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kissed
i'm 14/f and i've NEVER been kisseed...i don't get it..lots of people say i'm pretty and find me attractive..but i've never ever been asked out...or had a boyfriend or been kissed....it's really embarrasing...there's this guy i like..and how can i make him find me attractive??...or how can i make myself be asked out??...
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it shouldnt matter if youve never been kissed before, when it happens, it happens
and hopefully it will be a nice guy that you are glad he gave you your first kiss
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As horrible as it is, you can't make anyone like you, or think you're attractive. And you can't make anyone ask you out.
And first off hun, you're 14. It's normal to have not been kissed. Lots of people don't get their first kiss until much older, and that doesn't mean there's anything wrong with them. They were probably waiting for the right person. Remember, your first kiss is gonna be something you always remember, and it's supposed to be special. If you just kiss anyone, it's not gonna have meaning. Kiss someone because you like them, not because you're just dying for a kiss.
At this age though, boys are everything, and they're really not. They can do a lot of things to hurt you, but they can also be a really good thing. =) Just be patient, and don't come off as skanky or desperate, while that can turn a guy off, it'd also make them think you're easy. But just be patient, the right guy will come soon. =)
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well you cant make him like you and you cant make anyone kiss you this is 2007 babe everything has changed so u betta 2 before you get left behind ask him out if you dont youll be saying i wonder what would have happend so go for it i dare you
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well you cant make him like you and you cant make anyone kiss you this is 2007 babe everything has changed so u betta 2 before you get left behind ask him out if you dont youll be saying i wonder what would have happend so go for it i dare you
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ok my best friend is like your twin... shes really pretty and has never had a bf and has never been kissed and shes 15 haha to be honest im sure lots of boys have liked you but thought that if they asked you out you would say no since youve never had a bf before...they r just scared to. so maybe if you flirted with this guy alittle he might be able to see you as more then a friend and then maybe u could have one of your friends talk to him for you and find out who he likes... if he says you then you should either just go for it and ask him out or have one of your friends tell him that you like him too... hope i helped!
-katie
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Hey,
I didn't get my first kiss until I was almost 14 & believe me, it's really not that great. At your age guys don't know how to kiss, despite what they say, and neither do girls. Don't be embarrassed. You don't want a guy to like you just because you're attractive & you don't want to force yourself to be asked out. I didn't have a real boyfriend (one that lasted over 2 weeks) until my sophomore year. Believe me its better that way. Just have fun! You're probably a freshman in highschool or in 8th grade. You don't have anything to worry about. I mean honestly, they have even made a movie about a girl who has Never Been Kissed. I'm sure you're not ugly and I'm sure guys find you attractive. The sad truth is, guys go for super hot girls because they tend to be on the easier side. You DON'T want to go there. You also don't want to force a first kiss. When you get it, it will be the right time! Sounds corny, but you want it to be "magical". You're lucky because by now guys will have more experience and the kiss won't be so awkward. Just have fun with guys and when its right, it will happen!!
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