to anyone about private stuff.

i deleted my account already but i dont know what to do. my friends dad said hes going to tell my parents. her dad is going to say he saw it a few days ago so there's no hiding that i actually did have one.

i really don't know what to do. i don't want to get in trouble and loose my computer rights. last resort would be to come clean but i don't want to have to do that. i need to get out of this situation. i really need help, and FAST!! please, does anyone have any advice?

thank you sooooooooooooooo much. you dont know how incredibly bad i need advice. (link)
well the best thing to do is dont lie be the first to tell because if anything an adult hates when another adult tells them there childs bissness first then only fate can guide you through that


there's this guy i really like... i'm not sure if it's lust or if i really care for him... but anyways he's been going "steady" on and off with this one girl for about 2 years... he says that he really loves her... but he's constantly cheating on her... and he's lied to me before about not going out with her when they were so we could hook up... now he says that they're back to being just friends and they've been broken up for about 2 weeks... he only told me this after i told him i didn't wanna hook up if they were going out... so what should i do? should i give him the benifit of the doubt even though he's already let me down, or should i tell him that i just can't trust him or what? i'm so confused... (link)
well if he he loves her you dont want to be the homewrecker so and from this he sounds like this guy from our school he loves his gurlfreind but also his ex girlfreind who he cheated on his girlfreind to be with it was a mess but this guy and this girl stays together through everything no matters what happens shes always on his side as well as her.
but basicly if he loves her hes just doing what all coupples do and seperate so move on you dont want to be on the side forever


ok well im 14/f. and i have had a huge crush on my best friend for a while now. but he told me he didnt like me when he found out i liked him. it was really depressing and all but then i got over him and started liking him again. he never found out that i started liking him again. he still thinks im over him. but last wednessday i found out why he didnt like me. its because he was "confused" about his orientation. but he said he is not anymore and that he is strait. he also told me he loves me. he always tells me he loves me but the way he said it was different. he said "did i ever tell you i love you? alot. i mean really alot." it was the nicest thing ever and well im not sure if he likes me. because before it seemed like he did but it turned out he only wanted to be friends. he led me on in a way but its not his fault. now that he is strait i think he could like me. and he doesnt know i like him though. i want to kiss him so badly but i think that would be a bit sudden. should i tell him how i feel? or should i just go for it? oh and by the way my friend also likes him. and he knows it. i appreciate the help.

Jennifer&hearts

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well to tell you thetruth this is an ellie and marco situation your "freind" is gay theres no dyning it for you because you know he is but he dosent you need to help him throgh this he needs you to be his freind more than anything and you wont do anything but confuse him more if u reveal your fillings i know you want to but its going to hurt

love jennifer p


14/f
I know this is kind of gross, but is it weird to have hair growth on your stomache?? And what can I do to get rid of it?? Without waxing it, or lazor hair removal. And shaving is such a pain is there anything that will get rid of it for good???

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i dont know for good but theres this good lotion that reomves hair


My little sister is 9 now. But when she was 8 she got pregnant. It was a miracle that she and her baby made it through. Now she is pregnant with twins and I don't think it is good! She said she will not slow down and she will have a baby every year of her life! She says she loves being pregnant! My parents dont care. How do I get her to slow down. (link)
tell how you feel about her sex life and is it with the same guy anyways just tell her its hurting you she probly just dosnt know because sometimes when we hurt people we dont know


how can i sharpen up my flirting skills??...how can i flirt more but not look desprete??..wat are some flirting tips??
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the best i can say is act like you dont even see them and star laughin for no reason just let him know hes not the only one


i'm 14/f and i've NEVER been kisseed...i don't get it..lots of people say i'm pretty and find me attractive..but i've never ever been asked out...or had a boyfriend or been kissed....it's really embarrasing...there's this guy i like..and how can i make him find me attractive??...or how can i make myself be asked out??...
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well you cant make him like you and you cant make anyone kiss you this is 2007 babe everything has changed so u betta 2 before you get left behind ask him out if you dont youll be saying i wonder what would have happend so go for it i dare you


i'm 14/f and i've NEVER been kisseed...i don't get it..lots of people say i'm pretty and find me attractive..but i've never ever been asked out...or had a boyfriend or been kissed....it's really embarrasing...there's this guy i like..and how can i make him find me attractive??...or how can i make myself be asked out??...
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well you cant make him like you and you cant make anyone kiss you this is 2007 babe everything has changed so u betta 2 before you get left behind ask him out if you dont youll be saying i wonder what would have happend so go for it i dare you


