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in love with best friend
ok well im 14/f. and i have had a huge crush on my best friend for a while now. but he told me he didnt like me when he found out i liked him. it was really depressing and all but then i got over him and started liking him again. he never found out that i started liking him again. he still thinks im over him. but last wednessday i found out why he didnt like me. its because he was "confused" about his orientation. but he said he is not anymore and that he is strait. he also told me he loves me. he always tells me he loves me but the way he said it was different. he said "did i ever tell you i love you? alot. i mean really alot." it was the nicest thing ever and well im not sure if he likes me. because before it seemed like he did but it turned out he only wanted to be friends. he led me on in a way but its not his fault. now that he is strait i think he could like me. and he doesnt know i like him though. i want to kiss him so badly but i think that would be a bit sudden. should i tell him how i feel? or should i just go for it? oh and by the way my friend also likes him. and he knows it. i appreciate the help.
Jennifer&hearts
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Dear Jennifer&hearts,
The guy obviously cares if he is telling you that he loves you etc.
the best thing to do is to flirt.but keep it subtle.
the last thing you want is for this to go too far as friends because it seems like you both want more.
try spending more time with him and flirt a bit.
try touching his hand when he is speaking and look into his eyes and let him know you are interested.
Be yourself! trust me, it helps!
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before i give you any advice.... is it gunna b a problem if you and him hook up? would your friend be mad at you??? and would it be worth it? if it is here goes...
kiss him! don't kiss him on the lips though.... but close enough on the cheek where it is really near to the edges of his lips.... and hold him by the shoulders so you have balance and aim. and so he dsnt move..... when you're done move away slowly look him in the eye and smile... linger for a moment coz there may be a chance for him to kiss you back and this time KISS kiss you ;). BUT DONT STAY MORE THAN A COUPLE OF SECONDS!
if he says what was that for say "oh so i can't i kiss you now?" and leave it to him. just be confident.
and if he fidgets just laugh it of and say what?
i hade rejection so i never ask a guy if he likes me or not. i prefer to see this in action that way i'll look like i am just playful or flirtatious and comfortable around my guy friends....
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well to tell you thetruth this is an ellie and marco situation your "freind" is gay theres no dyning it for you because you know he is but he dosent you need to help him throgh this he needs you to be his freind more than anything and you wont do anything but confuse him more if u reveal your fillings i know you want to but its going to hurt
love jennifer p
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okay, well love is a bit sudden at 14. Plus he probably still doesnt know his sexuality, he may not. And if your friend likes him it complicates things.
i THINK YOU SHOULD JUST TRY TO STAY FRIENDS.
I hope i helped.
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