I made it down a long hard path, to gget where I am today. I came from a broken home and now I'm starting a really good with my new husband on a house boat. I'm loving life right now but I didnt always, life used to be really tough for me, I was drug user, I wasn't a nice person. But now I am making a differece in the world, at least mine. But thats why I'm here I want ot help people, I wish that I had my now to talk to when I was back there lost in the abyss of being a teenager. But now I'm very much in love, extreamly happy, and I have wuite a writting career.
Website: Poeze press
E-mail: Jayme.Beddingfiel@gmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Seattle
Occupation: freelance writer
Age: 20
AIM: Specialjay123@aol.com
Member Since: March 30, 2007
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can i get aids from geting a blowjob? (link)
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Contracting aids from a blow job is rare however you cant get more common stds that can be trasmiteed thrugh orl sex sush as herbies and other gentail warts. But with any type of seuxual acitvity it is always good to be safe.
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I'm a bit older than the people that usually answer questions on this sight. I'm 28 and my girlfriend will be 27 in about a week.
We have been dating for about 7 months when I was in medical school in Cincinnati. I had to move to Rhode Island to start my residency, but she stayed in Cincinnati. I love her and I miss her terribly.
It gets difficult because my family is from a very traditional Indian family (Asian Indian), who do not believe in cross culture dating (or anything fo the sort). My girlfriend is caucasian. I kept the relationship secret for a while, but then I told my parents. My vacation is comign up and I want to spend it with her, but now my mum says that if I go to see her- she will not let me see my family anymore. I would be disowned. I love my family, but I love my girlfriend, and this is really tearing me up inside.
I don't know what to do, personally I wish I coudl just leave everything and everyone behind, but this is really affecting everything- my heart, mind, and soul.
What do you think that I should do? (link)
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You are in America! Here, as a general rule, we live our lives and don't let others live them for us. I'm sorry that your mother is taking such a hard stance, but if she loves you (like I'm sure she does) she will eventually come to the realization that you doing what is best FOR YOU is all she really wants. If you love your girlfiend, then treasure her and don't let your family sway you. In the end, you are the one who will hurt otherwise. Take a stand for the woman you love!
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so im a sophmore girl and all be 16 soon all my friends have gone pretty far with a boy and well me, i havnt. when my friends ask me how far i have gone im kind of ashamed of the truth so i exagerate the truth a little, well.......a lot!so they all think im something im not. what should i do, i'll sound like an idiot if im just like "just kidding i havnt gone that far". so a little help please?
and i have had the chance to go further but im scared of not doing something right or if the boy thinks im dumb or if i do something tsupid so yeah (link)
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Well, I'm going to start by saying that you are only sixteen, sex isn't something to rush into. A lot of the time teens your age like to brag about things they haven't done to look like they are cool and experienced in the eyes of their peers. Don't let that affect your decisions sexually.
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what are herpes and how do people get them (link)
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Herpes(also called HSV infection) is a viral infection caused by the herpes simplex virus (HSV). It is a sexually transmitted disease (STD) that may cause skin blisters and sores in the genital area, but often causes no visible symptoms. It is possible to get genital herpes through sexual contact with an infected person even if he or she has no symptoms.
Genital herpes is one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases in the United States and worldwide.
What causes genital herpes?
Genital herpes can be caused by either the herpes simplex virus type 1 (HSV-1)-which also causes cold sores-or the herpes simplex virus type 2 (HSV-2). HSV-2 is the most common cause of genital herpes infection in the United States.
What are the symptoms?
The first-time (primary) outbreak of HSV often starts with painful itchy blisters on the penis or on the vulva (the area surrounding the opening of the vagina). The blisters rupture and turn into oozing shallow sores that take up to 3 weeks to heal. A primary outbreak may also include flulike symptoms, such as fever, headache, and muscle aches; painful urination; and abnormal discharge. However, most people who become infected with HSV have no symptoms, or the symptoms are so mild that they do not recognize that they are infected. The incubation period-the time from exposure to genital herpes until the primary outbreak of infection-is 2 to 14 days.
After the primary outbreak, the herpes simplex virus remains in the nerve cells below the skin in the area where the sores first appeared. The virus becomes inactive, causing no symptoms. In most people, the virus becomes active from time to time, traveling from the nerve cells to the skin and causing repeated blisters and sores (recurrent outbreaks).
Sores from recurrent outbreaks usually heal faster and are less painful than those from the primary outbreak. However, genital herpes infections can be severe in people with impaired immune systems, such as people infected with human immunodeficiency virus (HIV). Factors such as stress, illness, a new sex partner, or menstruation may trigger recurrent outbreaks.
Whether you have symptoms or not, you can still transmit the infection. If you are sexually active, condoms can help reduce, but do not eliminate, the risk of spreading HSV.
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When my fiancee and I have unprotected sex, it doesn't hurt right afterwards. It hurts the next time I go to the bathroom. We use lubricant and we have both been tested for STD's and are clean. Why is it doing that and what can I do to prevent it? (link)
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Well the first thing that come to mind is that you could be allreactic the lubricant, try ither not using it or another kind.
