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Does anybody know how to get rid of the word "Cingular" on the phone?
like, when you flip it open, it has your background, and i took this cute pic, but the word singular is going through my friends head.
is there a way to get rid of it?!

thanks guys (link)
I dont think you can. Its set in the phone's programing so i dont think so.

---Brandon---


What kind of person would you go to to get help from cutting yourself? I'm talking about prfessional help. What type of procedures would they take. What kind of things would they ask you? (link)
You normally go to a psychologist, or a teen therapist.

There are alot of clinics and Im sure if you google search clinics in your area will pop up.

If you need anything else just drop somthing in my inbox.

Brandon


hey, do you guys believe once a cheater always a cheater? also not just cheating on someone in general, if they cheated on you in a relationship that they had with you in the past. (link)
Generally once the door to cheating is open, the cheater feels more lax to do so in another relationship. Just try it at your own risk I guess.

Hope it works out!

---Brandon---


Is there a website where I can find some of the script for certain plays??? (link)
www.ScriptFly.com

or just google search script. It really depends on what your looking for. Movie script are on script fly tho.

Hope I helped!

---Brandon---


I, 16/m, should probably tell you now I'm gay or you lose the entire premise of this. okay, so It was New Year's Eve and I called one of my friends (we'll call him Jake for further analysis.) Jake, 14/m, and we started talking. Jake's an eighth grader and I'm a high school sophmore. So I told him that I liked him on New Year's, thinking that he didnt like me back. Well, he did. So we dated for the next week and then I answered the phone and he told me, "your not gonna like this," and I mean, I got pretty scared. Well, then he said, "I gotta go, I'll ttyl," and then right before he hung up, he goes, "I'm straight."

So Im thinking okay, I need to talk to him and see if our friendship is still okay. So I call him back a day later and I told him I'd like to talk about it, and he says, "I dont have any thing else to say." and I got pissed and hung up.
Plus Jake's older brother is a Senior at my school and really popular in the theater dept. like I hope to be. So I got really scared that his brother might find out and just told a few of my friends.

Well, literally, two months passed without me seeing him, and then I went to my schools spring musical and he was there I talked to him during intermission and he still said he didnt know his sexuality. I told him that I thought I deserved an explanation. He said I did, but someone interupted us, and I never got one.

Right as we were going back to our seats I told him that I was over him and that I wanted him out of my life.

I cried through the entire second act, as I was driven home, as I went to sleep, and two days later.

I dont know what to do. I don't want to love him, and he doesnt deserve it, but I do. Please help me. What should I do?
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This way it's first on my column, please read if you are answering the other question.


14/F
okay so i moved here earlier this year, -- i met some friends and through those friends i met my now, best friend, her name is Gina. Over the past couple of months me and Gina have been getting really close and all. Close enough that we have been sharing secrets and stuff. So we realized that we both cut. me more then her..but a few weeks ago she told me i was the only one who knew that she used to have an eating disorder for the past two years and she has had her withdrawels and relapses and stuff.. [you can deff. tell by looking at her that she does] Well now im more cautious of what she eats because i really care about her. The past few days ive been noticing she hasnt been eating or eats very little. today she brought cookies,cheesecurls,a sandwhich and a crunch bar. [her mom packed it.] and she gave away all the junk food leaving her with the sandwhich..she stared at it and threw it away. im really concerned for Gina. shes my best friend and i dont want to lose her and i want her to still feel like she can talk to me. what do i do? (link)
Make sure that she knows she can talk to you, it's very important that you keep the lines of communication open. She may not want to talk to you about it, but if you're her best friend then i think she will eventually.
Just make sure she knows your there for her and take note of the signs of increased problems.
This is a really good site for the signs of an eating disorder. I hope you look it over.

http://www.something-fishy.org/isf/signssymptoms.php


Hope I helped!!!

---Brandon---


Im literally crying right now...I feel that my family doesnt love me anymore. My parents are very demanding they dont even seem to care about my life anymore. i have 3 younger sisters, which makes me the oldest. The second youngest sister i have gets all the attention, they look up to her, they treat her with respect. shes like the boss of the other 2 younger siblings. and they are supposed to look up to me. but alls they do is just be mean to me ignore me and dont even talk to me. so i feel left out of the family, out of place. i feel sad right now. i feel like im the only child. i just noticed this as i was watching myself today. my second youngest sister in line used to be my best friend. but not anymore. im not jealous, but im unhappy with my family life. i would like to feel equal. but i dont and i cant stop crying about it. someone please help me, i will defintely give you a rating of 5 if you give me somewhat good advice. I really need it now! (link)
I really dont know what to say. I mean, I have two other brothers and we fight all the time, but normally they just get over it. I would just advise that you try and talk to your parents and try to talk it out w/ your sisters.

