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Bf problem..


Question Posted Friday March 30 2007, 9:00 pm

I'm grounded for about 2 weeks about I'm off grounding April 4th.
That's when I'm gonna hang out with my bf.
But instead of him talking to me all day and comforting me while I can't do anything since I'm grounded..
He goes out and hangs out with his friends and does other stuff and talks to me on the phone a little.
He has his fun while I'm grounded and lonely and can't hang out with anyone.
I've been talking to my friends on the computer pretty much all day and talked to him a little because he was 'busy'.
Wouldn't it be right for him to comfort me and talk to me all day because I'm grounded??!
I don't get it..


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meghan2492 answered Tuesday April 3 2007, 11:28 am:
you cant expect him to be at your side all the time . i mena like just beacuse you're chained up doesnt mean he has to go thru that as well .
you are lucky to have a bf that cares about you , but give him a break .
would you like to get separated from your friends if your bf got grounded

seriously darling
RELAX
and try not to get in trouble
then you will be able to hang out with him

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clouded_bluee answered Friday March 30 2007, 10:32 pm:
No he shouldn't do that. Do you want him to feel chained to you. He's a guy, he's got to have his fun. Honestly your just grounded, its not like you're extremely sick or leaving for somewhere and won't be back for awhile. Just let him have his fun.

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AskJayme answered Friday March 30 2007, 9:33 pm:
While first off all you should still want him to have fun, just because you have to stay inside doesn't mean he has to. However I completely have been in similar situation when I was younger, it still doesn't feel good. But just because he's doing stuff while your grounded doe not not mean he doesn't care about you. I would tell him how you feel in CALM manner. Go by the logic,
"it's all good. "
Good luck and try not to get too bored.

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carayotie answered Friday March 30 2007, 9:26 pm:
I dont want to sound mean: but even though your grounded, he still has a life other than you. He deserves to go and hang out with his boys. When your ungrounded I'm sure he'll be back by your side.

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happybabe2 answered Friday March 30 2007, 9:22 pm:
well im not trying to be mean at all and i do see your point but your bf has a life too... he likes to hang out with his friends just as much as you do.. maybe he could call and talk to you for maybe an hourish give or take but you have to let him have his space too and let him have some fun..just because your grounded doesnt really mean that he should be too..

-katie

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NinjaNeer answered Friday March 30 2007, 9:21 pm:
Let me get this straight...

You screwed up. You got yourself grounded.

Yet YOU expect HIM to comfort you, and give up his fun?

I'd love to sympathize, but I think you're being a little self-centered. I'm sure your boyfriend has a life other than you.

That's what you don't get.

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