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can i trust her?
13/f..sorry if it's long..
Ok, I have this friend, let's name her sally. Well sally and i were BEST friends all last year, but we got in a huge fight over the summer and decided to not be such close friends. We couldn't completely stop being friend because we're kind of in the same circle. Well we obviously hadn't resolved our feelings because for the next few months (up until around november or december) we kept getting in huge fights. One of us would talk about the other behind her back, etc. Things finally settled down and we've become ok friends, like we talk and can be normal around each other. I even went over and hung out at her house once. Lately, especially within the last two or three weeks, we've been a really nice to each other. She recently broke up (then later got back together) with her boyfriend and i helped talk her through that and she thanked me for being there. Today, she and i were talking on aim and we started talking about her and her bf and then got on the subject of my love life, i let it slip the guy i like (who she knows) and we talked about him and then later i told her not to tell anyone and she was like of course not. shes a good person, but theres so much history between us, good and bad (and once last year she got mad at me and accidently told the guy i liked i liked him -it was really an accident, its a long story-she keep apologizing and i knew she felt bad), i dont know whether or not i can trust her. I'm afraid to accuse her of being untrustworthy because of course that would get anyone pissed off. Can i trust her?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship?
No matter who fools you, or what anyone tells you, girls are evil kaniving backstabbing little whores. They'll do anything to get what they want, and if hurts others in the process, they really could care less.
Not all girls are like this, but most are. Every girl talks shit, every girl fights, and every girl PMS's & ruins someone's life.
If your friend has betrayed you once, the chances of her doing it again are high. The decision for you to trust her is your own. If you don't think she's trustworthy, you don't have to tell her. Just be careful what you say around her, & be careful of everything.
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were girls and occationly we let things slip so if you cant trust her you cant obviously trust no one so i say trust her again because its worth it
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well i don't know if this helps much but i like live by this quote 'fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice shame on me' well it basically means that if some1 does something that betrays you or does something that loses your trust in them or w/e then its your friends fault entirely but if you take them back as a friend you are always going to have the chance that they will do it again-not many people are willing to change- so if she fools you twice then its kina in a way your fault cause you set yourself up for it... so if i were you i would maybe trust her one more time but i would be careful what i tell her...hope i helped!
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