there's thig guy and i talk to him all the time in 5th period...and since we have D lunch i get there early and we talk...we talk about anything...and before i would tell him my story and he would look at his paper and do his work and i could'nt tell if he was paying attention..but now he looks at me when i talk and asks questions sometimes...i don't know if he likes me or not...i like him...sometimes i get my hopes to high and sometimes i get jealous when he says someinthing like ya i've dated her or i've made out with her...or if he talks to another girl alot....or if he does thee things he does to me to other girls....he said he liked someone but i'm not sure....i could'nt tell if he was serious or not...i hope he likes me...from this does it sound like he does??...wat other signs might there be if he likes me?? (link)
well im sorry to tell you but he only likes you as a freind or even worst hes a behind the curtin lover and just wants you everyother second you know and just obviously just not good but if you want notes on how to tell if some one dose like you here you go

*its all in eye focus if you got his attention you got his heart
*if he askes you for your number little smart coments or just anything for conversation thats a sighn to just stuff like that

but mainly no he dose not sorry need anymore advise just ask


ok this year im a freshmen in highschool.
my brother is 3 years older than me and is pretty popular. people know me as his little sister. and everyone is always like "your ______ little sister?!" and start to talk to me. so basically im known for my brother... how can i have my own identity? help is appreciated (link)
hi im lil donald l.o.l. well you pretty much cant have your own identity when you have a popular brother everyone still knows me as lil donald at first i hated it cuz i was never good enough but it made me just get better and now im one of the best volleyball,tennis,football,weight lifter in ckt so just do your own little thing and have fun doing it


13/f..sorry if it's long..
Ok, I have this friend, let's name her sally. Well sally and i were BEST friends all last year, but we got in a huge fight over the summer and decided to not be such close friends. We couldn't completely stop being friend because we're kind of in the same circle. Well we obviously hadn't resolved our feelings because for the next few months (up until around november or december) we kept getting in huge fights. One of us would talk about the other behind her back, etc. Things finally settled down and we've become ok friends, like we talk and can be normal around each other. I even went over and hung out at her house once. Lately, especially within the last two or three weeks, we've been a really nice to each other. She recently broke up (then later got back together) with her boyfriend and i helped talk her through that and she thanked me for being there. Today, she and i were talking on aim and we started talking about her and her bf and then got on the subject of my love life, i let it slip the guy i like (who she knows) and we talked about him and then later i told her not to tell anyone and she was like of course not. shes a good person, but theres so much history between us, good and bad (and once last year she got mad at me and accidently told the guy i liked i liked him -it was really an accident, its a long story-she keep apologizing and i knew she felt bad), i dont know whether or not i can trust her. I'm afraid to accuse her of being untrustworthy because of course that would get anyone pissed off. Can i trust her? (link)
were girls and occationly we let things slip so if you cant trust her you cant obviously trust no one so i say trust her again because its worth it


ok so i like this boy a lot. about a week ago, i started talking to him online...and then he was all whats ur phone number?? we flirted a little and stuff...we talked on the phone for hours. he said we should meet at school (ive seen him around but we havent talked at school). he also said we should hang. yet he never talked to me about it or called me...

but anyways its been a week and he still hasn't TALKED TO ME. why is this?? (link)
give him a call or write him a message but not both you dont wanna seem despret and say wuts been going on why havent you called or ritten me if he starts bull'in just say i dont need it say bye feel good about yourself and say ok he wasnt worth it and move on


So there's this guy that I happen to be really good friends with. Earlier this year he went out with my best friend, but broke up with her because he said he just didn't feel the same about her. a little while after they broke up, i started to like him...a lot! but just a few days ago, that same friend said that he told her that he liked her again, and now she likes him again. and just yesterday, she said he didnt like her anymore. confusing rite? well, i still really like him, and like i said, we're really good friends, but i want to be more than friends. a lot of people would just say, 'tell him how you feel, or get a friend to ask you' but does someone have any other creative ideas to find out if he likes me? (link)
he dosnt like you he likes how he cant be with you and its not worth trying so plese just listen to me and waist your time as well as your freindship it will hurt you and your freind


How can you tell if someone is being a good friend? and what does exacly "being there for them" means? (link)
well if your fighting hurting and just plain going crazy on each other you guys are best freinds it took me the first 18 to 19 fights to make me relize me and this one girl are down for each other
being there for them means if there in trouble your telling them stop and if they dont your down for them your fighting with them and your there shoulderto cry on and there ear to hear for just being beside them 100% but you dont have to necicarily fight just if you see something wrong your there to say it


I've always had quite a few friends and people generally are quite nice, and that was until I started going out on Friday nights.

