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Location: New York
Occupation: Audio Engineer
Age: 19
Member Since: November 15, 2006
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Last Update: August 26, 2008
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Hey Guys yea i'm Back with the same problem yea that boy again... and this time he likes this other girl I just wanna know whats wrong with me y cant he see me and like me oh and did i mention ive liked this guy for 5 years now!!! so what do i do Plz Help
The Poor Confused Boy Obsessed Girl!!!!! (link)
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Well, I had a friend with the same problem. She kept going after a guy for years and he was just never into her.
You're only causing yourself pain,
So the best advice is....
GET OVER IT.
And YES, you can do it.
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i have a problem. sometimes i get so afraid, i get really nervous, and i freak out inside, people can only tell when i talk or walk. when i talk, i start studdering, or my voice is just shakey and when i walk, i stuble into or over things.. it's kind of funny. and i avoid looking people in the eye. i get nervous when i feel people judge me..in a bad way, when i present/ or sing in front of a class/crowd i get nervous- even if the crowd is just three people, i get nervous when driving when i don't know exactly where to go to get to where i'm going, i get nervous when i first meet people(i know everyone does), i get nevous when i talk to really pretty girls, or really hott guys. and i get nevous in many other situations. it's so stupid, and i can't control my nerves. it gets a little better when i get comfortable in the situation, but the fear doesn't go away. i think the source of my fear is from my dad when he use to hit us when i was a kid. when he got the belt out, i would always run, but he always got me in a corner. he hit us with the belt buckle so it really hurt and left bruises. i think once i get afraid, i get in like a survival mode- i can make my breathing soundless to where nobody can hear it, i'm brave but afraid.
i just want to know how i can get over my fear entirely, not just a little and i want to know how to make it stop. (link)
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I wouldn't recomend medication, although i'm not saying it won't work, it's just something I don't agree with...
An uncontrollable fear is pretty much a phobia, it's irrational. What I would suggest, only because I have had a good experience, is hypnotherapy.
Now, I know it might sound wierd or even scary, but it worked for me because I was open to the idea.
I had a phobia that was so bad, probably even harder to understand than your fears.
If you have any questions, feel free to ask
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my boy friend says that some girl squirt when they orgasm. i only get wet am i wierd? (link)
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yes
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My boyfriend and I had sex (WITH A CONDOM) about a month ago and I realized my period was late. I mean I was stressed about A LOT and sick on top of that so I realize those could be a factor to it being later than normal... therefore I didn't panic too much.
But I kept getting normal stomach aches... not exactly cramps but I felt like my period was about to come. Although it was a few weeks late it eventually came, although it was extremely light... should I be worried?
I mean usually my periods don't completely end for an entire week. They start off kinda heavy and gradually lighten up... but it's like this one started kinda light and then stopped completely within 3 days...
I heard periods can come right after you have sex sometimes, even if you are pregnant. should I be worried? I mean my next period shouldn't be coming until the end of this month but I'm concerned that somehow something in the condom could have seeped through and entered me.
Do you think I could be pregnant? Or is this normal? I mean my periods been late before but not where it's been extremely light like this.
are there any symptoms I should look for?
My breasts haven't been sore
I haven't been having morning sickness
I haven't been having cravings out of the ordinary...
but I have been having vaginal discharge. I get that every once in a while anyway but I mean is this a sign of pregnancy? It's creamy and white but I mean I seem to be getting it more than normal...
please help. thanks. (link)
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Well, did you JUST start having sex?, Like recently?
Everything you described happened to me when I started having sex, and I never got pregnant. My period came light, but it came back normal after a while.
I think there's nothing to be worried about, BUT that's just based on my own experience, since I experienced pretty much all the same symptoms you're describing....
If you're still worried, the best way to find out is to take a pregnancy test.
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i want to get into music production, and work up to eventually owning my own label.
but before i do this i need to find a school with a good music recording/production program.
has anyone heard of good schools or programs?
thankyou! (link)
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www.audioschool.com
that's in new york city.
it's really good.
look into it
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Ok, so, you know how when girls ejaculate, they like, well, almost like, pee a little? How do guys react to that? I wouldn't want to be doing anything and do that all over him and have him think it's gross.
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What? You pee too???
The female ejaculation, guys tend to like it cause it shows that you're horny...
But I don't know about the pee... I don't know how a guy would react to that.
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heyy im very anxious about having sex 4 the first time!!all my friends told me it hurts like hell.is it true????? im really really scared (link)
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Yeah, it hurts the first few times...
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I've just started learning to play guitar, and I'm kind of getting the hang of it, but my fingers hurt like crazy. anyone know a way to make my fingers callus over faster? I've heard rubbing them with alcohol helps, but i dunno. any tips? (link)
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nope! Just keep on playing till they hurt no more!
soon enough the tips of your fingers will be pretty stiff and it won't hurt anymore.
be patient
and have fun!
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ok i have a ton of questions.
1) which diet pills work the best?
2) what is the general price for diet pills?
3) where can you get them?
4) do you need and ID?
5) what are the worst side effects?
thanks! (link)
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Diest pills do not work.
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i have this drink but i havent used it yet. it's like a drink whitch burns fat ? would it work? if it does we'll i loose my love handles? is their anyway to loose them? i hate going on diets it's really hard. i almost have no time for excercising. i'm not going to take pills thats for sure. HELP?! (link)
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Taking that drink would be just as bad as taking pills.
Start with about 50 bicycle crunches, or sit ups, whatever theyre called, right before you go to bed.
