When my fiancee and I have unprotected sex, it doesn't hurt right afterwards. It hurts the next time I go to the bathroom. We use lubricant and we have both been tested for STD's and are clean. Why is it doing that and what can I do to prevent it?
Razhie answered Saturday March 17 2007, 12:40 pm: If the pain is really infrequent and only happens after sex you could be allergic to the lubricant or spermicide in it that you are using. Change your brand and see what happens.
Pain with urination after sex can also happen if you had a full balder while having sex, so don’t have sex if you need to go pee. Ruin the moment, tell him to cool it, and that you’ll be back in a minute. It’s worth it.
If neither of those things reduce the pain you should probably see a doctor and make sure you don’t have a UTI (urinary tract infection) or even an STI they missed before.
The tiniest little bit of discomfort urinating after sex isn’t unusual. It’s recommended that you go pee shortly after sex to clean out any unwelcome bacteria that might have slipped into your urinary tract. If you were in a state of arousal for a very long time, it could also cause everything down there to be a little tense, or even more simply, a little raw. HOWEVER, if the pain is a regular occurrence, please follow my advice and change your lubricant, make sure your bladder is empty, and failing that, see a doctor. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
meghan2492 answered Saturday March 17 2007, 12:29 pm: you might be too tense during the intercourse
just relax more
and then after a while the pain will go away
hope everything gets better !!
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