There are a group of kids and thier main intention is to start trouble, its going too far to the extent a girl was punched by a 18yr old boy twice her size. The comments never used to affect me and I didn't care if they didn't like the way I dressed or the music I liked. But now its like I'm too scared to go out, everywhere I go I have groups of kids following me, insulting me, threatening me. It's just getting to be too much.

I don't know what to do. I've told people, even been in contact with the local police, but things just do not get better.

Suddenly now all the insults affect me, they call me fat so I diet, they don't like my hair so I cut it. I'm starting to do all sorts of things just to fit in, something I never thought I would do.

What should I do before I lose my identity completly? Or even worse end up beaten up?

I am really scared and I hate going anywhere, everywhere I go I have trouble and I just don't know where to turn. I came on here hoping to find someone who has been through the same. Any advice on sorting this situation.

Love
xoxo (link)
this may sound crazy and something like everyone else would say but dont worry bout what they say why cut your hair when the next day their gonna say its too short and whr change anything eles when there going to have a problem with that i use to worry bout what other people thought untill i asked myself those questions and got the answers no reason and i stoped careing about my weight and how much eat how manny calories am i burning and stupid questions like that and started noticing the ponds going away and once you stop worring youll start noticing the pound and problems leaving


I love my bf to death and everything..
But for some reason we've been having problems.
I've been crying so much over him for little things.
Like lately it's like he doesn't care about things anymore or something or he's lost interest in me..
He said I need to learn to respect and trust him.
I mean it's hard because he's lyed to me a couple of times.
It seems like he doesn't feel the same way about me anymore and it makes me cry.
I never used to do that before.
I feel like he used to be obsessed with me and I loved that and now he just doesn't care it seems like..
We've been together for almost 5 months now.
I really really don't want that to end because I love him and I know he really loves me.

What should I do?!
Please help me. (link)
i wasnt saying flirt with other people i was just saying make him relize 1 way or the other make him relize he loves you and how bad hes hurting my way was flirting but your way may be talking to him or something like that basicly just let him know


well i was in the same situation the one that im with now we have a great relationship and to keep each other for some reason we play games like when he loses intrest i flirt with other people infrount of him and he relizes how much he needs me or when i get mad at him he goes back to his old girlfreind because he knows i hate her and i alwaysgo back to him so realy the more you make your boyfreind relize he loves you the more your relationship will work i know because me and my boyfreind have been together 10 months 2 weeks ans 4 days


There was this guy we were going out four years ago and I broke it off. I had not seen him since four years ago, then I decided to call him because I felt guilty for the break-up. I mean I am more mature now. We started hanging out again and he has been flirting a lot, I thought he like me, so I started having feelings for him..I told him how I felt last night and he totally rejected me. I wonder why? I thought that being together, I mean after not seeing each other after a long time, was meant to be? I am so confused? what happend? (link)
well i think you should give it a try if he dose you bad the first time you shouldnt even try to get attached you know but dont give a book a bad name before you read it.

as you know he was probly just afraid you were going to break his heart again so why not tell him why you broke it off and if you have no clue its not worth pursuing because if you called him on gult your gonna be with him on guilt so just decide is this on guilt or heart and if its on heart chase him and prove you like him for him


well lately ever since ive entered 9th grade ive been so mean idk. all i feel inside is hatered. like i just dont want to live in this world. its like i dont have nothing good in my life. now i get mad easily and i cant be happy for noone. its like if youre just talking to me about something simple i might come up with some stupid comment or just scream and loose my temper for the sammllest probelms. i dont know why i have gotten like this...i have also been depressed like when im alone i feel like crying becasue nothing is going right. i need help. what can i do to stop feeling so miserable. becaseu i hate who ive become
ps if it helps i was neevr like this my sister eve told me that im so mean now and that i always start fights with her for no reason no one understands me! (link)
your just getting older and hormons are kicking i use to be like that till i understood everyone i was hurting and ive been talking to all my freinds lately and theve always been my counslers but im theis too you just need a good freind thats all




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