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Bf help..
I love my bf to death and everything..
But for some reason we've been having problems.
I've been crying so much over him for little things.
Like lately it's like he doesn't care about things anymore or something or he's lost interest in me..
He said I need to learn to respect and trust him.
I mean it's hard because he's lyed to me a couple of times.
It seems like he doesn't feel the same way about me anymore and it makes me cry.
I never used to do that before.
I feel like he used to be obsessed with me and I loved that and now he just doesn't care it seems like..
We've been together for almost 5 months now.
I really really don't want that to end because I love him and I know he really loves me.
What should I do?!
Please help me.
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Find strength with in yourself, get into your own thing. Yo may love him now, or for awhile. But the majority, of guys aren't constent... I would know. HE's lied before? I would think about that one. My father once said to me once a lair always liar. It is possible that his feeling changed and he doesn't know hwo to feel you. If that's the case you'll move past. I have been in a few really tough relationships that ended. And it was an emotional roller coster before hand. But in the ong run of my life everything turned out great. Just because he may your first love doesn't mean he'll be your last.
Stay strong, stay wise, and be true to yourself, because in the scope of life that's all you can do.
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mhm i know exactly how you feel b/c thats what me and My b/f of 5 months went through just a couple weeks ago.
sucks big time, huh?
the first thing you need to do is tell him exactly what you just said here. he probably won't know that you feel like he doesnt appreciate you anymore unless you tell him. and when you do if he really does still care about you it will make him sad but it will bring something to surface that might have been wrong with him or maybe he'll realize that he needs to step it up a notch. either way, tell him, and see what he has to say. stay calm about it but tell him exactly how you feel and if the tears come then its ok to cry b/c then he will know that you really mean this.
xoxo helpachick
*good luck!*
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Basically what is going on here is what I like to call 'ending the honeymoon stage'. Pretty much once guys start to get comfortable in this routine of dating you it is almost like they stop trying so hard becuase they think they already have you and there is no need. What you really need to do is tell him that sure has you, but he needs to learn to keep you and appreciate you. Don't start second guessing things or denying his love for you. Just know that all guys go through it, because it is hard for them to express themselves. Secretly he could be bursting with adoration just seeing you, but we wouldn't know it just looking at you. If you need to have those sweet things to be happy, then just let him know and give him a warning about how if he doesn't shape up then you might have to find someone who will.
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i wasnt saying flirt with other people i was just saying make him relize 1 way or the other make him relize he loves you and how bad hes hurting my way was flirting but your way may be talking to him or something like that basicly just let him know
well i was in the same situation the one that im with now we have a great relationship and to keep each other for some reason we play games like when he loses intrest i flirt with other people infrount of him and he relizes how much he needs me or when i get mad at him he goes back to his old girlfreind because he knows i hate her and i alwaysgo back to him so realy the more you make your boyfreind relize he loves you the more your relationship will work i know because me and my boyfreind have been together 10 months 2 weeks ans 4 days
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