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ok, there is this guy who definitly likes me ad i think i like him too. i have a feeling he might ask me out and i want to say yes but i know that people are going to wonder what i see in him and probably laugh and make fun of me. he's a great kid and really nice and he listens to me but he's not very attractive. what can i say to make people not bother me if we go out? (link)
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Fist the only thing that should matter if you find him attractive, it doesn't matter what other people think. Even if they are your friends. Judments on people do come often in this world but if I listened to my friends I wouldn't be happily married. The thing is someone is always going to have something to say and about something...that's just life. If you would really be happy with this guy, then laughs and comments shouldn't bother you. Being true to yourself is what matters. So all you should focus is what you want and not care about what other peple think.
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I love my bf to death and everything..
But for some reason we've been having problems.
I've been crying so much over him for little things.
Like lately it's like he doesn't care about things anymore or something or he's lost interest in me..
He said I need to learn to respect and trust him.
I mean it's hard because he's lyed to me a couple of times.
It seems like he doesn't feel the same way about me anymore and it makes me cry.
I never used to do that before.
I feel like he used to be obsessed with me and I loved that and now he just doesn't care it seems like..
We've been together for almost 5 months now.
I really really don't want that to end because I love him and I know he really loves me.
What should I do?!
Please help me. (link)
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Find strength with in yourself, get into your own thing. Yo may love him now, or for awhile. But the majority, of guys aren't constent... I would know. HE's lied before? I would think about that one. My father once said to me once a lair always liar. It is possible that his feeling changed and he doesn't know hwo to feel you. If that's the case you'll move past. I have been in a few really tough relationships that ended. And it was an emotional roller coster before hand. But in the ong run of my life everything turned out great. Just because he may your first love doesn't mean he'll be your last.
Stay strong, stay wise, and be true to yourself, because in the scope of life that's all you can do.
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ok i have 2 questions..what is the difference between head and a blowjob?? is there a difference? and can you get aids from head or a blowjob? (link)
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First of all there is no differenece between giving head or blow job there are just different ways of saying the same thing. You can get aids but's it's very slim chance, you would more likely get something mroe like a herbie virus if the guy is infected. It's also a good rule of thumb to ge tested between every guy.
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So this might be the wrong category, but whatever.
I HATE having hair "down there", but I'm scared to shave it or anything cause I don't wanna mess up, or cause like rashes and that sorta stuff, and I am NOT having some stranger do it. So how do i shave it? and what should i know? (link)
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Oen sentence, use a buzzer for guy's facial hair. Works like a charm. Also conair tool for eyebrows to trim it
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for starters i'm 15/f. this question is mainly for guys, but if any girls know, feel free to answer. how to guys masturbate? i'm really clueless. sorry, and thanks to whoever will answer this. (link)
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They nasturbate by rubbing their hand up and down th the shaft of their penis until they cum. It;s not a imanation of sex, guys beuilt a relationship with the penis.
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Hey. Well, I'm thirteen and I've only made out with a guy [more than one guy, though]. I'm wondering if it's normal for me to not want to go any farther than that..? (link)
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Well you are human just because you are young doesn't mean you aren't going to have natural urges but that doesn't mean you should act on them. Some things are better saved, like innocense. I grew up way to fast and most if wasn't much fun at all. Save what is special to you, its worth it in the long run.
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how can i sharpen up my flirting skills??...how can i flirt more but not look desprete??..wat are some flirting tips??
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I dont really think of it as flirting skills. Focus on talking as yourself to the guy your interested in. Don't put on a front, that could and probably will end up messy. It's no good for you, to not be true to self. Tht is not worth any guys.
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I'm grounded for about 2 weeks about I'm off grounding April 4th.
That's when I'm gonna hang out with my bf.
But instead of him talking to me all day and comforting me while I can't do anything since I'm grounded..
He goes out and hangs out with his friends and does other stuff and talks to me on the phone a little.
He has his fun while I'm grounded and lonely and can't hang out with anyone.
I've been talking to my friends on the computer pretty much all day and talked to him a little because he was 'busy'.
Wouldn't it be right for him to comfort me and talk to me all day because I'm grounded??!
I don't get it..
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While first off all you should still want him to have fun, just because you have to stay inside doesn't mean he has to. However I completely have been in similar situation when I was younger, it still doesn't feel good. But just because he's doing stuff while your grounded doe not not mean he doesn't care about you. I would tell him how you feel in CALM manner. Go by the logic,
"it's all good. "
Good luck and try not to get too bored.
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I'm just going to be blunt about this. My sex life is starting to get really boring. Any ideas on ways to spice it up a little? (My boyfriend is kind of kinky, if that helps) (link)
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Well first of all I would ask your self what is it getting boring in first place. I'm sorry that isn't a good feeling.
However personally to spice things up i like role playing...not nessorily clothes but through dirty talk. If he isn't doing something you want speak up gurl! But with role playing there is alot you can do. Like school girl/ professor, cop/ prisonor, prirate/ sex slave. Catch my drift never be afraid to experiment you'll never you know you'll find out about yourself. Good luck!
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