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tired of ppl being so mean
i hate this. i dont usually care what people think. ive been called a lesbian and emo before and i dont care. but now people are saying the only reason i hang out with this one guy who is like my best friend is cuz i still like him and i want him to like me even though we all know he doesnt. even though thats the reason i originally bacame friends with him, i dont hang out with him because of that. i hate it how people think im so pathetic. it makes me feel like i am. and i dont even know anymore. i like my friends and i dont just hang out with them to get to him. not at all. ugh
im so frustrated please anyone help btw im 14/f
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People in middle school say some terrible things, but apparently they're just saying them to hurt you because they called you a lesbian and then said you liked a guy. lol.
But, just let it slide off, I had trouble in school too, and I just learned that if you surround yourself with friends, then you wont care as much.
I used to hate when people told me that as long as i didnt look hurt they'd just go away, when to be honest, if they're trying to hurt you, they might keep trying.
Just keep with your friends and dont let it bother you, rest with the fact that they're stupid and end up being a janitor when your an astro physist, thats what I did.
I hope i helped and I hope that school gets better for you.
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ik that what people say sometimes is really hurtful and all but you really just have to ignore it just let your friends know that that stuff isnt true and if they are your true friends then they will believe you and will still be your friend.. if ppl know that you arent bothered by what they are saying then they will stop..people want a reaction and when they get one they feel like they have succeeded...yea they are sucky people but thats life hope i helped!
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Kids at this age are harsh, I'm telling you, I'm seeing this in kids as young as 5 years old... You just have to be stronger and let it not bother you. If you work at it long enough, eventualy you'll gain your confidence back completely and nothing will bother you... If that doesn't work, Grab a bat and knock em all over the head! lol Good luck.
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Tell them to fuck themselves.
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