If that doesnt work, then surround yourself with friends that you know care about yoou and value who you are. I dont know anyway else to put it.

I really hope that things get better for you and feel free to leave something in my inbox any time.

--Brandon--


how do i know when my husband is having an orgasm?

how do i know when he's pleased? (link)
normally, you can tell with moaning and such, and he may tell you, but the literal meaning is the releasing of the fluids in ejaculation, so you'll be able to tell quite easily.


k, well i kinda guess i need someone whos already been in middle school to answer this..

when you were in middle school, were all the major slutty kids the most popular? like girl wise? & does that mostly change in highschool? because, i mean some of them are my friends & are actually cool, but some are just annoying & guys tottaly use them. but like, i once joined into that, & then for the most part regretted it. but like you always will here these stories about who made out with who & who did what. & then i dont know it makes me feel out of the group. but like i dont know..

im just wondering does it get better? (link)
people get more mature as time goes on....

with that said, there are still alot of slutty girls in high school, and most of them get used, but they also wisen up.

Just dont worry about, they'll find out on their own terms and they will get better, and if not, they lead the life they choose to.


Hope I helped


Well I masterbate and I can get an orgazume easily but I need new ways I am getting bored with the rubbing yourself and all any ideas? (link)
this may not be the right site for you, but ill help you with the question anyway.

You should probably have phone sex or look at pictures that turn you on.

Its not r4ocket science, but next time, come to this site with a more serious question.


13/f
lately, i've been feeling kind of down sometimes.
It's like, when im hanging with my friends, im fine most of the time.
When I'm home, with nothing to distract me, I tend to get very depressed.
Well depressed is a strong, i just feel kind of sad for no specific reason.
I get in a lot of fights with my parents and that stinks, and I like a guy I can never have, but besides for that I have a pretty good life.
What's going on?
What do i do?
Thanks! (link)
well clearly the liking a guy you can "never have" has to be crucial.

In fact, i'd like to talk to you more over that specific aspect, if youd be willing to.

just leave me something in my inbox
--Brandon---


My housemate just came home with a chinchilla.

I have borderline severe asthma. I'm allergic to everything with fur and feathers. They didn't consult with me before getting it because "they're hypoallergenic pets".

I've been doing research, and apparently they're not. I'm not just allergic to dander; I'm allergic to saliva, which, oddly enough, ends up in the air.

I'm really ticked off that they didn't talk to me first, knowing what my condition was like (this same guy brought two cats to the house TWICE to stay for weekends, and I ended up in the hospital because of it).

Am I right in being annoyed?

Has anyone been in the same situation (housemate with a pet they're allergic to) and have any tips on how to keep my next 3 years from being miserable? (link)
Regardless of the military thing, it was still inconsiderate. she should have consulted you first, she knows about your allergy and the fact that she put you at risk is awful.

I truly think that she needs to get rid of it, she cant be that lonely, she does have a roommate, and you should seriously consider leaving after the lease runs out.

Plus, when you signed the lease, this pet wasnt involved. You had no idea that she would bring a pet home, so your not at fault at all.

I hope that you will talk to her about it and seriously try to arrange the pet an alternate home.

I hope that i've helped even the smallest bit.

Good luck!

--Brandon--


I am 5 feet exactly. I weigh about 110 lbs. I really want to lose 5-10 lbs. by June. How can I do this? What excercises...what to eat? How much to drink? etc.etc.

f/15.
i know- im not overweight- but it all goes to my stomach, so i want to get rid of that.

thanks:} (link)
i recommend crunches, about 50 a day, maybe 30 min. of running a day, and 8 glasse4s of water a day.

You dont really need to change your diet much, just eat SENSIBLY.

NO JUNK FOOD.

hope i helped.


ok well im 14/f. and i have had a huge crush on my best friend for a while now. but he told me he didnt like me when he found out i liked him. it was really depressing and all but then i got over him and started liking him again. he never found out that i started liking him again. he still thinks im over him. but last wednessday i found out why he didnt like me. its because he was "confused" about his orientation. but he said he is not anymore and that he is strait. he also told me he loves me. he always tells me he loves me but the way he said it was different. he said "did i ever tell you i love you? alot. i mean really alot." it was the nicest thing ever and well im not sure if he likes me. because before it seemed like he did but it turned out he only wanted to be friends. he led me on in a way but its not his fault. now that he is strait i think he could like me. and he doesnt know i like him though. i want to kiss him so badly but i think that would be a bit sudden. should i tell him how i feel? or should i just go for it? oh and by the way my friend also likes him. and he knows it. i appreciate the help.

