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The guy I liked rejected me!
There was this guy we were going out four years ago and I broke it off. I had not seen him since four years ago, then I decided to call him because I felt guilty for the break-up. I mean I am more mature now. We started hanging out again and he has been flirting a lot, I thought he like me, so I started having feelings for him..I told him how I felt last night and he totally rejected me. I wonder why? I thought that being together, I mean after not seeing each other after a long time, was meant to be? I am so confused? what happend?
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he probably likes you, but he was hurt when you broke it off, and so he wanted to pay you back for it. so that you would hurt just like he did. now, give it maybe a week, and then go back. tell him that you were hurting. then, hell have all of his hurt out, and will be more accepting of the relationship. good luck!!
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He may have a fear of getting rejected by you again, so he feels the need to reject you before you reject him. I would ask him about it, and have a serious talk with him. I really think he's feeling insecure about starting a relationship with you again, and is probably worried the same thing that happened the first time you two broke up -- will happen again. So I definitely recommend talking to him about it, and see how he's feeling.
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well i think you should give it a try if he dose you bad the first time you shouldnt even try to get attached you know but dont give a book a bad name before you read it.
as you know he was probly just afraid you were going to break his heart again so why not tell him why you broke it off and if you have no clue its not worth pursuing because if you called him on gult your gonna be with him on guilt so just decide is this on guilt or heart and if its on heart chase him and prove you like him for him
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