You'll lose the love handles.
And eat organic, all natural foods.
And excersise would be the only thing to keep you in shape. You have to make time.
Riding a bike would give you the fastest results.
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My dad just got an ipod(used, but fairly new) as an eary xmas gift, and my mom got a brand new ipod nano. We got itunes, and everything was great, but you know that box that allows you to only sync checked songs? NEITHER of them have that option - the box is grayed out. So in other words, my mom will have to have every song my dad downloads, and my dad will have to have every song my mom downloads. Is there any way around this? They don't have separate computers to do their itunes on.
Every search I've done has been extremely unhelpful.
Is there any way to ungray that box maybe? (link)
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Simple!
Create two playlists.
One for your mom & one for your dad.
Then drag their songs from the main library into their own seperate playlist.
And on the ipod update, there is an option to "autofill from"... And select who evers playlist for their ipod and click autofill.
I hope that made sense...
Let me know if that helps
=)
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when someone is lifting weights and working out is it bad to have sex does it diminish muscle growth? (link)
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I don't really know, But I don't think so.
I can't imagine why... If anything, it may help a little
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I really like my bgf possibly even love him and i know he loves me. He just told me. I may be going into a serious relationship with him soon. The thing is we have an amazing friendship and bong or w/e but im not physically attracted to him. I really wish i was. Some things i like but i have had other bf's that i thought were just SO hott but hes not like that. Hes attracted to me and i turn him on and sumtimes when he says sweet things to me im turned on but not really when im with him in person or he does sumthing. im not meaning like to have sex or anything cause we def. arent planning for that! but i would just like it if i was attracted to him. its kinda saddening that im not haha. any advice? thanx!
and is 14 to young to have a serious relationship with a boy whos 15 1/2 cause we are amazingly close and have been best friends for a year+ i think it's fine if you really care about the person but i want to know what all u guys think :)
thanks and i will rate helpful advice! ;) (link)
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Maybe you love him more as a friend than to have an actual relationship with him.
I can only speak from my experience, but when you love someone enough to be in a romantic relationship with, they start to become more attractive over time, the more you fall in love with them, the more attractive they become.
If you love him like you say you do, over time he will become the most hansome guy you've ever seen. Unless of course you're completely shallow, but I doubt that's the case. =)
As for you being too young, I don't think you are... If anything you'll learn a great deal from this experience... And if you feel you're ready, then go for it.
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i want to do music business when i go to college. [im a junior in high school now.] i would love ot go to the university of miami but to be honest, i know nothing about the actual field of music business..if i studied it, what am i going to be learning/getting myself into? (link)
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Music Business, You'll learn about Contract, how artist , musicains, record companies get paid and do business, you'll learn about royalties, etc. etc. I took a music business class in college... It's really interesting, you'll enjoy it a lot.
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Okay, so my best friend and I are guy crazy..but she has like a new boyfriend every week and/or has this "hott guy" whose like 5 years older than her who likes her. I mean when we talk on the phone THATS ALL SHE TALKS ABOUT and she tells me every single detail and wont shutup about "oh my gosh he's really cute". But whenever i have guy news she doesnt comments or she's like "oh,wow" then she continues on with her stupid conversation. I MEAN YEAH SHE'S A HOE!!! EVERYONE AT SCHOOL SAYS IT. But how do i tell her to shut the eff up without sounding so mean? (link)
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Sometimes being mean is the only way to do it.
Being honest is being mean.
Tell her, straight up to her face.
If you don't, someone else will.
If she turns on you, she was never your friend to begin with.
Think about what your morals are.
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I'm 15 years old/female. And I'm constantly hungry. I'm not obese or anything. I'm actually really average for my age. Is it normal to always have the urge to eat something? My house has no junk food at all...everything is organic and healthy. But I'm scared to gain weight. ..should I follow my urge to eat? (link)
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It could be anxiety, or boredom.
If you must eat, get some fruit or something... If you're eating organic it shouldn't be too bad for you. Just be active also and you won't gain weight
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I'm finding guitar tabs online, but when it lists a note that is played for a few words consecutively, does that mean to strum? I'm new at this, so can someone please inform me of how any song like so is meant to be played? (link)
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yeah man, just listen to the actual song and listen to how the guitar player plays it. Follow the rhythm
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I was wondering if any one knew any good programs/websites i could go to or use to Split,Edit, or Cut songs? Thanks =) (link)
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dude. what the hells audacity. I do this kind of stuff for a living and i've never heard of that!
Anyway, I use protools
www.digidesign.com
but theres a lot of other programs like
Acid, Nuendo, etc. etc.
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Hi!
So is there a weightwatchers program for men? I mean guys need help too when it comes to losing weight.
It seems like men are completely left out of everything to do with diets, dieting and weight loss. Why is that?
THANKS! (link)
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Weigh watchers is for both men and women, It's just more advertisedd towards women because women care waaaaaaaaay too much about what they look like and need to match up to the super models on tv. the media brainwashed fat ladies!!!
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Ok here's the deal.I'm 15 f.My sis is a lasbian.FOR REAL!!!!But see I watch movies with my guy friend, and if i see someone kissing or messing around in bed (not sex) I get REALLY horny.Then I look over at my friend and I start thinkin' about "it." Then I just get more horny when we have a friendly hug good bye.What should I do about this? (link)
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Yeah, for real. What's your lesbian sister have to do with anything?!?!?!
HAVE you ever heard of MASTERBATION??? DO THAT!
or take everyones advice and make moves on your friend! That sounds good too.
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