Jennifer&hearts

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okay, well love is a bit sudden at 14. Plus he probably still doesnt know his sexuality, he may not. And if your friend likes him it complicates things.

i THINK YOU SHOULD JUST TRY TO STAY FRIENDS.

I hope i helped.


what i'm i supposed to do when my friend (its a guy)keeps telling me about all of this perverted stuff his g.f is doing and it makes him mad? i told him if its gross not to tell me, but he did anyway. he is the most sensitive guy i have ever met and idk what i should do. i hate to say it but almost everyone from his town are slutty, including his g.f. i tried to tell him that it probably wont work out but he really likes her. and every time i talk to him, even if i dont ask him he spills out his entire life. he's really nice and i want to be friends with him, but i dont want to be his therapist. what should i do? (link)
just try to be his friend first and answer his questions. You can help him with his problems without being his therapist.

And try to warn him about his girlfriend, dont be mean about it, just try to talk it out with him.


Okay, my boyfriend of 18 months graduates high school in May. I was thinking about just giving him $100. Good idea? Should I even give him a graduation present? If so, what?

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I think that you were right in assuming money, because it is versatile. that way he can get what he wants. It's very sweet of you to get him a graduation gift. I do think that you should try and make a handmade card or something personal along with the money.

This way you get versatile along with personal.

Hope I helped.

--Brandon--


ok.... so im 13/f and at school my bestfriend started hanging out with this girl that i got into a fist fight with and became bestfriends and then she got mad at me cause her boyfriend said he liked me instead of her then she got like almost the hole school against me and started calling me a "fat ugly cow" and that "i look like a side of a cow" and started wrighting on the walls about me i love her like a sister and all but is she really my friend (link)
ummmmmmmm, no. real friends stick with you when things get tough, and it sounds like she just got bitchy. I hate to say that, but thats what it sounds like.

Just let the insults slide off, see if her bf, or ex, either way, actually likes you or not, and take things from there.

Just leave her alone. You may love her like a sister, but thats not how she loves you.


Me and My sister's neighbor are friends. We started out really slow then over spring break she just can;t stop hanging out with me. I mean everytime, which i like. But I feel she giving me these mixed signals like she wants to be more than friends but when I asked she says no which i know she is lying. But she has alot of drama and I found out today, she is pregnant by her best best friend and she having an abortion!. which i don't believe and she don;t wanna be with him. I feel she wants to be with me because she is alaways around me and always flirting, touching me sexual but wat to do??? She even told me she would like to be with me but she can;t! HELP!!!!! (link)
sounds like this girl is quite complicated. I think that it all comes down to if you want to be with her. I dont know if the pregnancy thing is a rumor or not (you didnt say) but regardless, even if she is, you already said she doesnt want to be with the guy, she wants to be with you.

Just slow things down, and try to talk to her about it. If she does like you (really like you) and she's not just flirty, then you take things from that. Its up to you.

I wish you luck man.

--Brandon--


i hate this. i dont usually care what people think. ive been called a lesbian and emo before and i dont care. but now people are saying the only reason i hang out with this one guy who is like my best friend is cuz i still like him and i want him to like me even though we all know he doesnt. even though thats the reason i originally bacame friends with him, i dont hang out with him because of that. i hate it how people think im so pathetic. it makes me feel like i am. and i dont even know anymore. i like my friends and i dont just hang out with them to get to him. not at all. ugh

im so frustrated please anyone help btw im 14/f (link)
People in middle school say some terrible things, but apparently they're just saying them to hurt you because they called you a lesbian and then said you liked a guy. lol.

But, just let it slide off, I had trouble in school too, and I just learned that if you surround yourself with friends, then you wont care as much.

I used to hate when people told me that as long as i didnt look hurt they'd just go away, when to be honest, if they're trying to hurt you, they might keep trying.

Just keep with your friends and dont let it bother you, rest with the fact that they're stupid and end up being a janitor when your an astro physist, thats what I did.


I hope i helped and I hope that school gets better for you.


I'm planning on buying something to record video onto a VHS tape. I don't know anything about video technology. Do you have to buy a video camera that you but a VHS tape in? If you have a camcorder and record video onto an 8mm tape, is there an inexpensive, easy way to put it onto a VHS? (link)
You can buy a camcorder that records directly to vhs, but if you get digital, then you can recor it through a VCR.

That or you can just go completely digital and burn it to DVD through your computer with a digital camcorder.

Up to you, but those are the main options.




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